Java and Jenuflections

Laverne has to go 09.12.2021 29:46 ↓

An update on new health issues

Gray rocking 06.12.2021 29:16 ↓

I discuss gray rocking. What it is, how to do it, and when to avoid it.  If you are in an abusive relationship please contact the National Domestic Abuse hotline at 1800 799 SAFE Remember that internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. I fyou are concerned your internet use is being monitored please call the number. Otherwise visit www.thehotline.org. There is a sa...

Beyond Love Bombing; what's next in a relationship with a narcissist 06.12.2021 27:24 ↓

The first part is called love bombing because that's what potential abusers and narcissist do. I discuss more red flags, safety concerns and things to consider. I do use some curse words in this episode

Love Bombing, a look at abusive relationships 06.12.2021 28:33 ↓

What does a narcissistic relationship look like in the beginning? What are some red flags to avoid a an abusive, pre abusive relationship?

How to make a holiday meal without causing a flare 03.12.2021 18:01 ↓

Let's start with some tips and tricks from a disabled chic! I got a new tool to make life easier. Then I will discuss how I managed to cook Thanksgiving without having a massive or even minor flare.

How Do You know you're sick when you're chronically sick 30.11.2021 26:46 ↓

I have been ill lately, but is it a new issue or more of the same? 

Sadness 18.11.2021 27:01 ↓

Waves of sadness wash over me for no reason and this is what I am going to try next to feel better

The dangers of not being "enough" 15.11.2021 29:32 ↓

There can be dire consequences when others are allowed to determine what enough means. This episode does contain references to repeated sexual assaults and threats of rape.

Being Enough part 2 11.11.2021 29:11 ↓

I continue to explore the concept of what it means to be "enough" and why others shouldn't define it for us

The time change 09.11.2021 24:37 ↓

Intrusive thoughts and the winter seem to go hand in hand for me. 

The grief of illness 08.11.2021 25:03 ↓

Chronic illness and grief

I am enough 05.11.2021 30:00 ↓

Are you Jewish enough? Are you sure? 

Are you sleepy? 04.11.2021 21:46 ↓

Somniphobia is the fear of sleep, and it's not as far out as you think. Apparently it is fairly common amongst those of us who have anxiety in general. What is it and what can we do to fix it?

Black Market Candy Karen 02.11.2021 14:46 ↓

What will those Karens come up with next? Please follow me and SHARE Thanks Jen

The Man in the Bathrobe 01.11.2021 18:32 ↓

This is a story about former psychiatrist Tobin Jones, my neighbor, in Norfolk, VA

Weather, clothing and disabilities 28.10.2021 27:21 ↓

Making necessary wardrobe changes that are disability friendly

Self check and me 25.10.2021 22:49 ↓

Today I went grocery shopping and it was awful. Self checkouts are not good news and other things I've learned as a disabled person

The door 21.10.2021 29:07 ↓

A story about a date gone really wrong

Dating Safety 20.10.2021 29:31 ↓

Bonus episode! Here are some tips and tricks I have leaned over the years. Some are personal experience, others are from Secret Service and FBI agents

Letting go 18.10.2021 29:37 ↓

Letting go of old dreams and old goals is hard, but it can be good too.

Angels and Demons 15.10.2021 13:13 ↓

No spoilers here! Just listen to hear about my encounter with something wicked. 

Chronic pain and disassociation 11.10.2021 29:19 ↓

I have recently realized that I "zone out" when experiencing high pain days. But zoning out has progressed to disassociation. TW dislocated joints 

Stories from the Bridge 1 11.10.2021 22:26 ↓

A recap of my day speaking to the Tri- Faith community and hearing other peoples renewal stories. 

Living with chronic hives 07.10.2021 29:33 ↓

I have had CIU for many years, but was only recently diagnosed. Come listen to my surprisingly affordable solution that my doctor prescribed.

Accommodating a disabled person on an outing 06.10.2021 27:34 ↓

Jilian's produce stand is a good pumpkin patch in the Omaha area for disabled people. Are you actually helping your disabled family member? Are you sure?