Kimology 411

I think I finally found out that it wasn't about the breakup and losing a person that made me the saddest. I think it was the beautiful future that I had envisioned us spending together and how awesome life would have been with him. It took me a little bit to get over that idea to realize that I still get to have that awesome future I just had to make a few tweaks and twerks.

Well I do not like to start something and not finish it. And last year I started taking a couple golf lessons and today I restarted my golf lessons in Topeka.

Well my pretend boyfriend Marshall Mathers AKA Eminem released a new song and I cannot wait for his new album. He is just someone that I have always admired and I have loved watching his career from start to now and one day I will meet him. I mean I think he already has my name tattooed on his arm somewhere. But there are only a few people that are in the spotlight like he is but I need to meet an...

We all know that getting through a hard time takes a lot of work. It's why a lot of people are so sad or mean because I just don't have the energy. But today on Tik Tok I saw that someone said broken people try to break other people and that resonated.

My mom gave me half of her variety pack of fudge from Buc-ees so I thought I would use this time to give all the flavors a try! Not the smartest idea I have had!

Everybody seems to have so much stuff. So if you really want to give somebody something awesome give them your time. Give them an adventure. Give them a happy memory. Because when we sit around with our friends we don't talk about our things we talk about that one time.

I tell people all the time to look up from your phones and just say hi to random strangers walking down the street. I tell people that it doesn't take a lot to change someone's day completely. And sometimes it might just be an apple and an Oreo cookie. Or in my case a Milky way.

Some men prefer broken women. Because that means they have to give the least amount of energy

Text also can cause a lot of problems. Instant gratification is something that annoys me most of the time. But when someone sends you a text and you're trying to date when is the appropriate time to respond. I mean because we all have lives, kids, work, and entertainment. We can't always pick up our phone without maybe looking rude to respond to a text. So how do we figure out texting protocol wit...

Tyson weighs in on some of my past daytrips.

I've heard too many women say I don't need a man I want a man. And we look at that word as such a bad word. When in reality if you are single and you want to find someone to spend the rest of your life with than indeed you do need that person to make your future Dreams Come true.

I'm not sure about you but I love when you just at this last minute book a hotel make some plans and get out of town. My mom and I had a great Memorial Day weekend in branson!

I have always believed that making sure to say thank you after someone has done something for you is very important! It's something that's very simple but yet has a big impact.

One of my biggest pet peeves is seeing so many people staring at their phone all day. So that carries over when I go to a restaurant and they walk out with one of those handhelds and stare at it the entire time. I know it's not their fault but the owner needs to train their people on correctly using one of those handheld and still providing customer service.

Heard that the grass is never greener on the other side our entire life. And of course at each age that meaning changes. But it still does hold true that you really only have one life to live so I'm not sure why so many people try to live other people's lives or expect other people to take part of their life to help them. The only person that is responsible for your happiness is you.

It really isn't about picking a man or bear. It is getting men to understand the fear that women deal with daily that isn't talked about or even understood by men.

This weekend I went to a movie alone. Sometimes people think it's weird when I do things alone. But when you have been alone most of your life you can either sit at home depressed or you can get out and see the world. I choose to get out and see the world!

Once again on tick tok they gave me some topics. And one of them was you can't control the wind but you can control the sail. And what that means is you can't control the bad things that happened to you but you can control how you react. That being said a lot of times we get these gut feelings and they're trying to label it with all of these avoidant detachment narcissist words. We have all these...

We are made up of energy! And when we talk about Karma we talk about the energy that is in this world. There is good and bad karma. In order for us to understand this we have to declutter our brain and pay attention.

Just because someone says something to you doesn't mean you have to listen. Just because you graduate from college doesn't mean you have to put your life on hold to pursue a high level job. Just because someone says that you can be a stay-at-home mom doesn't mean they're telling you that you must stay home to take care of the kids and do all the housework. What is going on in our world that we are...

As a gen xer I am tired of listening to these younger Generations acting as if we had an easy period every generation has had to fight for what they want. It just seems as if the younger Generations believe that it's going to be handed to them and that there is no possibility to get anything so they don't even want to put in the fight. And that will be their downfall. Everything we have we fought...

Tyson and I have talked about this before but now that everything seems to be electronic we need to make sure that we are safeguarding anytime we use our debit card. You never want to hand your debit card to a stranger because when you hand them your debit card you are handing them access to your cash. If possible you need to put your auto charges on a credit card and not your debit card. You need...

Tyson and I have talked about this before but a I can be your friend or your worst enemy!

Well vacation season has begun! A trip to Atlanta is just what I needed.

Tyson and I are back to doing Karaoke so why not sing an episode like so many of our favorite tv shows!