Kiva Kahawia
K and K Real Talk
Two ladies having real discussions about life, womanhood, and love through literature. We read to understand. We speak to empower. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
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Kiva Kahawia
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Mar 15, 2026
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Episodes
I Can’t Hold My Tongue | K & K Podcast Ep. 37 27.05.2021 1:58:45
In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of the final chapter in “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman” by Shahrazad Ali. If you’re comfortable being lied to, you won’t be ready for this show. However, we’re still going to speak the truth. If your version of the truth is different from ours, we welcome you to share with us. May we continue to listen, learn and grow!
Is This Your King? | K & K Podcast Ep. 36 15.05.2021 1:29:47
In this episode, we hit the nail on the head as we discuss the final chapter of Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman.” Chapter 12 is entitled ‘Leadership’ and as we know, this an area in which we struggle as a people. By now, you all should have the book. Follow along and get into this word!
Downright Pitiful | K & K Podcast Ep. 35 30.04.2021 1:47:09
In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of Chapter 11 in Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman.” The overall condition of our teenage boys is downright pitiful! We are on a slow climb towards change and we need to get us together. Black Man, we need you!
PG: More than a Rating | K & K Podcast Ep. 34 16.04.2021 1:47:52
We are getting closer to the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," and in this episode, we deconstruct the first half of Chapter 11, 'Teenage Years.' Parental Guidance is advised and necessary--not just to listen to this episode, but in general. Our children need guidance, especially from our Black men. We have to get into this work as a collective!
Sex, Lies, & Homo Tapes | K & K Podcast Ep. 33 07.04.2021 2:23:04
In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of Chapter 10 in Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled 'Sexuality & Relationships.' We uncover some uncomfortable topics including: sexual perversion, trauma-filled relationships and more! As we've stated previously, change happens when discomfort is present. Let's get into it!
Clusters of Confusion | K & K Podcast Ep. 32 26.03.2021 1:49:03
In this episode, we dive right into Chapter 10 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled 'Sexuality & Relationships.' Have you ever been confused by the patterns and "commitments" of our Black men? Sis, you are not alone! Tune in as we explore some of the reasons for the confusion.
Be-Li(e)ving the Narrative | K & K Podcast Ep. 31 18.03.2021 1:42:30
As you know, what you believe ultimately translates to how you BE LIVING. In this episode, we continue to deconstruct Chapter 9, Religion, of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." We talked about Jesus as a slaveship and now we discuss Jesus as a man. We also explore the narratives that we've been brainwashed to believe. Let us scrub our minds, detox our tho...
Eff Outta Here | K & K Podcast Ep. 30 08.03.2021 1:30:54
For this episode, we decided to split Chapter 9 of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," into two parts because there is much to discuss when it comes to 'Religion.' We discuss the hypocrisy of being restrained and kept down, especially pertaining to Jesus--the first slave ship to America. Bring your research to this conversation and let's talk about it! We are K...
Jail Birds Fly Low | K & K Podcast Ep. 29 01.03.2021 1:29:20
In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," with chapter 8 entitled "The Law 9-1-1." Too many of our Black fathers and sons fall victim to the system. Many of whom are seemingly proud of this new slave mentality. Brotha, where are you flying to?
He Play Too Much | K & K Podcast Ep. 28 15.02.2021 1:18:54
In this episode, we deconstruct chapter 7 of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding the Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Recreation," and we all know how Black men love to thrive in the game world. Whether it's sports, corner gambling or the likes, our Black men play too much! Let's get into it!
No Comparison | K & K Podcast Ep. 27 10.02.2021 1:44:08
In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." As we discussed chapter 6, entitled "Employment," we must share that with all due respect to Sister Ali, we disagreed with the tone of chapter. There is no comparison between the economic struggles of the Black Man and the Asian man. Tune in to find out what we mean & re...
Caught Up in BS | K & K Podcast Ep. 26 01.02.2021 1:51:23
In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman" with chapter 5, entitled "Education." In this chapter, we learn that our Black men are systematically taught to disown themselves and the Black family. Sister Ali makes it clear that not only is he to relearn new information but that he should also teach his offspring. Our Bla...
Lies & Miscommunication | K & K Podcast Ep. 25 25.01.2021 1:08:29
In this episode, we are deconstructing chapter 4 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Communication" and we gain a deeper understanding of the lying lips on some of our brothers. Keep in mind that we are doing this work to bring about change within ourselves and our nation. In doing so, we are going to call it like it is.
Scattered Brain | K & K Podcast Ep. 24 12.01.2021 1:24:41
In this episode, we discuss chapter 3 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled, "Appearance." The phrase "representation matters" is about more than just seeing Black people in prestigious roles. It also includes what you wear and how you carry yourself in society. Tune in to find out how the Black man's appearance is closely related to his identity...
Barely Surviving AmeriKKKa | K & K Podcast Ep. 23 04.01.2021 1:41:52
In this episode, we deconstruct Chapter 2 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Identity." Dear Black Man, do you know who you are? Are you ready to strip yourself from AmeriKKKa's faulty version of you? Let's get into this work because we need you, Black Man. Check out this lecture from Dr. John Henrik Clarke, "You Have No Frie...
Protecting His Ego | K & K Podcast Ep. 22 26.12.2020 1:14:36
Hey Ya'll! In this episode, we have moved on to Book 2 and we are deconstructing, "The Blackwoman's Guide To Understanding The Blackman," by Shahrazad Ali. We encourage our listeners to support our Sister and get the book to read along as we continue our journey of building our nation. We are Kiva and Kahawia.
Cleanse Your Core | K & K Podcast Ep. 21 22.12.2020 59:05
In this episode, we conclude our episode reviews for episodes 12-18. We also discuss the importance of checking our core values and being better women in sisterhood. Now, we are moving on the "green book!!" In the meantime, do us a favor and type 'Charlene's Priceless Podcast' into the search bar on Anchor & Spotify. Our good sis has a story to tell and we need ya'll to listen. Love Always, Kiva &...
A Strawberry Special | K & K Podcast Ep. 20 10.12.2020 1:37:05
As you know, we have concluded our deconstruction of the book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. In this episode, we are honored to have our good sister, Strawberry, join us for our review of episodes 6-11. Strawberry has blessed our show with her honest feedback and you don't wanna miss it!
Level Up & Grow | K & K Podcast Ep. 19 04.12.2020 58:38
We have reached the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman!" In this episode, we discuss chapter 18, "The Conclusion," along with some of what it will take for us to level up and recognize our true selves. Everyday is a good day to put in the necessary work for growth! As we prepare for our episode reviews, please email any questions or comments you have...
Pussy Pacifier | K & K Podcast Ep. 18 30.11.2020 1:51:40
We are getting closer to the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman!" In this episode we discuss Chapter 17, entitled "Arguments." Ladies, ya'll know that most of the arguments that we start has one main purpose, above all of the other fifty'leven reasons we find. Also, be sure to listen out for the code to get 30% off Kahawia's books at Afrosofly.com!
Polygamy or Nah? | K & K Podcast Ep. 17 18.11.2020 2:08:52
In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman." We are getting close to the end of the book and this is our discussion of Chapter 16, "The Other Woman." Many of us aren't ready to face some of the truths in Sister Ali's words and we find that what's good for the goose AIN'T good for the gander. Take a listen to find o...
Shallow & Untrained | K & K Podcast Ep. 16 08.11.2020 1:50:01
In this episode, we continue deconstructing "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali with Chapter 15--Sex. We share details of our lives that shed light to how shallow we can be as "untrained" Black/Negro/Hebrew women. As we strive to be better, we must be comfortable with the discomfort required for change. This episode also features new music from Lewy Lotus--look...
Neck Rolls & Finger Snaps | K & K Podcast Ep. 15 31.10.2020 1:52:09
In this episode, we further our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 14. If you haven't guessed by now, this chapter is entitled, "Attitude"--which many of us are guilty of having. This chapter breaks down every component of having an attitude and reminds us to get it together ladies! We are Kiva & Kahawia--and we are in this with...
Hypocrisy & Denial | K & K Podcast Ep. 14 26.10.2020 1:23:48
It's been two weeks and WE ARE BACK! Join us for our further deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman." In this episode, we are discussing chapter 12, "Religion" and chapter 13, "Education and Career." We are not speaking our truth in the effort to belittle anyone else but rather to increase the quality of our own lives and that of our Black nat...
Be the Change You Want to See | K & K Podcast Ep. 13 08.10.2020 1:20:41
In the episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 11, "How She Dresses." This chapter speaks about choices and priorities when it comes to our outer appearances. We touch on other related topics and the bottom line is, we have to be the change we want to see. Tune in with your copy of Sister Ali's book and figure...
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