Imperfectly Married the Podcast

In this episode Michael and Heather discuss the biggest traits that end relationships and how to fix them. We talk about The Silent Relationship Killer - Unmet Expectations. Unmet Expectations are destroying marriages. Not because they’re unreasonable, but because they’re unspoken. We start our new series “The Big Four: What’s Breaking Marriages?”, Michael and Heather dive deep into the topic of u...

Looking for a fun way to reconnect with your spouse this week? In this week's Date Night Challenge, we’re challenging couples to take date night beyond dinner and a movie. Step outside the routine and explore your community together—take a local class, go on a tour, or find a fun community event. We share why doing something new together can reignite connection, laughter, and shared memories. Plus...

Communication in marriage isn’t always easy, even after 26 years. In this episode we're talking about How To Keep Communication From Ruining Your Marriage. We share one of the biggest fights we’ve had in years and what it taught us about tone, timing, assumptions, triggers, and how your past can impact your present communication. We're diving into: how poor communication creates false assu...

Couples—this week, we’re challenging you to do something powerful: ✅ Plan a double date with another couple ✅ Ask this question during the night: “What is one way that you see us putting intentional effort into our relationship?” ✅ Let the conversation go deeper than surface-level. Celebrate the wins. Learn from each other. Laugh a lot. The truth? Growth in marriage isn’t just about the two of...

Are you “trying” in your marriage... or are you actually training? Heather and Michael break down why effort alone isn’t enough. You’ll learn how to move from momentary motivation to long-term growth using their ICE Method — Intention, Consistency, and Effort. Whether you’re dealing with communication issues, anger, emotional stress, or just feeling stuck, this episode will help you:-Stop reacting...

It’s time for the “Her Choice” Date Night Challenge! 💃 This week, the challenge is simple: let her plan the entire date night—no suggestions, no changes, just full trust. Whether it’s a fancy dinner, a spontaneous road trip, or a cozy night in, the goal is to follow her lead and enjoy the adventure. Connection Question: How do you feel our physical and emotional intimacy has changed since we had...

No one really prepares you for how much parenting will change your marriage. In this episode, we open up about the ways having kids has reshaped how we communicate, how we love each other, and how we stay connected in the chaos. From tag-teaming tantrums to learning what intimacy looks like on 4 hours of sleep — this is our honest look at what parenting is really doing to us… and for us. We talk a...

In today’s episode, we dive deep into a topic every couple can relate to — the seasons of marriage. Just like nature, relationships go through cycles: some vibrant and exciting, others quiet and challenging. Whether you’re in the honeymoon phase or navigating a wintery stretch, every season has value — and purpose. We’ll explore the four core seasons many couples experience over the years, how to...

Your past is part of your story—but it doesn’t have to write the script for your relationship. In this episode, we explore how childhood, family dynamics, and past relationships shape how we love, fight, and connect today. You’ll hear honest insights, encouragement, and practical ways to rewrite old patterns and build something new—together. Whether you’re working through baggage or just curious a...

In this episode of Imperfectly Married the Podcast, we discuss the question, Why or Why not get married in 2025? Michael and Heather talk about the blessings, struggles and expectations about getting married in today’s culture.

In this first episode of Imperfectly Married the Podcast, we open the door to our story—who we are, where we’ve been, and why we felt led to start this journey. With so many voices out there, why add one more? Because we believe every marriage is part of a bigger story—one worth fighting for, with grace at the center. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about honesty, growth, and choosing love, even...

Welcome to Imperfectly Married: The Podcast — where real conversations meet real commitment. We're Michael and Heather, just a married couple learning as we go, trusting God through the highs, lows, and everything in between.