Late To The Party - a podcast on Autism, AuDHD and Neurodivergence

Send us Fan Mail Bianca and Dan have much to discuss on this episode, from sex mad SIMS, weird stalkers, upsetting Ben Lee and much more. But most importantly there has been a flurry of activity over on the private Facebook page with some fascinating insights and questions. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present.   We very much want you to share your stories and opinions...

Send us Fan Mail We are so very proud to release part 2 with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions.  Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present.   We very much want you to share your stories and opinions. Join our public and private pages to start the discussio...

Send us Fan Mail We are so very proud to release part 1 of a 2 part episode with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. Here is what was covered during just this episode - What are pronouns and who cares. Do only gay people have pronouns? What is Trans? Gender fluidity Is Gender Bina...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode we welcome Jason Crabtree from Bubble Support , a disability services and support organisation.  Disability support coordinators play a vital role in improving the lives of individuals with disabilities. They assess needs, develop personalized support plans, coordinate services, monitor progress, advocate for participants, and link them with community resources. Th...

Send us Fan Mail So you had a big night and you have woken up exhausted. On this episode we explore the challenges of how to take care of yourself after a big night out. Attending big parties can be challenging for autistic individuals due to sensory overload and social demands. We offer some useful coping strategies that will help you deal with those next day blues. Bianca and Dan also review how...

Send us Fan Mail There is a reason we called the podcast Late To The Party. On this episode we explore the challenges of preparing yourself for an upcoming event. We provide some useful tips on how to get yourself ready for what can be an overwhelming experience. As usual we have an Autistic Moment, Listener Feedback and Neurodivergent Digest. Please come join us on our socials where we are very m...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to episode 42 Party Poopers. Welcome to our podcast where we discuss the misconceptions surrounding autistic adults. Autism is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. Unfortunately, there are many myths and stereotypes surrounding autism that can lead to misunderstandings and discrimination. In this podcast, we wi...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to season 3 of Late To The Party. What a year it was. Thank you to all our listeners for their ongoing support and a big thank you to all our Party Poopers on the private group for their continued contributions. Everyone is welcome to join us at  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726 On this episode we talk about what to do if someone asks you if they might be a...

Send us Fan Mail Bianca and Dan proudly present their unforgettable Autistic Family Spectacular. How our dear listeners choose to interpret the word unforgettable is up to them. This is not our usual format and dare we hazard to say the professionalism this episode is as on-point as getting your husband to wrap the presents.  So join us and strap in, get your drink on and get your singing voices w...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode Bianca and Dan talk all things teenager. Specifically, how different is the teenage experience for autistic people. With depression, anxiety and eating disorders being so prevalent for autistic teens, it is not a stretch to say that this period of your life can be the pits. Bianca and Dan also talk to some actual teens and compare their experience to their own.  We...

Send us Fan Mail Have you packed your toothbrush? Never fear, Bianca and Dan take you on a journey of discovery as they discuss what it is like being autistic and going on holiday. To help us we invited special attaché party pooper Sonja as she regales us with her recent holiday with an all-neurodivergent cast of characters, Bianca and Dan provide you with some excellent tips and tricks to ensure...

Send us Fan Mail Bianca and Dan talk about the upcoming holidays, what we enjoy and what we struggle with. Most importantly they provide some excellent coping strategies (well some are pretty weird) to help you get through the silly season. Dan also shares some of his favourite Christmas themed music. See below for the playlist.  They also review an excellent slideshow on executive functioning tha...

Send us Fan Mail Bianca and Dan have been absent for a few weeks and Chartreuse has something to say about that. Which leads us to this episode's topic. Anxiety. On a previous episode the listeners got to experience Bianca going through a tough stretch with her anxiety, and while she soldiered on it was clear the wounds were still new.  But with time and perspective (and perhaps a little medicatio...

Send us Fan Mail This episode has a smell of success about it. There is an aroma of positivity and friendship in the air as we speak to perfumer Rini, a late diagnosed autistic who owns and runs Wilderness Labs, an award-winning business that sells botanical Solid Perfumes and Lotion Bars. Rini talks about her life and her late diagnosis with such clarity and positivity. There are so many facets t...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode we dispel the idea that we need to return to better days. For an autistic person this is not a sensible or likely solution. We read a brilliant article from Kristy Forbes and look at common issues that autistic people experience when trying to just get life done. We have another excellent review by Party Pooper Sonja on attending a concert as an autistic person. Da...

Send us Fan Mail This episode we speak with Occupational Therapist Charlinda Parsons. For anyone late diagnosed autistic or ADHD this is an incredibly informative conversation that provides insight into why an adult needs an OT just as much as any other age. Bianca and Dan round off the episode with a deep dive into laughter and wait around for a new song from Dan that encapsulates the discussion...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode we get to speak to Nicholas McMahill. We have been following his journey on Facebook for a while now and have been so impressed by how much he has achieved in such a short time since being diagnosed Autistic. He is a Special Olympics athlete, a podcaster, YouTuber and is a strong neurodivergent advocate in his community. Dan and Nicholas have a great chat and lots...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode we discuss the merits of Dan's newly coloured beard against the legitimacy of Barbie with the help of the amazing Blindboy Podcast. Dan is given a new role at work which a lot of our Party Poopers will appreciate.  Most importantly we get to speak to Dan (and Bianca's former) psychologist Laura Addabbo. For anyone about to go through the process of getting diagnose...

Send us Fan Mail Thirty episodes, we are so proud of ourselves. And what an episode we have for you all. We speak to everyone's favourite actor and star of Love on the Spectrum, Micheal Theo. It was an absolute thrill for us, and we had such a fun conversation with him. This is not your boring typical interview. Michael gets to show his amazing acting chops and character voices with us as well as...

Send us Fan Mail This episode proves to be a difficult challenge for Dan as he opens up about his body dysmorphia.  Dan, always the resilient chap, drops his guard and invites listeners to share his difficult journey from shame to revelation and hopefully acceptance. Please note this episode deals with eating disorders and may be triggering for some. The episode also has its lighter moments, such...

Send us Fan Mail Bianca and Dan discuss the highs and lows of mixed relationships, those being neurodivergent and neurotypical. We look at the experience from both sides point of view and offer some practical advice on what you can do to maintain a happy healthy relationship. Listen in to a phone call between producer Chartreuse and Biancas mother as they attempt to resolve their differences and w...

Send us Fan Mail Dan realises he has an apology to make, which is excellent timing given this weeks topic is about friendships. Bianca and Dan delve into their past to try and make sense of friendships lost and maintained. This is without doubt the most Autistic episode that has been recorded. Friendships are hard! Enjoy regular segments Autistic Moment, Neurodivergent Digest and Text fuckups. You...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode Biance and Dan talk games, particularly The Last Of Us, and Bianca offers up a classic 'have you noticed.' Dan also speaks to his daughter Eloise about games, parents and bullies. We are also treated to two Autistic Moments involving Eloise and Bianca. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present.   We very much want you to share your stories a...

Send us Fan Mail On this episode Bianca and Dan want to talk about what happens after the diagnosis (this includes self-diagnosis) in terms of how it changes you. Do you behave more Autistic? Are other people saying this? How has it changed you. The call was made to the Late To The Party private group and we share some of their experiences too, with their permission of course. We also have a very...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode we are excited to share with you an interview with Autistic and ADHD diagnosed Provisional Psychologist Lynette Dickenson. Lynette shares with us her many interesting jobs that led her to become a psychologist.   Lynette combines her professional expertise with personal experiences. We delve into her journey, debunk misconceptions, and uncover practical strategies...