I'm Not Like You

In this episode, Esther and Eileen have a special guest - Susan Cabral! Susan is a Feng Shui consultant and practitioner of Quantum Healing Hypnosis Therapy. Living her life by "following the fun," Susan has been a jewelry designer, artist, retail buyer and even does DJ sets! Susan gives the two a deep dive into practical feng shiui for the home and a sneak peek into the world of Quantum...

On this episode, Esther and Eileen are joined by Human Design Coach, Becca Davidson. Haven't heard of human design? We got you. This episode talks about how human design can shape the awareness of who you are, how you show up in relationships, and how to live better by leaning into your natural energy sources. The two talk (and laugh!) about how they're alike in their personal readings, wh...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen do their favorite thing - unpack a list from the Gram to decide what they agree with and what they don't. This time it was Dan Go's 30 things no one tells you when you reach the age of 40. Check out @danfounder and this episode to see what the 2 think!

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the early 2010s theme for the corporate ladder climibing woman, the "girlboss." According the founder of the term, Sophia Amoruso, the term has been cancelled. The two discuss their own experiences with the word and cancel culture at large! Elle article referenced here

On this episode, Esther and Eileen do a triple date with none other than their husbands and the gorgeous winemakers, Matt and Alana, of Tribeca Wine Collective! This episode has all the tips on how to order, buy and drink wine plus a POV on wine for the health conscious. Thanks to Tribeca Wine Collective (and Nitzan and Simon!) for joining this week! For more on Alana and Matt's story, check o...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about their self care rituals. From enjoying daily pleasures like a latte, to being intentional with the energy you surround yourself with, the two consider self care through a less traditional lens. We love a the obvious self care like a massage, but there's so much more to talk about on this topic!

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the theme of the week - LOVE! Except the two discuss the complex subject of self love. Eileen hosted an experience recently where it became apparent that in a large group of women, very few actually practice self love. From exploring what it is, to exploring why it might be hard to offer it to ourselves, it's an interesting chat on empowering ourselve...

Well, not really nothing! On this episode, Esther and Eileen decided it would just be fun to catch up about what their current fuck yes and fuck no moments are!

Happy New Year (ok, a little belated), I'm Not Like You! We're back! And we're excited to start the year with our "in" and "out" lists for 2024 (because obviously we're going to start the year with a TikTok trend). You know we don't do resolutions! But we do like a little intentionality to set the tone for what we want more and less of this year. Can you gue...

It's time for Esther and Eileen's 2023 Wrapped. The two did a top 5 of their greatest lessons of 2023! It was a big year of learning and of course, all the f*ck yes and f*ck no moments! Happy New Year INLY. We LOVE YOU! x, E + E

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk about the complexities of women and power - from the traditional dynamic to the more modern take. The biggest question posed is whether or not women (we) are really willing to step into our power or if we choose to avoid it. It's a juicy one!

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the "let them theory." Inspired by the Mel Robbins podcast, the two took a deep dive into her take on the subject. Dubbed a "life-changing mindset hack," to "let them" is to give up trying to control the people in your life for the sake of more peace in your own. Where do they think it's a f*ck yes and where is it s f*ck...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen explore the new TikTok trend - being delulu (or delusional) and... a less trendy but very important emotion - anger. Anger is often seen as a feeling that is unbecoming or one we want to avoid, but the two discover it's a very healthy emotion sometimes we just need to experience.

In this episode, Eileen talks to Esther about her experience quitting her job earlier this fall. She discusses what drove her to make this unconventional decision, and what's next. She shares advice for those contemplating (or wanting to contemplate) a similar path and thoughts on life post the corporate world.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen chat with the founder of Liberate Your Energy, Gemma Parmar. Gemma is a coach and guide for those on a journey to discover pleasure, to connect to their mildest and wildest desires, and to work with fear to become more whole. Her ideas on facing grief, self-acceptance, and giving ourselves permission to experience joy and satisfaction are nothing short of wise, b...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen talk with special guest Meg Gerber, a functional dietitian and absolute GURU of gut health. Listen in for Meg's simple, accessible and low cost approach to optimizing your mood, regulating your stress, and JUJ'ing up your days with her approach to improving gut health for a happier and healthier life! Follow Meg on IG @groundednourish or learn more here C...

On this episode, Esther and Eileen host a very special guest - image consultant, stylist and energy worker, Eve Michaels. Eve is an author, motivational speaker and an absolute EXPERT on all things beauty from the inside and out. From her thoughts on the art and science of dressing well, to how the colors we wear compliment our confidence, this episode is an inspiration for how to live well at any...

In this episode, Esther leaves the mic to Eileen while she's off in Paris buying all the Chanel (a true fuck oui). Thanks to all the amazing feedback from last week's episode, The Anti Meditation Meditation, the two hosts decided that while Eileen was flying solo, she should take the opportunity to actually share a meditation. She also shares ideas on how to work with a busy mind to help l...

In this episdoe, Esther and Eileen talk about a different definition of meditation. While it can be a heady topic, they discuss the different forms to practice and how the overall idea of meditation can be limiting if not explored!

In this episode, Esther and Eileen unpack the IG meme trend to talk about extroverts and introverts. There are many categories of "the verts" and in this episode, we unpack them all!

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the value of old friendships in their lives. Are old friends better than new friends? Or do we need old and new friends to create balance what we need from these relationships. They explore how friendships stand the test of time (or don't) and the power of having female friendships in our lives.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen celebrate ONE YEAR of INLY! We go back to the beginning and revisit our favorite episodes and reflect on how we've changed (and how we've stayed the same), when it comes to how we live for more fuck yes moments. A HUGE THANK YOU to the INLY audience, for supporting us! We LOVE this pod and all of you. X, E + E

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss the complex world of feeling burnt out.  It's a common theme among women in middle age and it goes much further than just being exhausted by work (a common misconception). They consider how exploring their wildest desires could lead to understanding how to overcome these feelings, what happens when your "tools" don't work (and you turn t...

In this episode, Esther and Eileen discuss a superpower we can all use to super charge our relationships and our lives - the art of knowing when (and why) to STFU.

In this episode, Esther and Eileen explore the tricky world of work friendships. Are they fake and contrived or a must have to combat day to day loneliness? An article published by the Harvard Business Review confirmed that close friendships increase workplace productivity. One host is on board, the other is more skeptical.