Just A Guy In The Pew Podcast

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about the benefits of joining a Catholic men’s group in your parish or diocese. Most guys tell me they want to be better men, husbands, and fathers and I’ve learned that we can’t do it alone. We need community. Participation in men’s groups help us beat feelings of isolation and loneliness. They’re places where we can share our struggles as husbands and fathers, s...

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about three common barriers to building close relationships with Christ: fear, shame, and pride. When guys talk to me about their struggles with faith, the seeds of their conflicts often stem from fears of what they will lose if they put Christ first, feelings of shame that they are not worthy of God’s love or prideful attitudes that they can get through life with...

In this episode, Victor Adams and I talk about PURPOSE. It’s all too easy for our daily lives to feel like an endless cycle of repetition. So we try to find things to give us pleasure and avoid a feeling of emptiness. The problem is, we look to everything else besides the one person who can truly give us purpose. Psalm 57:2 tells us that God is the one who fulfills his purpose for each one of us....

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about “being saved” and what that means for Catholics. Unfortunately, the process of salvation is not as simple as saying, “I accept the Lord as my Savior.” That’s a great start on the road to salvation, but committing to acts of faith and love is what carries us down the path to eternal life. In many of his letters, St. Paul reminds us that salvation is a journey...

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about the mistaken idea that a personal relationship with God is a Protestant thing and not necessary for Catholics. Nothing could be further from the truth! Throughout the Gospels, Christ invites us to know Him, not just know about Him. Pope Benedict said, “Many people perceive Christianity as something institutional, rather than an encounter with Christ, which e...

On today’s podcast, we’re talking to one of the country’s most exciting Catholic evangelists and authors, Sonja Corbitt. Founder of Bible Study Evangelista, Sonja transformed her life and overcame anger through daily scripture readings and prayer. Now she teaches others how to unlock the beauty of The Word in their own lives! A natural storyteller and convert to Catholicism, Corbitt shows listener...

Today we’re talking about courage. When I think of courage, I recall the story of David and Goliath where the shepherd boy slays the cruel giant. When we surrender to God, we gain strength to conquer our personal Goliaths, whether it’s work stress, addiction issues, marital struggles, or greed. From Biblical times to today, Philippians 4:13 holds true: “I can do all things through Christ who stren...

On today’s podcast, I'm joined by Deacon Jeff Drzycimski to talk about those times when we feel bogged down in our daily routines. It’s like we’re checking off the to-do list and wondering where God is in all of this. In this episode, we learn that:  - When we get bogged down in a bunch of tasks, we’re depriving ourselves of joy.  - Looking at each daily task to determine how we are using it to gl...

Today we’re talking about the temptation to allow the ebb and flow of feelings to guide our faith. Men often tell me that they skip Mass or Bible study because they feel stressed out by their jobs, they aren’t excited by the work that faith requires, or they become impatient when God isn’t answering their prayers. On this podcast, we learn that: - Strong faith is built through daily effort. - God...

In this episode, we talk about how we can more fully seek out Christ and strengthen our belief in Him. It’s about making faith part of our entire lives, not just a part of it. We also discuss:  - The state of faith in most Catholic churchgoers today.  - Being a follower of Jesus vs. being a believer in Jesus.  - How Christ truly wants us to seek Him out DOWNLOADS Get a copy of my new eBook, "12 Wa...

Today we’re talking to renowned Boston College professor of philosophy Dr. Peter Kreeft about a topic we all face in our lives: suffering. In his book “Making Sense Out of Suffering,” Dr. Kreeft shares an approach that helps us find meaning and purpose during distress and hardship. On this podcast, we learn that: - When we suffer, God is there with us - We cannot negotiate our suffering with God -...

Today we’re talking about accepting our role as protectors, a vital responsibility in our marriages and families. Genesis 2:15 says God put man in the Garden of Eden “to cultivate and keep it.” As fathers and husbands, we are called to make sacrifices to serve others and keep our families safe. On this podcast, we learn that: - St. Joseph’s example of selflessness and devotion guides us in our rol...

Today we’re talking about deceit. Being deceitful is what I call a gateway sin. We may label falsehoods as white lies, fibs — not a big deal. But the more we practice deceit with our family, friends, and co-workers, the darker a habit it becomes. One lie leads to another and another. On this podcast, we learn that: - Each day we have a choice of living in virtue or in vice - If you feel your habit...

On today’s podcast, we welcome back Deacon Jeff Drzycimski for a discussion of the virtue of generosity. When I came back to Christ after a life of addiction, God opened my eyes to the many graces He was giving me even while I was still in prison. But I quickly realized that He was calling me to share these blessings with my family, friends, and neighbors. In this episode, we’ll learn that… - God...

In this bonus episode, we’re talking to my friend Bill Donaghy about transgenderism. What can everyday Catholics do about this hot-button issue that’s everywhere today? In this bonus episode, you’ll learn: - How today’s gender theories isolate us from each other - Why we shouldn’t be afraid of offending each other - How the Catholic approach is bigger than stereotypes - What parents and everyday C...

Today we’re talking about Pentecost Sunday and how it reminds us that our true purpose – like the Apostles’ – is to share the good news. Our responsibility as Christians is to spread the Word of God and save souls. On this podcast we’ll learn that:  - Those who identify as Christians should examine how they express those values each day  - Evangelization differs from outreach or service because it...

Hey guys, today we're talking to Christ Stefanick about "wokism," cancel culture, and the other current trends that seek to separate us from Christ's mercy and love. We'll learn that: - Wokism doesn’t expand our view of reality, but instead causes anxiety and worry - When we run the risk of being "canceled" over our beliefs, we must keep our focus on God’s mercy - As Catholics, Jesus is the frame...

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about practice and how a strong spiritual life requires consistency and perseverance. Consistency is what transforms average into excellent. Think of great athletes. Many consider Michael Jordan or Tom Brady to be naturals at their sports, but the truth is they were willing to put in more practice time, and effort than their competitors. NEW! The Narrow Road I've...

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about the temptation to treat faith in God as a transactional process, rather than one that is transformational. We’ll learn that faith, by definition, is not based on proof or guarantees and that once we’ve given God our “yes,” we need to trust in Him. NEW! The Narrow Road I've created a brand new resource for guys called "The Narrow Road." It's a monthly booklet...

As men, we are often driven to succeed in our jobs, but we fail at our vocations. In this podcast, we’re talking specifically about our vocation as married men. We’ll learn about the 3 most important aspects of this vocation and how to make sure we’re succeeding in them:  - Being a son to the Father, which has to be truly understood if all other vocations are to go well  - Being a husband, which n...

Today we’re talking about how life’s circumstances can negatively affect us on our mission of being ambassadors for Christ. We get caught up in the emotions of a situation and forget that we are called to live our lives with joy, even in the midst of trials. Remember that St. Paul wrote about rejoicing in the Lord while he sat in a prison cell! In this podcast, we’ll learn that: - We are called to...

For this bonus episode, I’m honored to speak to Sr. Miriam James Heidland of The Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity. Sr. Miriam has the distinction of being our first female guest in the pew! She is a noted Catholic speaker, author, and co-host of the podcast "Abiding Together." Sr. Miriam is going to talk to us about what really makes us reach for bad habits and how only the love of Chr...

Today we’re talking about the times when practicing our faith feels more like a burden than a blessing. There are weeks when we lose our zeal for disciplines like going to Mass, reading scripture, or serving others. During these moments it’s important to shift our mindset and think of spiritual practices as opportunities, rather than obligations. Remember, God gave us the Commandments so we could...

Grab a seat in the pew as we look at how we’re called to respond to Jesus Christ, using real people from the Bible as examples. In this podcast we’ll learn that: - Life is made up of responses, including “no” - The way you respond to Christ has eternal consequences - Both Peter and Judas betrayed Jesus, but their responses made all the difference. Check out "The Narrow Road," a BRAND NEW resource...

In this podcast we’ll learn: The story of the Gospel, and how it should truly CHANGE YOUR LIFE The differences between the Christendom Era and the Apostolic Era Why God allows bad things to happen in the world. Check out "The Narrow Road," a BRAND NEW resource for guys to help you live lives of virtue and holiness. Read all about it here: www.patreon.com/posts/46385993 Get a copy of my new eBook,...