Late Night Snackin’

IT'S OUR ANNIVERSSSAAARRYYYY! In this episode we take turns asking each other questions reflecting on the last 3 years. We talk about how things aren't exactly how we thought they'd be 3 years in, but how we're happy and grateful, nonetheless. Grab a snack and enjoy this sneak peek into the "deeper" side of our conversations. The Hookup Instax Bundle Instax Camera Instax Film Buy Me a Coffee Coffe...

AND WE'RE BACK!!! In this episode we each share our thoughts on why we think men and women cheat. We state the importance of communicating lack of needs met in your relationship before stepping out to cheat as well as chat about unintentional cheating. We end the episode with a nice rhetorical question: would you like it to be done to you? -- making sure that you think about the other person's fee...

LAST EPISODE!!! In this episode we cover the infamous 5 love languages. We talk about what each of them mean, the importance of selflessly loving your partner in their love language, how languages can change overtime, our own love languages, and the subjectivity of love. We also mention/link a book you can read to dive further into the languages on your own time. We hope y'all have enjoyed this se...

In this episode we talk about all things goals! We chat about the importance of goal setting, the benefits of goal setting as a single and a partner, tips on the best ways to goal set, and SMART goals. We recommend some good books as well for our reading snackers. A new month is rolling in so what better way to kick it off by tuning into the pod and setting some new goals! Enjoy! The Hookup @marcg...

In this episode we cover some common red flags and what we think makes them red flags to begin with. We chat with each other about what we think our own red flags are and the difference between red flags and "the ick." Our most important point made was that EVERYONE has red flags to some degree and that's OKAY. Find comfort in the fact that we are all going through the same thing, working on ourse...

In this episode, we answer some “Why do men/women…” questions asked by our fellow snackers. We clear up/provide insight on these stereotypes by sharing our points of view with each other. We also had some family chime in as our live audience which provided a fun touch to the episode. Enjoy! The Hookup: IG: @jaisonwade Podcast: lazywadepodcast Music: Jaison Wade (available on all platforms) Be sure...

"Why does love always feel like a battlleefiieeellddd?!!??" In this episode we chat about navigating through conflict in relationships. We cover how it's totally okay to agree to disagree, the importance of sticking with the goal of the conversation rather than trying to win an argument, and conflict and apology styles. We also discuss how it's crucial to remember that you and your partner are on...

In this episode, we have some quick and concise points about the importance of honesty in dating and relationships. We cover how being honest with the other person early on avoids long term secrets, tension, fights, miscommunication, etc. We also give some tips on how to create a space between two people for honesty to easily live and how important time and place and tone and delivery are to help...

In this episode, we share some tips for keeping the spark alive in your relationship. We talk about the importance of continuously dating your partner and making an effort, being spontaneous, paying attention to details and interests, and our favorite-- THE DATE JAR :) If you're wanting to spice things up and keep things interesting in your relationship, tune in for some fun ideas! Enjoy! The Hook...

"Honey I'm hooooommmeeee!" In this episode we chat about the reality of moving in with your partner and how life looks different when you're living together. We cover the positives and negatives, the do's and don'ts, some helpful tips and the importance of COMPROMISE. We reflect on our living situation as well to give better context on our insight. Pack a bag, tune on in, and enjoy! The Hookup: Ye...

In this episode we cover all things honeymoon phase: our interpretations of it, the negative connotation around the phase ending, the "real love" on the other side, the importance of creating a strong bond and being your genuine and true self in the phase, and overall just to enjoy it while it lasts! The honeymoon phase is just that--a phase. The best part is part that follows--the real love. Enjo...

In this episode we cover the pressure around finding "the one," and how honestly...it's not that serious. We touch on how social media can sometimes serve up some false hope for dating and relationships, how comparison is a joy killer, and how things that are meant for you will find YOU (instead of you finding them) organically. We also sprinkled a little bit of our story in there and its relevanc...