INFINITE

In this conversation with guest Owen Miller, we explore the tension between individual expression and the collective art of soccer. From the careers of players like Lamine Yamal, Mbappé, Neymar, and Messi, to Owen’s own journey from player to coach, we examine how teams flourish when both the individual and the collective embrace a kind of “death and rebirth” — letting go of ego to make space for...

In this episode, Andres and Melissa dive into the power of journaling as a pathway to authenticity, healing, and deeper self-awareness. Andres shares how journaling became a space for unfiltered—almost “naked”—thoughts, and how learning to accept them was a step toward accepting himself the way God already does. Melissa opens up about her own struggles with journaling and the different methods she...

In this episode, we dive into  impulse control  — from Andres’ childhood stories of acting on impulse to how it shows up in sports and everyday life. We share memorable birthday gifts, cultural traditions, and the role journaling has played in shaping Andres’ character, building emotional intelligence, and coping with challenges by bringing awareness to feelings without judgment. Melissa reflects...

In this solo reflection, Andres explores the tension between being introverted or extroverted—and how both can be deeply spiritual experiences. For introverts, solitude may not just be about recharging, but about becoming more sensitive to the voice of God within. For extroverts, the draw to connection may reflect a sensitivity to hearing God through others. Many of us may not even realize that ou...

In the final episode of our series  Help Humans Walk Life Hiding Less , we reflect on the word  “Less.”  Starting with a conversation about tattoos and perception, we move into deeper questions about identity, authenticity, and the myth of always needing more. What if the journey isn't about becoming something new, but  unbecoming  everything we’re not? Andres shares the idea that less of anyt...

In this episode, we’re joined by Luke—a player I’ve coached since he was 12—for an honest conversation about navigating a tough season. Together, we reflect on the lessons hidden in struggle, the parts of the journey that never make the highlight reel, and what it means to grow when things don’t go as planned. One of the most powerful insights was the idea that soccer, like any passion, doesn’t ha...

In Part 2 of our conversation on hiding, we explore how the roles we play—from social media to sports to storytelling—can distance us from our true selves. We reflect on our favorite movies and how social media mimics those experiences: full of edits, filters, and carefully curated versions of life. Melissa shares how the comment section often holds more truth than the post itself, while Andres dr...

In this episode, we unpack the word “hiding” —one of the most revealing and challenging parts of our journey. From breakfast choices shaped by culture to why we wear what we wear, we explore how identity is often built on inherited expectations. We talk about how hiding, even behind smiles or success, quietly chips away at our well-being. Mel opens up about masking anxiety, while Andres shares a s...

In this episode, we explore the word “life” from our series Help Humans Walk Life Hiding Less. We reflect on moments that make us feel most alive—often the ones where we lose track of time. While time's limits can motivate us to live with urgency, we also consider a deeper perspective: what if life is part of something eternal? Mel shares how the temporary nature of life adds value to the ever...

In this solo episode, Andres reflects on a childhood memory of watching Scooby-Doo and how its simple, repetitive storyline revealed a deeper truth: the characters who stayed true to themselves—who never wore a mask—always came out ahead. Using this as a metaphor, Andres introduces the core theme that will guide a new season of reflection: "help humans walk life hiding less." This phrase...

In this episode, we explore the word “walk” from our phrase "Help Humans Walk Life Hiding Less." We reflect on how pace reveals self-worth—and how rushing often means we’re being pulled by the world rather than led from within. Inspired by the example of Jesus and even Messi, we look at how walking—physically and spiritually—is a sign of confidence, clarity, and presence. We also dive in...

En este episodio en solitario, te invito a entrar en un nuevo marco de pensamiento—un punto de partida fresco para cómo nos vemos a nosotros mismos, a Dios y al amor. ¿Y si la parte más importante de cualquier viaje no es el destino, sino desde dónde comenzamos? Exploro cómo comenzar desde la vergüenza puede distorsionarlo todo, y propongo un cambio radical: ¿y si la historia de la humanidad no co...

In this episode, we continue exploring the phrase “help humans walk life hiding less” by focusing on the second word— humans . We challenge the idea that “we're only human” and instead propose that humans are the closest expression of God on earth—full of beauty, goodness, and capacity. We reflect on our longing for unconditional love and the tension between desiring it and expecting it from o...

In this solo episode, I invite you to step into a new frame of thinking—a fresh starting point for how we see ourselves, God, and love. What if the most important part of any journey isn't the destination, but where we start from? I explore how starting with shame can distort everything, and propose a radical shift: what if the story of humanity began not with a test of obedience, but with a t...

In this episode, we kick off the "Help Humans Walk Life Hiding Less" series by exploring the first word: Help . We unpack the strength it takes to ask for help and the courage it requires to overcome pride, fear, or embarrassment. A surprising twist came through the lens of AI—why is it easier to ask a chatbot for help than a person? Could it be that we don’t fear the question, we fear t...

In this episode, we explore how our deep passion for music, people, and purpose is often an act of worship—whether we realize it or not. We unpack the idea that we’re wired to worship, and the real question isn’t  if  we worship, but  what  and  in what order . Through the lenses of emotional intelligence, relational intelligence, and character development, we reflect on how misplaced devotion can...

In this episode, we sit down with a jigsaw puzzle—and a few deep thoughts. As the pieces come together, so do the lessons. We talk about how progress in life, much like a puzzle, isn’t always instant or obvious. Sometimes, when things feel stuck, you’re not lost—you’re just working in a different corner. We explore the beauty of small wins, the power of shifting focus without losing purpose, and h...

In this episode, we dive into the role emotional intelligence plays in an athlete’s ability to grow—not just physically or tactically, but internally. We share the story of a player navigating the challenge of not speaking English fluently, and how his willingness to make mistakes out loud is actually what accelerates his growth. From there, we explore the deeper principle of forgiveness: how the...

In this episode, we unpack the meaning behind the name INFINITE and explore what truly makes a life timeless. From the legendary careers of Messi, Michael Phelps, Kobe Bryant, and MJ to the everyday moments that shape character, we dive into the foundational principles of relational intelligence, emotional intelligence, and character development. These aren’t just buzzwords—they’re the ingredients...

In this episode, we dive into the journey of balancing origins, ambition, and achievement. From growing up in a foreign land to navigating family expectations, first jobs, and the pursuit of dreams, we explore what it takes to succeed despite the challenges of being an outsider. We’ll discuss the realities of being a student-athlete, juggling sports, school, and work, and uncover the core human pr...

How do we have  the talk  in a way that actually helps young people? In this episode, we dive into the conversations we should be having with adolescents about sex, relationships, and impulse control. Andres shares a real-life example of an athlete who sought advice about having sex with his girlfriend, sparking a deeper discussion on self-control, emotional maturity, and making choices that align...

Success isn’t just about talent or hard work—it’s about the people who help you along the way. In this episode, we share our own stories of chasing our dreams to play club and college soccer, highlighting the mentors, friends, and supporters who made it possible. We discuss how community and genuine relationships are the key to reaching your goals and why having a strong support system can make al...

Fear is a universal experience, but how we respond to it can define our journey as athletes and individuals. In this episode, we dive deep into the fears that hold us back—fear of embarrassment, failure, the unknown, and even things like snakes or deportation. Whether you're an athlete, parent, or coach, you’ll walk away with two powerful reminders:  you’re not alone in your fears, and fear is oft...