Judge Mii Not

Who has time to not be okay?

This week i’ll give my run down of Mathew 14:22-34 & how it apples to life’s choppy waters and choosing to walk on faith and not being stuck in fear.

Are they around you at your lowest for genuine support or to get a front row of your downfall? Are you avoiding growth to fit in?

Hood but Holy were we are a work in progress. So pray with me don’t play with me. Try Jesus not me because i’m healing i’m not all the way healed. Applying Gods word in today’s society.

How often do you actually talk to your kids? How much do your kids really know about you?

Ever went against that gut feeling & found yourself paying for it? Why do we do that?

Why else do you put your phone on do not disturb besides not wanting to be bothered or needing to focusing your energy on something important? Well I’ve put life on Do Not Disturb & you should too!

In 1962 Malcom X said the most disrespected, unprotected, & neglected person in America is the Black woman. Here we are in 2023 and i still agree. Let talk about this uncomfortable truth.

Are you still shackled to those that hurt you? Allowing yourself to get comfortable under a blanket of hurt enables you from moving freely to experience life.

You ever go through a drastic life event that not only humbles you but makes you walk away different? Well I have and here are the 4 major things my humbling experince taught me.

Do you know how many hours you spend online? What was the longest you've gone without logging in? Social media has become such a huge part of our lives. Many of us wake up to it and it's the last thing we see when we close our eyes. So outside of momentary entertainment what positive benefit does it have on your life? 

If I told you I'd planned my midlife crisis, would you think I was crazy?  If what is expected is subject to the person you ask, how do you know you are living a "normal lifestyle" and having a midlife crisis is a negative experience? Well let's chat.

How you use your time is a reflection of your character and your reality. Do you know how you handle your time? How do you check yourself when you mishandle it?

We discussed how one develops the loner mentality and why it's important to try and break that logic in parts one and two. Part three we focus on the HOW...How do you unlearn the Loner Mentality?

Listen to our very different experiences & opinions on online dating!

I believe 3 key factors influence successful & peaceful coparenting.

You read it right. This segment is simply to let the Black Man feel valued.

It’s story time. Listen to the time i found myself in a creepy situation all because i refused to mind my own business!

It’s just one of those days that i’m uninterested in everyone and everything. When you are apart of the category of people that don’t have the luxury to step back and process life you have to figure out ways to cope.

The positive benefits of evolving beyond the Loner mind frame.

Outside of the cautionary aspects and deep self work that comes with shadow work there are many positive benefits as well. with life coach Mary Leandra. Instagram: TheLotusExchange Facebook: Mystik Mermaid

Are you a loner by choice or by experience? lon·er /noun/ a person who prefers not to associate with others.

Have you ever stopped to consider what are some of your negative attributes? Where they originated from & why you choose to carry it through life? Well maybe you need to sit still and do some shadow work. In this part 1 episode Mary breaks down what shadow work is & things to consider before starting the process.

When was the last in depth conversation you had?

Do you feel like your obligated to being someone’s peace? Are other’s obligated to being yours? By the end of the episode you’ll be asking yourself do you have associated peace or genuine peace. This episode I share my personal viewpoint on peace, how I came to discover it for real, & how I moved afterwards.