I'm Not Like You

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about their bad behavior as people pleasers, why this shows up for them, and how you can detect some of the other saboteurs that might be holding you back. (And if you're interested in the assessment referenced in our chat: check it out here !)

In this episode, Eileen and Esther review some of the best and worst of NY Mag's 194 new etiquette rules, from the recent article "Do You Know How to Behave? Are You Sure? How to text, tip, ghost, host, and generally exist in polite society today".  We loved, we hated, we laughed...you'll love our thoughts on this how to behave guide for post-pandemic modern society.  Link to the article...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about how to take ownership for what their vibes attract - the good, the f*cked up, and everything in between.

Happy Valentine's Day, Boo <3 And happy Valentine's Day to our INLY listeners. Our love language is ALL the words of affirmation you've shared with us about this podcast since we launched (this is lucky number 20!!!!). And if you have no idea what we're talking about with love languages, then you will love this episode dedicated to the original 5 love languages (before memes were considered wor...

In this episode, Esther teaches Eileen about the latest trend to hit her TikTok feed - Luckiest Girl Syndrome. The two hosts are shook by what they learn about each other's POV on this one! 

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about talk about whether or not we need therapists AND besties. 

In this episode, Esther and Eileen contemplate if dry January is a fuck yes or a fuck no.  (And if it's a fuck yes, why and how to make it through).

In this episode, Eileen CAN NOT BELIEVE she got Esther to do a show on manifesting.  It's another week of new year, new you and your INLY hosts are here to give you all the ways to bring what you want (or what you need?) to life. 

In this episode, Esther and Eileen continue their new year, new you series and talk about how they invest in themselves in ways that are nothing like the other. 

In this episode, Esther and Eileen consider the benefits of journaling, what's fair game and what's off limits when it comes to reading other's private thoughts, and why we might be afraid to write.  AND, this is the first episode of our New Year, New You series! 

In this episode, Esther and Eileen share their perspectives on how they make decisions (outside their incredibly complex framework - is it a fuck yes, or a fuck no, of course).  Per usual, our hosts have two different perspectives, but one host in particular has a very unconventional approach.   PS We're extra excited about this one because it's the FIRST time we've taken a topic from an...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen consider how their career paths were shaped by mentors and what makes a great leader.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen bring two different perspectives to the topic of how we show up for ourselves and others.  

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about style IN (and definitely not FOR) your 40s. Per usual, we will challenge the status quo, talk about the TikTok trends we binge and laugh at ourselves. Disclaimer: This episode title is a song lyric. Credit: The Revivalists (Who Esther has never heard of, and would likely hate ; ).

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss whether or not it's critical to have hype people around us, or if hype should really come from within.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen face the fact that some relationships can’t evolve with us as we grow and challenge each other on where we let others hold us back. Sound sticky? It is.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen consider whether or not there should be boundaries when it comes to what we share with those in our inner and outer circles.  Can you guess who thinks she’s the "over sharer" and who is often accused, by the other, of being too private?

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk (and laugh) about how it important it is to be liked, when it matters and when it doesn't.

Have you ever been negged? Chances are, the answer is yes (but you probably didn't even realize it!!!)  This one had our minds BLOWN. 

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the choice to have plastic surgery.  If you're considering any procedure, from filler to a tummy tuck (or if you're just curious like one of our co-hosts!), you don't want to miss the advice, tips, and more in this episode.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss how they've struggled to understand how to make friends with other parents.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss when it's ok to be fine and when it isn't.

Welcome to the first episode of I'm Not Like You!  In this episode, Eileen challenges Esther to reconsider making decisions based on whether or not the outcomes will make her want to say fuck yes...or fuck no.