John de Ruiter Podcast

Munich, Germany Event - November 4, 2013 Afternoon A decision taken in childhood that it is not safe to love is opened up in this dialogue. John reveals the mechanism and the role of emotion in its creation, and we discover how the whole structure can transform. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens up in awarene...

Edmonton, Canada Meeting - January 12, 2014 Afternoon In this conversation John describes the effect on our subconscious selves of a lifetime spent believing what we don’t actually know to be true. He reveals the way forward, from the darkness of false belief to the creation of a self of light.  Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the m...

Poleg Beach, Israel Event - September 11, 2014 Afternoon  Responding to a question about how consciousness and unconsciousness become one, John describes how realization, or its lack, forms the basis of our reality. A reality governed by experience or by what truly nurtures and satisfies us.  Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the mean...

Bristol, UK Event - September 12, 2000  In response to a person who sees that her sexuality has deeper roots than anything she’s experienced, John explains what sexuality is really for. He describes the subtle, extraordinary capacity of our deeper sexuality to give access even into the universe. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the m...

Interactive Live Stream - November 2, 2020 Morning “Something is wrong …” The woman in this dialogue began questioning her reality and it has left her feeling very disturbed. John explains why this made her see the world differently, and how to live and move forward from a deeper balance. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning...

Chiemsee, Germany Event - May 26, 2014 Morning How can we open our heart toward another when there are unpleasant emotions involved? John explains how the need to diminish these negative feelings only feeds them and that it is possible to flourish, deepen and develop in the midst of any difficulty. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where th...

Interactive Live Stream - June 20, 2020 Morning The woman in this dialogue senses that her experience of a fear of disappearing stands between her and what is real. John explains the supreme importance of this turning point in her life: it's the door to the real, to what she was born for but didn't understand. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your bei...

Findhorn, Scotland Retreat - March 11, 2012 Afternoon The woman in this dialogue is standing at the threshold of elderhood and needs to discern what's next for her. John invites her beyond all familiarity into a deeper level, where she would be reconceived by her own deepest knowing, and live as what she will know when she dies.  Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into th...

Moen, Denmark Event - March 30, 2018 Evening Is there such a thing as life purpose, and do we have unique gifts to bring? John answers fundamental questions on what real destiny is and how it can change as we live. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens up in awareness.    More information about John de Ruiter - K...

Auckland, New Zealand Event - March 13, 2004 What's really going on when we're angry? Instead of relating to external ‘causes’ and working on anger as a problem, John takes us into a shift of perspective. He opens a window through which we can see what in us is of much greater value. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of li...

Cologne, Germany Event - September 19, 2011 Evening In direct connection with John, this woman notices her heart and mind opening newly. John describes the price of having such a heart in everyday life, and why that cost is really nothing. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens up in awareness.    More information...

Poleg Beach, Israel Event - May 25, 2017 Afternoon How much does a meaningful professional life matter? This dialogue delves into the unconscious beliefs driving the decisions we make in our personal lives and the true purpose that gives meaning to whatever we choose to do. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens u...

Rishikesh, India Event - February 13, 2018 Morning The experience of new knowing streaming through his body has faded for this person. Does that mean the knowledge is lost? John describes the delicate subtleties we can attune to, and how this depth of openness connects to what makes us truly human. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where th...

Interactive Live Stream - June 7, 2021 Morning What's the difference between being taken into the deep in connection with John, or using the biological power of plant medicine? There's profound difference between how consciousness moves compared with how chemicals do, and only one takes you into the real. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, w...

Poleg Beach, Israel Event - May 25, 2015 Afternoon Why is it that love in relationship often comes with mental, emotional and physical pain? John describes the belief systems and sense of individuality this all comes from, and how to make a full return to the love that we were born to be. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning...

Interactive Live Stream - April 19, 2021 Morning  How can a person make the shift from self-centredness to being the magicalness of what we really are? John shares what stands in the way, giving vivid examples of how to live in the midst of our preferences in a way that creates a real and beautiful self.  Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, w...

Edmonton, Canada, Winter Seminar - December 27, 2000 Afternoon In what John describes as the legitimate and wonderful pull towards sexual union, there’s no room for want or need, hope or disappointment. This dialogue takes a deep dive into the topic of sexuality and power, and how it can all come to rest in a fully opened heart. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the...

Interactive Live Stream, Spring Online Intensive - April 7, 2020 Morning Finding home, within, is a painful struggle for this person. Even being in the world is difficult. John shows her an easy way to be genuinely at home, within, and live from a real, eternal quality of life. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life ope...

Interactive Live Stream - June 6, 2021 Morning The man in this dialogue is ready to make whatever sacrifices necessary to let go of the self and move deeper into his being. He discusses with John his various practices, and the two-edged sword of any doing to be becomes clear. Together they arrive at the only way that works. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the dept...

Interactive Live Stream - February 20, 2021 Morning "How can I find me, again?" In the midst of the challenges of being a new mother, the young woman in this dialogue feels that she's lost touch with the depth she once knew. John shares what matters, and gives her a very practical tip. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of...

Poleg Beach, Israel Event - May 1, 2016 Afternoon “The use of sexuality can easily become frustrating because it promises so much and delivers so little.” John describes what human sexuality is really for, and what it takes for us to move in the depth and subtlety of its full potential. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of...

Montreal, Canada Event - November 1, 2000 Even though his feelings can swing from one extreme to another, this man knows there is a place of stillness amongst it all. John describes what is happening and the only way of being that brings true stability and real self-control. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens...

Tiruvannamalai, India Event - January 27, 2018 Afternoon Through the story of meeting with a beggar, a man speaks of his sense of continually coming up against a threshold within that he knows will take him deeper, but which he cannot seem to pass through. John explains the origin of this threshold and describes the way beyond it. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into t...

Tiruvannamalai, India Event - February 4, 2018 Evening This young man asks for help to free his nervous system of all the conditioning and conflict he knows is there in his sexuality. John explains what sexuality is really for, and how to discover and be in it anew. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens up in awa...

Poleg Beach, Israel - November 3, 2018 Evening With her husband in a coma, the woman in this dialogue shares the extreme difficulty she faces in parenting her children in the midst of this crisis. John shows her how goodness can thrive in hardship and how this deeper perspective can be a nurturing 'love school' for all of them.  Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the...