John de Ruiter Podcast

Title: An Invitation to Look Into Meaning. Date: May 24, 2013 Afternoon - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat. Quote: When you feel empty, that’s your invitation to not look into what you are accustomed to; it’s your invitation to not look into your practice of life; it’s your invitation to look into meaning. www.johnderuiter.com

Title: In Your Heart You Don't Fear Dying. Date: May 24, 2013 Afternoon - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat. Quote: When you hold memories as lightly as you can, it’s no longer for your self; it’s for your heart. When you hold memories strongly, when you hold them and keep them strongly to your self, trying to keep them in your experience, you are desensitized to what is deeper. You are desensitized to...

Title: One Touch of Meeting. Date: May 24, 2013 Morning - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat. Quote: The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and softness of heart, what forms the present and the future is not your past but the reality of your own being. www.johnderuiter.com

Title: Having Goodness Vision. Date: May 24, 2013 Morning - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat. Quote: Aside from what appeals or doesn’t appeal to your self, discern the truth of the environment that you are to be in, based on what you know, not based on anything in your self. www.johnderuiter.com

Title: Being a Goodness Parent to Your Self.  Date: May 23, 2013 Afternoon - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat.  Quote: Your clarity comes from what you know in your heart. When you’re clear, your self comes along and it will grow. It will develop out of your clarity.  www.johnderuiter.com

Title: You Need to Love.  Date: May 23, 2013 Morning - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat.  Quote: When you love because you're in your heart, without any focus in your self, you are deepening into what is next. As you deepen into what is next, without any kind of understanding, what is next opens. It opens into your heart and it moves. It moves as you love.  www.johnderuiter.com

Title: Finding Your Depth Within. Date: May 23, 2013 Morning - Neve Shalom, Israel Retreat. Quote: You must remain in your heart. Don’t leave it for anything. It is only from within your heart that real balancing occurs, the balancing of all things in you. www.johnderuiter.com

Title: Moving into Your Heart.  Date: May 20, 2013 Afternoon - Hamburg, Germany Event.  Quote: Believe what you know, instead of believing what you feel in your self. What you feel in your self is conditioned. What you know in your heart is true.   www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Oneness Needs No Relationship.  Date: May 19, 2013 Afternoon - Hamburg, Germany Event.  Quote: A real relationship is made of two independently filled hearts, together, giving everything and needing nothing.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Realize the Wonderfulness in Your Life.  Date: May 18, 2013 Evening - Hamburg, Germany Event.  Quote: It matters for you to have wonderfulness in your life and it matters much less for you to have a wonderful life. Wonderfulness in your life doesn’t have the look of a wonderful life. It has the look of goodness that you know in your heart.  www.johnderuiter.com

Title: Loving What You Are Knowing.  Date: May 18, 2013 Afternoon - Hamburg, Germany Event.  Quote: Your own knowing of the deep is your connection. Let that knowing have presence. Let that knowing thicken and have power in your heart.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: The Wrongdoing of Others.  Date: May 17, 2013 Evening - Hamburg, Germany Event.  Quote: It matters more what your heart is in, than what your self is in. All of the wrongdoing, suffering, and exploitation in this world isn’t addressed when all the wrongdoing, the suffering, and exploitation stops. It is addressed when everyone returns home, when everyone is home within.  www.johnderuiter.co...

Title: Need Only the Help that You Know is Available.  Date: April 29, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: When you are dishonest to your clarity, you will manifest reasonings against your own clarity. When you are honest to your clarity, you have no reasons against your clarity.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Jealousy is Self Up-Side Down.  Date: April 30, 2013 Evening - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: Where there’s jealousy, there isn’t regard for meaning anymore, meaning for its own sake.   www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Moving as Knowing Makes Your Beingness.  Date: April 28, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: With any awakening to the truth of your own being, you know, within, that your own being is lovelier than what your self is, making clear that it is all of your self that belongs to your being, and that all of your being belongs in all of yourself, and that the...

Title: Inner Well-Being Knows No Emptiness.  Date: April 26, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: If relationship is like a nest, then marriage is like giving the nest a bigger tree.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: A Cutting Edge of Depth Applied to Your Personality.  Date: April 26, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: Your heart needs to be visible within your personality, regardless of the response that comes back to you. Your heart remains on the surface regardless of how you are treated because you know that your heart belongs everywhere.      www.johnderuite...

Title: Match Your Own Being.  Date: April 25, 2013 Evening - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: When you are being really known, you are ready to die and able to live, because you are connected to what is first.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Dearness Matters More Than Rightness.  Date: April 24, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: The clarity that you have about what you’re stepping into comes from what you are coming from.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: The Pure Doesn’t Need Defending.  Date: April 24, 2013 Evening - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: Anything that happens to the pure brings out the pure. The pure doesn’t need defending. Forms may require defending, but only the pure is able to, in purity, defend.     www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: A Being-Filled Heart Answering Difficulty.  Date: April 24, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: Taking your being to heart while your self is in pain and under pressure brings a depth of being into your heart. The greater the pain your self is in while you’re taking your being to heart, the greater your realization of your being.  www.johnderuiter.com...

Title: Shock Uncovering the Real You.  Date: April 24, 2013 Afternoon - Venwoude, Lage Vuursche, The Netherlands Retreat.  Quote: Shock puts you into what you really are without any reference to your past and without reference to memory.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Trauma Engaging the Deep.  Date: March 11, 2013 Evening - Byron Bay, Australia Seminar. Quote: Trauma doesn’t rob you, as awareness, of direct knowledge. Trauma engages direct knowledge.  www.johnderuiter.com  

Title: Deathbed Honesty.  Date: March 11, 2013 Evening - Byron Bay, Australia Seminar. Quote: You can have deathbed honesty because of being in a crisis, because of being on your own deathbed, or simply at any time because of being that honest to what you know.  www.johnderuiter.com 

Title: One Way Flow. Date: March 11, 2013 Afternoon - Byron Bay, Australia Seminar. Quote: The movement and direction of your power, as awareness, is determined by belief. In your experience, that's determined by what you take to heart. Whatever you take to heart, you empower.  www.johnderuiter.com