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This form of prejudice is so far-reaching, it affects marginalized people from the inside out. Tragically, the impacts are far worse than we realize. In this episode, you'll learn all the stuff no one ever taught you about stereotypes. Your listen next list: Learn Critical Race Theory in 20 Minutes on Apple & Spotify Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & Spotify Mentioned: W...

White people often make sense of their racial identity by thinking of themselves as an oppressor or savior. But these flawed core beliefs don’t translate into action. You need a better way to make sense of white identity. I give you guidance so you can gain a better view of yourself and other white people. Mentioned: Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? By Dr. Beverly Dani...

It's story time. I get personal with the details of going viral, the mistakes that brought me success, my fear of being canceled, and chasing the approval of others. Even though the specifics of my story are unique, I'm sharing about struggles and fears that I'm sure you can relate to. Mentioned: Polarization Ruins Everything, But Not In The Way You Think on Apple & Spotify Why We're Polarized...

In this quick episode, you'll learn about the surprising origins of the term white privilege, how even the most well-meaning people get it wrong, and a new way to think about identity. What are you waiting for? Mentioned: We're Getting Privilege All Wrong on Apple & Spotify A Teachable Moment for White Allies on Apple & Spotify Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack, Peggy McIntosh To support Ma...

Why is cultural appropriation such a controversial topic? How are opinions on cultural appropriation changing in recent years? What actually counts as cultural appropriation? Are you guilty of it? In this episode, I answer all of the most pressing questions, equipping you with the clear guidance you're looking for. Your listen next list: Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & Spo...

I’m finally addressing the most common objection I get by far. When I tell people to lean in to tough conversations, the objection is always this: But what about boundaries for the sake of my well-being? My answer might shock you, but I’m convinced that our boundaries are doing us more harm than good. Your listen next list: Why Trigger Warnings Are Controversial (And Even Counterproductive) on App...

Why do white people tell the person of color in their life about the racism they witness? This behavior is probably an attempt to look for guidance, but it plays out as self-seeking and inconsiderate. Listen in as I talk through this situation and offer you a unique perspective. Your listen next list: When & How To Talk With People of Color About Race on Apple & Spotify How Should We Respo...

Why do white people have a hard time telling people of color apart? Is this racist? Even people of color say that all white people look the same. In this episode, we look to research for clear answers on the cause and the solution. Your listen next list: Important Terms You Should Know (That Are Often Misused) on Apple & Spotify Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & Spotify...

There's so much confusion surrounding what critical race theory is and what it isn't. Critical race theory is misrepresented by those who oppose it and misunderstood by those who embrace it. In this episode, I clear away that confusion so you can confidently answer the question: What is critical race theory, really? Critical Race Theory 101: The 5 Basic Ideas You Need to Know on Apple & Spotif...

Is canceling a thing, or is it just plain accountability? Is cancel culture even real? How should people be held accountable for past racism? In this episode, I teach you the most important concepts on both sides of the debate. Time, Cancel Culture Is Not Real—At Least Not in the Way People Think TED Talk, Jonathan Haidt: The Moral Roots of Liberals and Conservatives To support Marie and get exclu...

I address the most common objection I received: "Are you sure white liberals are being prejudiced, or could it be something else? Maybe they're being considerate, since Black people don't have equal access to education." Hmm. Let's talk about it. Mentioned: The episode to listen to next: A Teachable Moment for White Allies on Apple & Spotify How You Should Respond to "I Don't See Color" on App...

How have white liberals' views on racism had a "seismic transformation" in a short time? Why? And what about people of color? Why have their views remained constant through all of this? Mentioned: What POC Want Most from Allies on Apple & Spotify NPR, White Liberals Adopt More Progressive Positions On Race Pew Research Center, Progressive Left Stands Out Your listen next list: Debunking The Mo...

Why is it that white liberals are using more "low-competence" words when speaking with Black people? Fascinating research from Yale reveals how white liberals' good intentions can lead to negative consequences. Mentioned: How to Become Less Prejudiced: The Most Effective, Proven Approach on Apple & Spotify Yale Insights, White Liberals Present Themselves as Less Competent in Interactions with...

Are you really a peacemaker, or do you just "keep the peace"? In this episode, you'll learn the key differences between a peacekeeper and a peacemaker. I'll talk through how to overcome whatever is holding you back from really making a difference. Your listen next list: This Is Why You Don’t Speak Up (And How to Actually Start) on Apple & Spotify We Need to Talk About Whitesplaining on Apple &...

Why is code switching nearly impossible for white people to notice? Why do Black people code switch? What should we do about it? Your listen next list: Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & Spotify Is It Racially Insensitive or Racist? Apathy or Hate? on Apple & Spotify To support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech . To learn more about Marie's...

Living in an extremely divided culture can really take a toll on you... so let's lift that burden. I want to help you understand the problem and how to be part of the solution. Let go of fear and frustration so you can actually work toward progress. Mentioned: How to Change Someone’s Mind – The Proven, Best Method on Apple & Spotify My Journey to a Better Life and a Bigger Impact on Apple &amp...

Virtue signaling (AKA performative activism) is more common than you realize. How do you recognize it? And what are actions you can take to make sure that your efforts are genuine? Mentioned: Do Slogans Get in the Way of Social Progress? on Apple & Spotify Your listen next list: Tone Policing: Problematic or Reasonable? on Apple & Spotify 5 Common Ways White Allies Do More Harm Than Good o...

How can we recognize and address whitesplalining? How can white people be involved, vocal allies without being guilty of whitesplaining? What's the characteristic that sets genuine allies apart? This episode is packed with answers and practical, actionable insights. Mentioned: What POC Want Most From Allies on Apple & Spotify Your listen next list: Should White People Do Diversity Work? on App...

Affinity groups and safe spaces are increasingly popular. What are they and why are they so important? What are the most common misconceptions? And if they're good, how can they still go wrong? Your listen next list: What Microaggressions Are & Why They’re Controversial on Apple & Spotify Why Trigger Warnings Are Controversial (And Even Counterproductive) on Apple & Spotify Important T...

Let's set the record straight about diversity. We make things actionable, talking through the dos and don'ts of creating a more racially diverse life. Your listen next list: Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & Spotify What People of Color Need From Their White Friends Apple & Spotify Mentioned: Critical Race Theory 101: The 5 Basic Ideas You Need to Know on Apple & Spo...

We tend to make boundaries that don't actually serve us or they don't help us serve our cause. I'll explain how to take care of yourself while also being committed to advocacy and something bigger than yourself. Your listen next list: This Is Why You Don’t Speak Up (And How to Actually Start) on Apple & Spotify 5 Common Ways White Allies Do More Harm Than Good on Apple & Spotify Informatio...

If you struggle to speak up about social issues, I get it. I'll teach you the mindset shift that changed everything for me. Less fear, less anxiety, less self-silencing. More consistency, more peace, and more control in the conversations that matter most. Mentioned: Tone Policing: Problematic Prejudice or Reasonable Request for Respect? on Apple & Spotify Antifragility is covered in The Coddli...

What are the most necessary characteristics that make for a good ally? How can you learn them? And how can we make sure good intentions don't go wrong? Let's learn from the fascinating research that sheds light on what activists actually want from allies. Your listen next list: My Journey to a Better Life and a Bigger Impact on Apple & Spotify Should White People Do Diversity Work? on Apple &a...

How does does teaching CRT & DEI topics in school affect students' overall academic performance? Let's look at a few studies with some surprising insights. Your listen first list: The Critical Race Theory in Schools Debate - Part 1 on Apple & Spotify Critical Race Theory 101: The 5 Basic Ideas You Need to Know on Apple & Spotify Critical Race Theory 102: Three Important Criticisms You...

How do bans hinder teachers ability to teach? How do we expect teachers to teach CRT and DEI topics well without proper support and instruction? And also, is CRT being taught in our schools currently? Your listen first list: The CRT in Schools Debate - Part 1 on Apple & Spotify Critical Race Theory 101: The 5 Basic Ideas You Need to Know on Apple & Spotify Critical Race Theory 102: Three I...