Kingdom Sexuality

Happy Valentine's Day, Kingdom Sexuality listeners! They decided to switch things up and go a different route for this Valentine's Day episode! Listen in as Alana and Rusti chat about the slightly less glamorous side of intimacy. They go over an array of sticky situations that can occur, common hiccups that can throw a wrench in your sexy plans, embarrassing things that are totally normal to occur...

Tune into this incredible episode where Alana and Paris interview Dan Purcell from Get Your Marriage On! about all things sexual confidence. Dan shares so much incredible wisdom around navigating confidence in the bedroom and what you can do if that's something your spouse struggles with! Be sure to follow Dan @getyourmarriageon, and be sure to check out the "14 Days of Sextimacy" challenge as wel...

Welcome back to another episode of the Kingdom Sexuality podcast! This episode is extra special because Alana and Paris have the opportunity to chat with Rusti (our newest KS team member) and introduce her to all of you! You'll get to hear Rusti share her beautiful sextimony and encourage those of you who maybe feel easily replaceable, or like they have a void in their life.  Get excited to hear f...

The sexual relationship thrives when a marriage is safe, honest, and full of selfless love. But what does a thriving sex life look like in a Christian marriage? Or should we even be asking that? Maybe instead we need to dig into the word and see what the Bible says marriage and intimacy needs to look like. So get comfy and join Paris and Alana as they get back to the basic fundamentals and go thro...

You want a bomb, spicy, solid, exciting marriage for 2022? We love it. But maybe you’re in a place where you have no idea where to start. Maybe there’s some deep pain, insecurities, or just an overall feeling of being ‘lost’ within your own marriage and you're not sure how to get from point a to b. So tune in Alana and Paris dive into 5 super practical ways you can up the emotional connection in y...

BONUS EPISODE! Since Alana and Paris now put out episodes bi-weekly they realized that you were only going to get one podcast episode before Christmas, and that didn't seem okay. So here's a special bonus episode chatting about a topic that YOU requested! Alana put a questions box on Instagram asking for Christmas episode suggestions and many of you were wanting tips for how to stay intimate with...

The Christmas season is upon us! Which means that life might be getting a smidge chaotic. Maybe you're staying at your in-laws over the holidays or have piles of family coming up to visit- this episode is hopefully going to help you become more intentional about carving out time with your spouse despite what's going on around you.  *This episode has been re-recorded to better reflect where the Kin...

Does sex ever feel more like something you have to check off a list and less like something you look forward to? Join in as Alana and Paris as they chat about why sex might be feeling like a chore and some really practical ways for how you can work towards changing that!! *This episode has been re-recorded to better reflect where the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is today. While it’s showing up in our...

They’re back! After taking a break for a few months Alana and Paris are back behind the mics. In this weeks episode they fill listeners in on what’s been keeping them busy, how the podcast schedule is changing, and they also answer YOUR questions asked on Instagram! *This episode has been re-recorded to better reflect where the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is today. While it’s showing up in our earli...

Have you ever gone through a bit of “dry spell” sexually in your marriage? Maybe it’s been weeks or months since you and your spouse have been intimate. Please know that you’re not alone! Seasons of sexual slumps can be pretty discouraging, but our prayer for your marriages is that you’ll come through these seasons even stronger and more prepared for what’s ahead! *This episode has been re-recorde...

Join Paris + Alana as they tackle + debunk the lies that the 'purity culture narrative' has spoken over our generation of women; specifically in the area of modesty, how we conduct ourselves, + in our sexuality. Let's bring this back to biblical truth shall we?! *This episode has been re-recorded to better reflect where the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is today. While it’s showing up in our earlier a...

Contrary to what culture screams at us, it's quite common for husbands and wives to have varying sex drives. Someone has a higher libido, someone's is lower and maybe it's starting to cause some friction within your marriage. This episode is for YOU! *This episode has been re-recorded to better reflect where the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is today. While it’s showing up in our earlier archives, it...

Do we just lose ourselves in the name of motherhood? Can we still have passions + hobbies? How do you cultivate an even DEEPER marriage + intimacy through parenthood? What about everything the world screams at us, how do we see the truth through it all? Well hun, it's time for this chat, and we are so excited to share some raw and simple truths to clear the fog + questions. *This episode has been...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Kingdom Sexuality! This little passion project turned ministry began just a short year ago. We both feel so incredibly grateful to all of our incredibly supportive listeners and followers. To those of you who have been around since this began- thank you for sticking with us! And to those of you who are new to following- welcome here! We're so overwhelmed at how receptive you all ha...

Alana takes the reins on this casual episode and goes through some fun anniversary traditions shared by followers! Relive, retreat, and reflect on the wonderful years you’ve shared together! So for your anniversary- put expectations aside, get a babysitter for the kiddos, and just enjoy some much needed quality time with each other. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly...

You're not going to want to miss this episode! Alana takes the reigns and dives into what talking in the bedroom can look like and how it can be really helpful in taking your intimate life with your spouse to the next level. They go into more that just talking ABOUT sex with your spouse but actually talk about what talking DURING sex looks like in a healthy, God-honouring way! Maybe it's something...

Paris & Alana go into 3 common sex positions but go into the technique, tips, + tricks to take these most common sex positions from 'good' to 'fantastic'. With variations, technique explanation, CAT, angles, & lots of communication + lube, we hope this blesses your marriage!  *This episode has been re-recorded to better reflect where the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is today. While it’s showing up in...

You're not going to want to miss this incredible, information-packed episode with Rosie Makinney from @fightforloveministries. Rosie dives right into how the spouse who's been hurt by their spouses pornography usage can find healing despite the grief, betrayal, and broken trust that comes with this issue. Not only does she go into some of the science behind what's going on in the spouse who's watc...

Let's get this straight: Porn is not a men's only battle. In this episode, Authentic Intimacy's Joy Skarka shares her raw & redemptive story in her own battle with porn, masturbation, shame, and coping from sexual assault, turned to equipping and leading women towards freedom through Christ coming from similar back-stories. This is an episode you do NOT want to miss.  Learn more about your ad choi...

Healing from pornography involves both parties-the person who struggles with it, and those who it affects. In this episode, Paris & Alana interview Tim Busse for part 2 of this series. Tim dives deep into porn culture vs gospel culture and what each serves in terms of mentality & morals, healing from porn (both the user & those affected), dealing with the aftermath of porn & broken trust, as well...

The first episode of the long awaited pornography series is here! You're not going to want to miss this information packed episode where Alana and Paris interview Pastor Tim Busse to tackle the subject of porn. They get into a bit of Tim's story, the root of why people get drawn into watching pornography, how to find someone to keep you accountable, how secrecy is linked to shame, how to get out o...

We put a questions box in our Instagram stories asking for some "Get To Know Us" questions and we got SO many incredible ones! A good bulk of the questions were around how the podcast came to be, why we started this, and why we want to talk about sexual intimacy! So we decided a nice way to tackle all of those questions was to give our testimonies... with a twist. Cue... our SEX-TIMONIES!  *This e...

In this episode, Alana & Paris speak some big, freeing, & healing truths on forgiveness. This is a precursor episode heading into our pornography series, so be sure to catch this before we go into BIG stuff. Tune into this to be encouraged & set your feet on the healing journey towards kicking shame & deep roots to the side & walking in our gift of freedom through forgiveness through the Father! *...

Join Alana and Paris as they end of their premarital series tackling a big question: "but what if we've already had sex before marriage??". They go through 3 main points 1. Boundaries and Repentance, 2. Guilt and Shame, and 3. God is our Father not a Punisher. Alana and Paris drive home the heart of who God is, and how EVERYONE is redeemable. Regardless of the lines you've crossed or how far you'v...

Engaged & heading into marriage? Is your upcoming wedding night leaving your mind frazzled with questions about sexual intimacy? Grab your fave hot drink & feel like you're part of a living room chat with Paris & Alana as they interview Kyler & Britt from "Love Your First Year" ministry. From walking you through wisely preparing your future marriage together and not falling into the common rut of...