I’m Just Sayin’ Podcast

I decided to make a mini series call "Emotional Availability". I talk about what it takes to become Emotionally Available. Part 1 is about "OPENESS" and what it really means. As always take what resonates and leave the rest!

In this episode, I talk about my many different dating strategies that work for me when it comes to going on dates. I break it down into 3 different tiers of dates. There's definitely levels to this. Tune In to hear my take on it! As always, take what resonates and leave the shit that don't LOL!

HeartBent is the level or levels above being Heartbroken. I've realized I've been HeartBent for quite some time now, but it's all in the healing process. In this episode, I deep dive into the phrase. (Don't try to google it because the phrase is made up LOL!) Nether the less, I talk about my HeartBentness. I just keep making up words, but whatever! I hope this resonates, and what d...

What's more important, forgiving yourself or forgiving others? How do you heal? In this episode, I talk about healing and being heartbroken from past relationships/situationships. Here are the steps I take in my journey. Like always, I hope this resonates, and leave the rest!

I make my return for SEASON 4. Sorry I've been away for soooo LONG! But In this episode, I talk about what we need to do to make dating fun again. It was never meant to be trash, but hey, here we are! I hope you find validity in this episode. You know the vibes. Take what resonates and leave the rest! Please Follow me on Instagram: @imjustsayinpod_ @clv.bean Love you all!

This episode is all about deciding if Closure matters or not. I'ma let y'all decide. I hope this resonates.

Part 2. To one of my favorite episodes.. Antoinette and I go into more depth about spinning the block. Tune in to hear our Conclusion. Spinning the Block Pt2!!! 

So for those who don't know. The phrase "Spinning the Block" means to revisit an old relationship with someone. Also can be in other forms like situationships, hook ups, or even just random encounters. To each his own LOL.  I have my homegirl Antionette back to discuss the different types of "Spinning the Block" situations. Probably one of the most funniest episodes to date. As well as, proba...

Do y'all Lurk on other people's lives or Social Media pages? Asking for a friend. LoL! In this episode, I talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to Lurking on other peoples pages. I want to give it a new name. Can we call it "Checking in?" Even though Lurking is usually negative, there can be good sides to Lurking as well... I mean Checking In. I hope this resonates.. Enjoy!

This episode was inspired by the events that took place in Showtime's "The Chi". In this episode, I discuss what Dating looks like in 2022. If we get out of our own way, we can really find the ones we are supposed to be with. I'm Just Sayin' 

What are the ingredients to a healthy relationship? In this episode, I talk about my top 5 ingredients to a "Healthy Relationship". I want to be clear here. I AM NOT AN EXPERT! LOL. Take what resonates, and modify the rest ha! However, I definitely believe that this "Recipe" is the one that will help us achieve longevity in our relationships.. #ImJustSayin'  

Nobody Ever Really Dies. In this episode, I talk about my trip back to Virginia. I also talk about the losing of my grandmother, and how I've been taking it all in. Life after Death, How do we keep living after a lost? Come hear my thoughts and I hope this resonates... 

**VULNARABILITY ALERT**  In this episode, I explain my experience with the transition from being single to being in a relationship. I Just want to make this clear. This ain't for the weak.. LOL. I hope you all can relate to what I'm feeling, and I hope this helps you on your journey. If you're single or even in a relationship. HMU on all socials, I really want to know what y'all think!! ENJOY...

In this episode, I express how being super single can be detrimental to your potential relationships. I also introduce the new segments to the Podcast. Hope you enjoy the vibes!!!    

I'm BAAAAAACK!!!!!! This is just an introductory episode to my return to the Microphone! I'm happy to be back and I give you some updates on what's to come in the future.. I hope y'all are as happy as I am LOL!!!

Ladies and Gents we have reached the Season FINALE!!!!!  I end this season with a bang bruh! In this episode I talk about letting go of people and moving on with my life. My Trip to Virginia was very eye-opening and came up with the conclusion that it's finally time to move the HELL ON! This episode is about how to handle people that don't rock with you anymore. LEARN FROM ME! Tune in, this episod...

This week is another throwback when I pulled up for the first time with the Beautiful ladies of the HighKey Podcast. We had some real interesting thoughts when it came to Red Flags with Women. here is the original podcast notes from their episode that I featured on. MAKE SURE YOU FOLLOW THEM!!!! "The Highkey Co-hosts are joined with a male counterpart, Brandon David from I’m Just Sayin’ Podcast, t...

Here is a Throwback with my Homies @ the 8 More Than 92 Podcast. Harrison and Banks let me bless their podcast, and we was st8 clowning. We discussed a lot in this episode from police brutality to the Godfather himself Kevin Samuels. Check in!!!!  Make sure you follow my brothas!!!  @ 8mt92_podcast 

This episode isn't for the WEAK LOL! I talk about women that are scared to speak their minds when they don't want to pursue a real relationship with a man. They go the hard way instead of speaking their true feelings. This for them "Let's just be Friends" head-ass chicks. I also discuss how men don't like that shit. Not all of you do this but, majority do.. Here are some solutions for y'all ass! T...

In this episode my brotha Jamel stops by to discuss TRUST ISSUES when it comes to dating and relationships. We talked about where some of these trust issues may come from. If you are single, sit back and think about why you are single. It may be because of the dating climate, or simply because of trust issues. Tune IN!!!  

In this episode, I just wanted to celebrate and talk about my favorite episodes over the past year. I really just want to say thanks for all the Support. Also, I talked about the status of the Podcast and where I'm heading in the future. We only going up from here!  LOVE Y'ALL HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! 

My home girl Marlita pulls up and drops knowledge and light on why getting therapy is important for the black community. We talk about stigmas in the black community and why we need to break down those barriers. We also talk about mental health in relationships, and how having the right mental state can help improve and maintain your relationships. Since its Mental Health Awareness Month, its only...

My brotha Drew stops in to talk with me about DATING SINGLE MOM's. It's actually something to think about honestly. We discuss the positives and the negatives about dating a single Mom. We wanted to provide some steps for the single man that is actually about to date a woman with children. Like always we appreciate our single, BLACK Mom's out there that's doing it on their own, and trying figure l...

I had to get some shit off my chest this episode. I've found myself being in a shell because I'm naturally a shy guy. But now.... It's time for a change.. Lately, dating has been super trash for me, so I have been doing some self-reflection as well as doing some real shadow work. Which leads me to be more open and trying to shoot my shot more when it comes to dating.  Tap in with me after lis...

I got my first email entry! Question of the Day! Is moving on hard to do for you? I think we should all chime in on this one. The person that reached out simply asked why he got Ghosted and why is it soooooo hard to move on? I weigh in with my own personal experiences as well. I hope this episode resonates with you all and hopefully we can make a bigger conversation and learn from each others past...