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It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around lov...

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Sony Music Entertainment

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www.lalalaletmeexplain.com

Latest episode

Feb 3, 2025

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Episodes

W**king On Work Time 26.04.2024

It's Friday and Lala is here with your regrets, admissions and confessions like regretting motherhood, going down on your best friends sister and w**king on work time. Plus is it a red flag if siblings are slapping each others asses?? Lala needs your help with this one!  Fess up to Father Lala for your sins @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!  A...

Oniony Odour 24.04.2024

Lala gives her advice on your latest questions, from a therapist mansplaining a reason for cheating (red flag anyone?) to oniony odours and *TRIGGER WARNING* what to do if you think you might have been date raped? If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!  If you are a victim of rape you can...

STI's Aren't Just For Single People 22.04.2024

As a previous sexual health educator for the NHS, Lala knows her chlamydia from her crabs. And we should all be paying attention because we're all at risk, even people in relationships. Plus in her online poll she found that 75% of you have had unprotected sex to please someone else, but the unprotected sex is never worth the stress... If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @a...

Confessions: I Don't Want To Be a Step Mum 19.04.2024

Lala's cofession booth is open, from feeling like being a step mum sucks to sexting your boss, you've been coming forward with all of your admissions. Plus 'my boyfriend gave me a gift that was owned by his ex girlfriend' is it a red flag?? And, do your weekend right with your Friday night reminder.  If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and...

Tell Him How Many Times You've Had An Orgasm! 17.04.2024

In this week's agony aunt episode Lala advises on trauma and an emtionally unintelligent partner, the intrusion of being asked how many sexual partners you've been with.  And large hips... could that prevent you from being able to do certain sex positions?! Tune in on Friday for more high jinx and shenanigans.   If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on In...

'Quiet On Set' and Recognising Child Abuse 15.04.2024

WARNING: This episode contains distressing content and imagary relating to the sexual abuse of children. If you've watched 'Quiet On The Set' the documentary about the abuse suffered by children on Nickelodeon productions, I'm sure you'll be feeling sickened, outraged and appalled at what went on. But it's not just in Hollywood productions that this kind of abuse is occuring. Lala invites on an an...

Father Lala 12.04.2024

More of you have been stepping into Father Lala's confession box and owning up to all your sordid secrets. From sneaky shaves to p**sy wine... it's always a relief when you fess up. Plus not contributing to the bills, the silent treatment for declining sex , is it a red flag? And head into your weekend right with Lala's Friday night reminder. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in t...

The Curse of the Ex 10.04.2024

Lala addresses your latest dating and relationship questions. From the curse of the lingering ex to the lingering suspision that you're being cheated on, relationships can be incredibly trying and complicated but working on yourself is always rewarding.   If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape togethe...

Views on Nudes 08.04.2024

Sending nudes. It's not as straightforward as it sounds. Just don't send them right? But it's more complicated than that for alot of us. They can appeal to a side that can make you feel good sure but what dangers are you exposing yourself to when you send them? And what about receiving unsolicited d**k pics?  There's almost always a darker side when it comes to nudes...  If you'd like to ask Lala...

Lala's Confession Box 05.04.2024

Judge Lala is back to comment on your confessions. Will you be forgiven or not? We are talking revenge sex. Lala also navigates your red flags and gives a very important Friday night Reminder.  A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podca...

Friendship Boundaries, Sex Talk & Flag Recognition 03.04.2024

How do I differentiate between love bombing or someone just being really into me? When should I cut off a friendship with a married man? Is it too much to want the person I'm dating to stay the night after we've slept with each other?  Lala navigates through each of these questions in this weeks agony aunt episode and discusses the pros and cons and what you should be looking out for! If you'd lik...

Agony Aunt Easter Special 01.04.2024

In this week's Special Agony Aunt episode Lala tackles your questions. Ever found an item of clothing bad for feminism? Are you getting the ICK for no reason? Are you struggling with your sex drive? You can join the conversation on Lala’s Instagram account @lalaletmeexplain A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and fo...

Bidding Farewell to ICKs 29.03.2024

Lala is bidding farewell to Icks on a Friday and delving into your confessions! Prepare to be absolved of your sins...or not.  Plus, Lala dives into your burning red flag questions and shares her signature Friday night reminder. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcasta...

One NO is enough 27.03.2024

Join Lala in this week's Agony Aunt episode as she addresses your pressing questions. From navigating the complexities of domestic abuse to exploring the nuances of consent, Lala delves into important topics with knowledge and insight giving valuable advice and support. You can join the conversation on Lala’s Instagram account @lalaletmeexplain Links of support:  Dog trust freedom project - https:...

The Hampstead Heath Paedophile Hoax 25.03.2024

In 2015, two children accused parents and teachers of running a baby-eating satanic cult in a Hampstead school. Conspiracy theorists around the world were gripped as four mothers fought for justice.  Lala discusses cases that she has worked across in previous years and guides us through satanic cults, conspiracy theories and stalking. Credit: Channel 4. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yoursel...

Usher, Rap WhatsApps and Stump Icks  22.03.2024

You lot get Icky with a childish sense of humour, rapping WhatsApp messages and referring to certain anatomical parts as The Stump! Lala tries to get her head around red flags that have been flying high in your lives which are a rollercoaster of laughs, revelations, and cringey! If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's...

Tate Debate & Sex Drive Discussion 20.03.2024

Lala tackles your burning questions in this week's Agony Aunt episode. Do you feel embarrassed by your high sex drive? Does your partner show signs of postpartum depression? Ever been totally thrown by men who hold misogynist and just plain idiotic views? Lala shares her insights on people who support Andrew Tate.   If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain o...

Love Is Blind: Chelsea and Jimmy 18.03.2024

In this ‘Hot Topic’ episode Lala directs the dynamics of the relationships in the TV show ‘Love is Blind’. Can we really fall in love blind? What drives people to use reality TV shows to find Love?  Lala explores the allure of reality TV matchmaking and unravel’s the truth behind the scenes.  Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypod...

Red Flags with Katie Price 15.03.2024

Katie Price and Lala dive deep into the realms of dating and relationships and share personal stories, insights, and laughter while navigating the unpredictable journey of love. They tackle your  red flags, and Katie Price shares her “ICKs" – those little things that can make or break a romantic connection. From pet peeves to deal-breakers.  If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in to...

Contraception, Condoms and Casual Sex 13.03.2024

Why does the responsibility of not getting pregnant in a relationship fall on women? Is one NO more than enough? Do you need support navigating casual sex? Lala helps to answer them all! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!   If you need advice surrounding sexual violence or rape, please u...

The Jury: Murder Trial - How Effective is our Justice system? 11.03.2024

In this episode, Lala delves into the intricacies of the justice system, drawing insights from a recent Channel 4 programme, "The Jury: Murder Trial." This experiment restaged a real-life murder trial before two separate juries of ordinary individuals, questioning if they would arrive at the same verdict. Join Lala as she unpacks the implications of this unique experiment, exploring the nuances of...

Why We Need International Women's Day 08.03.2024

In the special Lala shares her tough truths about International Women’s Day. She discusses the on going fight for women, the progress made and the continued changes that still need to come.  A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcasta...

Is He The Red Flag, Or Is It Me?  06.03.2024

Are you trying to navigate who in the relationship is the red flag? Are you dealing with a situation of revenge porn? Are you struggling to find a partner who is honest?    Lala helps to answer all these questions!  If you are suffering from image based abuse or domestic violence you can seek advice from: Revenge Porn Help Line -0345 6000 459 Women’s Aid  - https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ If you'd l...

The World’s Biggest Single Social Experiment? 04.03.2024

Have you heard of or seen the pear ring? It's a small turquoise ring worn by single people. Designed to replace dating apps and show strangers that you're open to meeting new people IRL.  The company says they're the world's biggest single social experiment and Lala is here to share her thoughts.  If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let...

Stephanie Yeboah On The Pull A Pig Scandal and Finding Love 01.03.2024

The fabulous Stephanie Yeboah opens up about her dating past and on finding love. Stephanie joins Lala to help answer your dating dilemmas and tells all about her biggest icks!\ If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Mu...

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