Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

Lance and Dante discuss bullies, why they bully others, what we as parents can do, and also tips for our children if they are bullied.

Lance and Dante discuss the disciples of Jesus and how they were selected, including using their strengths and faults for the glory and advancement of God's Kingdom. 

Lance and Dante discuss the traits and attributes of modern special operations warriors and how they are applicable to your marriage, parenting, and life.

Lance and Dante discuss the techniques used to manipulate people on an individual and group basis. These techniques are used by politicians, the media, marketing, and people who want to influence, persuade, or manipulate us.

Dante and Lance talk about keeping romance and intimacy in the marriage after you've had kids. Practical ways to keep the fire alive 24/7 when we are tired and stressed out from life.

Lance and Dante talk with Brandon and Taylor from Brothers of Merit about authentic brotherhood, truly doing life together, and creating bonds that last a lifetime. Lance and Dante are also on Brothers of Merit's Podcast this week so check them and us out on itunes, spotify, and at brothersofmerit.com

Dante and Lance talk about the Dad Novelty - fathers who start out on fire but then burn out after a few years. Lance discusses the difference between the protection phase and the preparation phase of parenting and five ways to stay the course and finish strong.

Lance and Dante discuss recent church leaders who have been fired, resigned, or forced out of their positions. Why does this happen, how does the church body respond, and how can this be prevented.

Lance and Dante talk about why many of the popular parenting books fail long term, the lasting consequences of behavior modification and manipulation, and how to use a more positive parenting strategy that addresses the root of behavior issues while developing character.

Lance and Dante discuss some complaints from Christian women about men and spiritual leadership, discipleship, consistency, and being a Christ-like husband and father.

Dante and Lance talk about what causes frustration and anger while parenting and how to mitigate it. Lance and Dante also explain how to create a home environment that reflects Christ like character and minimizes the areas that cause frustration.

Dante and Lance discuss managing money, budgets, and Biblical stewardship in marriage. How to communicate with your spouse on what money means to you, different perspectives on stewardship and how to reach common ground when conflict arises.

Lance and Dante walk you through the history of the early Christian Church from Christ to the 1600's. Major events include early teachings and writings, adoption of the faith by Rome, the fall of Rome, the Middle Ages and abuses of power, the split of the Eastern and Western Church, and the Reformation and split of Protestantism.

Dante and Lance discuss the similarities and fundamental differences of the three major religions.

Lance and Dante try to distinguish fact from fiction in what the Bible actual says about end times, persecution of the Church, and tribulation.

Lance and Dante talk about Revelation and various teachers in the New Testament warning of false teachers.

Lance and his daughter talk about what life was like growing up in the Legacy Dads house, getting into trouble, relationships and what dads can do to raise confident, secure young women.

Dante and Lance talk about how Lance and his wife went from being separated and headed to divorce to healing, earning back trust, and repairing the damage in their marriage.

Lance and his wife talk about common themes of dysfunctional families and parents struggling with children who exhibit behavioral issues. Lance's wife is a licensed behavioral health clinician working with children, teens, and families.

Socialism is a popular concept on college campuses these days and some politicians have any claimed that Jesus was a socialist. Lance and Dante dissect this idea against scripture, history, and economics.

Lance and Dante talk about balancing being in the world but not of the world and how that affects our walk and witness. For parents, balancing sheltering our children with exposing them to the world without fear. 

Dante and Lance discuss Matthew 7 and judgmental attitudes. Dante and Lance also discuss racism and how dehumanizing thoughts and language can lead people to do unimaginable things.

Lance and Dante talk about how to maintain civility and be the salt and light on social media and when discussing highly charged topics.

Dante and Lance discuss a NY Times article where the author tries to imply that being a good dad means you're taking on the role of a mother. Gender Roles and Biblical Roles.

Legacy Dads talk about "toxic masculinity" and why this was never God's plan for men.