Kingdom Sexuality

Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor ⁠Married Dance!⁠ They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides! Link...

Flirting seems to be so important at the beginning of a relationship- pursuing one another, heightened excitement, and so much passion! But once we get married some of that starts to change, tune into the episode to hear why and how to get the fun and passion back! Links from today's episode: The Flirtation Experiment Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠...

The KS Team has an exciting announcement... they're releasing a brand new MEMBERSHIP!! You'll hear all about it in this episode where Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go over all of the exciting perks that will be fun for you and your spouse AND will increase connection! Want to join the club?? https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/uniteandignite Use the code UIEARLYBIRDPODCAST and get 20% off during the...

Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠In...

Is pain during sex normal? What is vaginismus? How can husbands support their wives in this journey? Alana and Tiera chat with Jessica Seitz and they blast through those those questions and more in this incredible interview! Jessica's Instagram: @painfree.intimacy Jessica's website: painfreeintimacy.com Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook Group⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ ⁠Websit...

Shout out to our incredible Patrons who picked this weeks topic!! If you're interested in becoming a patron or learning more about Patreon go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App S...

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedr...

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Inst...

The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!! Links from today's episode: ONE Extraordinary Marriage Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices...

Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to...

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, th...

Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-lo...

Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Cana...

You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview with Unrelenting Pursuit!! In this episode, Alana and Tiera sit down with Brad and Lisa Valencia and explore the intricacies of affairs and their impact on relationships. Brad and Lisa share their story and then they discuss what constitutes an affair and the difference between emotional and physical affairs. The concept of "affair-proofin...

Shout out to our lovely patrons who decided on this week's podcast episode topic! Want to know more about Patreon? Check it out here! In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are i...

Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting bou...

Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and...

In this episode, the KS Team has some very special guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating!! They discuss the challenges and joys of singleness and dating in today's world, particularly from a Christian perspective. Kait and JJ share their own experiences and insights on a variety of topics, including: What does the dating world look like today, and what are the biggest challenges facing C...

Listened to our other orgasm series episodes but still had questions? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go through questions that you guys, those who did the Orgasm Survey, asked! They answer questions like: How do I tell my husband when I didn't have an orgasm? What's the best way to learn to orgasm the same time as my wife? Why do some orgasms feel better than others? Can some only orgasm with a vibrator?...

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Have you listened to part one of the Orgasm Series yet?? If not, the team highly recommends you check it out before listening to this one! In this episode Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about many of things they skipped over in the first episode. Things like, practically, what are the first steps when it comes to having an orgasm? Does using toys have an impact on my ability to orgasm with my spouse?...

*unfortunately Alana's audio isn't great in this episode, we're sorry about that!!* It's the series that SO many of you have been waiting for! Alana, Kyle, & Tiera go in depth into what an orgasm is, some of the statistics from our orgasm survey, what kind of orgasms there are, and what YOU say they feel like! This is the first part of our series, so if there are things we didn't cover in this epi...

It seems like couples are either very pro shower sex, or anti-shower sex, which one are you?? Tune into this hilarious episode as Alana, Tiera, and Kyle share the pros and cons of shower sex, what lube to use, and positions that make it easier!! If you and your spouse don't actually shower together yet, that's a great place to start when it comes to this! Schedule a time to just be in the shower t...

Huge shout out to our incredible Patrons for this episode choice! Thank you!! The KS team has a question for you: Have you ever thought about NOT sleeping in pjs? It's an interesting thing to think about if that's what you've always done, but it's something to consider! There are pro's and con's to sleeping naked, or with less clothes on, but one thing is certain- according to research the team di...

The media shows us, when it comes to cleaning up after sex, that you can just kiss your partner and roll over for snuggles and snoozing. But alas. If you've been married for any length of time you'll know that there's a bit more to it than that. Or, if you're engaged and no one has ever told you what it looks like to "clean up" after being intimate- this episode is for you. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle...