In The Know with Tony Reeves

What happens when words meant to be supportive actually cut the deepest? In this episode, I explore the subtle layers of racism, bigotry, and discrimination, and why so many people miss the nuanced forms that persist today. I share a personal story of someone saying it was “good I didn’t go to an HBCU because it wasn’t the real world”—a statement packed with bias and false assumptions. This kind o...

In this episode, I dive into the hard truth: racism didn’t disappear just because society decided to stop acknowledging it. Too often, we hear “that doesn’t happen anymore” or “we’ve moved past that,” while real people still face systemic barriers, microaggressions, and cultural denial. This conversation unpacks how racism continues to exist in hidden, unspoken ways—and why it’s critical that we r...

In this personal story, I recount my first major purchase after college—a simple furniture buy that turned into a moment of deep internal conflict. Was I being profiled? Was I invisible because I was young… or Black… or both?  This isn’t just about a trip to Sears in 1992—it’s about what it means to exist in a space where you’re supposed to belong but don’t feel seen.  Listen in as I break down th...

In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on my experience as a Black Generation Xer attending a predominantly white university in the years after the civil rights movement. While my dreams were shaped by stories of HBCUs, my reality landed me in a space where I was one of the few — constantly navigating identity, isolation, and subtle forms of exclusion. From culture shock to classroom dynamics,...

Generation X was raised to believe that military service, skilled trades, or a college degree would guarantee stability and success. But by the time we entered adulthood, the world had already changed—and no one gave us a new map. In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I break down why Generation X wasn’t truly prepared for the shifting economic, cultural, and social landscape we inherit...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, we dive into the quiet truth of adult friendships—how they evolve, why they thin out, and what makes the few that remain even more powerful. Tony explores the emotional and practical changes in how we bond after 40, offering personal stories, relatable insights, and a reminder that deeper often means fewer. Whether you’re reconnecting with old frien...

Generation X is often called “the forgotten generation,” but we are far from irrelevant. We are the gateway—raised in the aftermath of powerful revolutions, yet coming of age just as the digital world exploded. In this podcast, I share raw and real reflections on what it means to grow up as a Gen Xer: self-sufficient, media-grounded, trauma-aware, and always bridging the divide between Boomers and...

“When 40 Changed Everything” is a personal reflection on the moment I realized my health had to take center stage. In this powerful episode, I share how a routine doctor’s visit in my early 40s — and the words of a culturally aware physician — opened my eyes to the importance of proactive care, especially for men of color. As friends around me started facing life-altering health events, we unknowi...

Turning 40 wasn’t just another birthday — it was a turning point. In this episode, I open up about the moment I realized I was living a life I hadn’t planned: running my own law firm, carrying the full weight of responsibility, and redefining success on my own terms. If you’re in your 40s — or approaching them — and wondering what it all means, this one’s for you. This is about career shifts, hard...

In this powerful follow-up to “What They Didn’t Teach Us,” Anthony Reeves reflects on the unique experience of being raised as a Generation X child in a newly desegregated America. Guided by Baby Boomer parents who grew up in the thick of segregation, Gen X kids were thrust into a world of new laws but old attitudes.  This episode explores the community-based parenting tools passed down from the C...

In this episode, I explore the lessons Gen X Black kids weren’t taught in school—but learned through life, family, and experience. From forgotten Black high schools to KKK terror parades, and from the strength of the Black church to quiet legacies of integration, I reflect on the stories we inherited and the importance of capturing them while we still can. History isn’t just what’s written—it’s wh...

In this episode, I reflect on what it meant to grow up as a Black Gen X kid in the American South, just years after the Jim Crow era officially ended. This personal narrative explores the generational trauma, family stories, and cultural survival skills passed down from those who lived through segregation.  Support my work and access exclusive content: patreon.com/TheAnthonyReevesExperience Anthon...

A former adjunct professor shares insider insights on the differences between online and in-person college experiences. Whether you’re deciding between the two or just curious about what each option offers, this episode provides the key questions you should ask before making your choice.  Hashtags:  #CollegeDecision #OnlineLearning #HigherEd #CollegeTips #EducationMatters #OnlineVsInPerson #Studen...

Have you ever looked at your resume and looked at the skills you have acquired from your past jobs?   Have you ever thought about the value people would pay you for the things you used to do?  In this episode, we talk about the importance your resume and the things you have done in the past. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/...

How do you know if the college you’re attending is truly the right fit for you? It’s not just about academics—it’s about connection and purpose. In this episode, we break down two key questions every student should ask:  1️⃣ Have you found a community of people you genuinely connect with? 2️⃣ Is your college experience fueling your purpose and passion?  Sometimes, it takes a semester (or less) to...

Turning 40 was more than just a milestone—it was a turning point in my professional journey. In this episode, I reflect on how I transitioned from maintaining physical law offices for appearances to fully embracing a virtual practice. The biggest lesson? Clients care about outcomes, not where you work. If you’ve ever found yourself clinging to outdated ideas of success, this episode is for you. Le...

In this candid episode, we explore the hidden struggles and trauma that often go unnoticed in the college experience. Drawing from personal stories of financial hardship, cramped living conditions, and the subtle yet painful reminders of poverty, we discuss how the dream of higher education can become a battlefield of survival and resilience. Join us as we unpack the emotional rollercoaster of nav...

In this episode, Tony reflects on the transformative experiences of his sophomore year at the University of Tampa, where an unexpected encounter with a fellow student from Aruba opened the door to a rich tapestry of cultural exchange. He shares how stepping out of his comfort zone and building friendships with Caribbean, Central American, and South American peers helped him better understand the b...

If you are ever going to start a business, the two most important days are Day 0 and Day 1. Day 0 isn’t a single day. It’s the entire process of preparation before you officially open your doors. In this episode, I take you through my personal experience of launching my own law firm, sharing the key decisions, challenges, and lessons I learned along the way. From legal paperwork and licensing to c...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you back to Day One of my journey into entrepreneurship. From leaving a secure corporate job to establishing my law firm in an unfamiliar town, this is the story of excitement, fear, and resilience. I share the challenges of starting from zero: navigating a new office, creating processes, and signing my first client—all while grappling with s...

What does it really mean to have a “dream job”? In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, we challenge the traditional idea of tying your happiness and aspirations to a job. Tony shares personal stories—like his journey to becoming a naval officer—and explores why many of us equate our dreams with working for someone else.  Is it the job itself or the outcomes we’re chasing? And are there o...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I recount the summer of 2005, when I stepped into an entirely new world as campaign counsel for a Florida senator running for Congress. From specialized election law training to attending an exclusive political fundraiser on a private island, this experience reshaped my understanding of politics, law, and life. Join me as I share how saying “yes” to...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you back to my law school days at Florida State University, where a seemingly simple legal writing assignment transformed into an unforgettable experience. Join me as I recount the competitive journey of the appellate competition, culminating in the honor of arguing before the Florida Supreme Court.  I’ll share the awe of stepping into the ha...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you on a deeply personal journey through my experiences in the military. From my roots in ROTC to stepping into the role of a young black officer, I reflect on the lessons learned, the challenges faced, and the values instilled during my time in service.  We’ll explore: • The family legacy that inspired my military path. • How leadership and...

In this episode of “In The Know with Tony Reeves,” titled “From Pine Bluff to Tampa: A Journey of Growth and Transformation,” Tony Reeves shares his personal narrative of moving from his hometown of Pine Bluff, Arkansas, to Tampa, Florida. He reflects on the challenges and opportunities encountered during this transition, offering insights into how these experiences shaped his personal and profess...