It's Scary To Remarry

Special guest Intimacy Coach Charelle Thomas stops by to discuss self worth, sex, feminine energy, how to keep your love life alive with young kids, and plenty more! For more info on Charelle, visit her website at https://www.charellethomas.com

Some people look at living together before marriage is a "test" to see if both of you are compatible. However, this can be an expensive experience. From signing names on the lease to buying furniture together. According to Institute for Family Studies, today most couples live together before marriage. More than 75%  You can test a person without moving in together to see if you two are compat...

Are you in a situation where the parent won't let you see your child(ren)? Do you have to pay child support and alimony?! I had to pay child support and alimony over a year. I think child support is essential and  necessary so it hold the parent accountable to their responsibility. Many times the mother has the child full time (especially from newborn to 5 years). Most mothers don't trust the...

Do you argue with your significant other/spouse about money? Why? 

Who comes first in your marriage? the kids? spouse? family? Who is getting most of your attention?

Did you listen to the Essence Atkins interview on Dear Future Wifey? She discussed enjoying sex after salvation, God's grace and patience with her. She later discussed how she felt really awful the last time she had sex. I had to weigh in on this topic

Are you in a situationship? How did you get into one in the first place? How to end your situationship

What ugly truth about yourself did marriage reveal? How did I overcome it? I sucked as a team player. I always thought about myself first. I was emotionally underdeveloped. Meaning I didn't know how to express what I was feeling. I would shut down and go silent. I had unresolved childhood trauma. Things that was traumatic growing up in the hood, I thought was normal. Unaddressed childhood trauma i...

I know it hurts. How could your ex move on right after the breakup? Here's some tips to help you relieve the pain. 

What to do when trust is broken in a relationship? How can you gain trust back? Will you give full access to your phone to spouse/significant other?

Going on a date? Don't know the right questions to ask without probing too much? These two questions will help you find out more about your date. Listen to the interview on DivorcedAF here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

Is it true that all men are dogs? Well, let me explain. 

What makes a man head of the home? What qualities he must display for a woman to give him that title? Now playing on this bonus segment of Two Divorced Guys w/ co host Vince Fuqua 

Part one of the broken men series done so well, I had to continue with part two. I’ve had my fair share of being a broken man, and everyday I strive to be better than what I was yesterday. I realize most of our adult issues stems from our childhood. How were you raised?

Why is it people play "games" on the dating scene? Are we afraid to be our authentic self? Are we afraid to be honest what we want from others?

Some men never fully recover from the first heartbreak. How does this play out into his adulthood?

Many of us think an unhealthy relationship is physical abuse. But unhealthy relationships comes in many different forms. Listen in it’s entirety to hear the different forms of abuse. These answers may surprise you

Has your Wife/Girlfriend gained weight? How do you tell them without hurting their feelings? I have a couple of do's and dont's to help them during this proces #wifegainedweight ​ #girlfriendgainedweight ​ #communicationaboutweight ​ #WomenAndWeightGain ​ #DoMyButtLookBigInThisDress ​ #DoMyButtLookBigInTheseJeans

How can black men protect black women? I have two ways black men can start now

We all have dealt with low self esteem from time to time. But someone who lives with low self esteem is a different story. Here’s part three of the broken man series, how to know you’re dealing with a man with low self esteem. Apparel brought to you by @pureopulencecreations on Instagram. Be sure to follow!

Failed after failed relationships? Is it always the other person’s fault the relationship didn’t work?

This one thing can destroy any relationship if you aren’t aware. No one is immune to it, it happens to the best of us. Why is it our relationship takes a backseat when life gets busy?

Are you dating multiple people? Do you entertain as many dates as possible, until the “right one” comes along? Are you selling false hope?

Why does love take so much work? How can I show love the way my spouse or significant other desires? How is it I don’t know my spouse or significant other love language yet?

Do you have a child from a previous relationship? Do you find it difficult when dating someone with kids? What about marriage and a blended family?