I’ll Explain All This Later Podcast

In this episode, Big Smash gets to the heart of what true intimacy is all about. He's talking about how physical intimacy is only as good as the knowing of the mind and soul of the person you're with. It's time to stop with the surface-level stuff. Big Smash breaks down how to open up intimacy by opening up your mind. He’ll explain how asking the right questions and being more in tune...

After a week away, Big Smash is back to tackle the modern dating world head-on. In this episode, we're talking about the "dating resume." We'll break down how to confidently put yourself out there by highlighting your strengths, owning your value, and making a compelling case for why you are a great catch. Stop waiting to be picked and learn how to present your best self as the mos...

Welcome to  I’ll Explain All of This Later —but today, I’m sliding in as your guest host. Smash decided he was gonna call out of work, so I’m crashing the pod. Big thanks to Smash for letting me take over his mic (big pause). I’m Styles—yeah, that’s  S-T-Y-L-E-S —from  The Brunch Hour Podcast ,  Hustle & Heal Podcast , and  Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report . And today’s topic?  Dating in 2025...

This week on “I’ll Explain All This Later,” join Big Smash and Uncle Dolemite as they deep dive into the art of the lie.the duo gets personal, sharing stories of times they—or people they know—have bent the truth to fit in, get ahead, or simply to avoid an uncomfortable conversation. Is it possible to navigate the modern world without some level of performance, or is everyone just playing a role?...

Big Smash goes solo to explore this incredible feeling further. He explains why this deep, mutual devotion is a healthy, empowering form of love that fosters true connection and should never lead to complacency. Part 2 tap in

We back come join us on this two part episode this is Part 1: Big Smash and Rose dive into the powerful feeling of loving someone so much, and being loved so well in return, that you’re inspired to give your absolute all – mentally, financially, physically, and emotionally. They discuss why this profound reciprocal care makes going “all out” feel completely worth it.

This week on "I'll Explain All This Later," Big Smash dives into a topic we've all likely encountered: unsolicited advice . In "Thanks, But I Didn't Ask You," he explores those well-intentioned moments when someone offers guidance you didn't seek, and how, despite good intentions, it can sometimes backfire . This is especially true in the podcasting world, where eve...

The group chat goes silent. Two of your mains are beefing, and suddenly, you’re Switzerland—but everyone’s demanding you declare war. In "Unpicking of Sides," we tackle the impossible: what do you do when your crew collapses and you're caught in the crossfire? Hosts Big Smash and the returning Rose Gold dive into the messy reality of fractured friendships and the intense pressure to ch...

Welcome back for the highly anticipated second half of Season 3! In "Unplugging the Grid," Episode 10, Big Smash kicks things off with a powerful message about disconnecting to truly connect. This episode sees Smash openly reflecting on the role his phone and social media played in the most challenging moments of his past.  He recounts the critical missteps that strained his relationships...

Midseason finale is here Big Smash and Ms. MJ, as they get real about that pivotal moment:  when do you  really  know you're ready to make it official with someone? In this episode, Big Smash and little big sis MJ dive deep into their own experiences, sharing the personal journeys that led them to say "us" with different partners throughout their lives. They'll unpack those undenia...

Big Smash is back in the booth — and this time, he’s not just telling a story, he’s owning one. On this episode of  I’ll Explain All This Later , Smash peels back the layers and walks us through some of the realest relationship lessons he had to learn the hard way. The missteps, the missed signs, the times he lost himself trying to hold somebody else down — it’s all on the table. Special guest nar...

Ever been there? When it feels like everything is going sideways, and you look over at your partner and wonder, "Is this love still  there ?" Navigating relationships in a world that often throws extra hurdles our way, I'm unpacking this very question. Can we truly love through job loss, health scares, family struggles, and everything in between? Join me as we explore the real, raw con...

Yo, what up,I’ll explain all this later universe Big Smash back in the booth, and this week we're getting REAL. For too long, I was pointing fingers, making excuses, and straight-up dodging responsibility in my relationships. My past? Let's just say it's got some wreckage, and a big chunk of that was my own damn fault. This episode is a deep dive into my accountability journey. I'm...

Yo, what up, what up, fam! Get ready 'cause the vibes are about to be  extra  lit! Your boys Big Smash and RawSAS from the legendary Smash N Raw podcast are back in the building, for a boundary-breaking episode you DO NOT want to miss! That's right, we've got the raw and uncut perspectives you love colliding with the enlightened (and slightly idiotic) insights you didn't know you n...

This week we're tackling a topic that hits close to home: pride. In relationships, that stubborn ego can be a silent killer, building walls we don't even realize are there. We know, especially in our community, the pressure to be strong, to always be right. But sometimes, that pride is the very thing preventing us from experiencing the deep, fulfilling partnerships we crave. We're divi...

We've all been there: relationships that crash and burn. But what happens when the dust settles, and it's time to face your part in the wreckage? Big Smash and Ms. Bree are diving deep into the tough topic of accountability. They're sharing personal stories of not owning up to their mistakes in past relationships, the messy conversations that followed, and the aftermath. Is it ever too...

In this episode, Big Smash drops truth bombs about the importance of self-love and self-care within the context of relationships. We dive deep into the concept of "You First, Always," exploring how prioritizing your own well-being isn't selfish, but rather essential for building strong and sustainable connections. Big Smash challenges the traditional notions of "putting your partne...

Season 3 of "I'll Explain All This Later" is HERE, and we're kicking things off with a deep dive into the often-misunderstood world of intimacy. Join your host, Big Smash, as he gets vulnerable, sharing his personal journey of understanding and evolving in his relationships. He'll candidly discuss past shortcomings, the crucial lessons learned, and how his perspective on intima...

Big Smash is BACK,and this week we're getting down to the nitty-gritty of LOVE! Forget the fairy tales, we're talking REAL relationships, the kind that build empires of happiness, brick by brick. This ain't about "me" and "my" – it's about the explosive power of WE!Forget individual strength, we're diving deep into the force that moves mountains, the bond that w...

Feeling lost after a breakup or divorce? You're not alone. This week on Ill Explain All This Later Podcast, host Big Smash dives into the often daunting world of post-heartbreak dating. We'll explore the emotional rollercoaster of healing, rebuilding confidence, and taking the first steps back into the dating scene. Whether you're ready to mingle or just dipping your toes in the water,...

In this episode,Go with the legendary Big Smash to delve into the profound topic of grief. We'll explore the multifaceted nature of grief, from the immediate shock and pain to the long-term emotional and psychological impacts. Big Smash,shares his own personal experiences with loss and offers invaluable insights on coping mechanisms, finding meaning in the face of sorrow, and ultimately, findi...

In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of love and acceptance in a relationship where one partner's career choice challenges societal norms. We'll explore the challenges faced by individuals navigating relationships with partners who work in unconventional fields, such as sex work. We'll discuss the importance of unconditional love, open communication, and self-reflection...

In this episode, Big Smash dives deep into the art of navigating heated arguments with your partner. We all know the feeling – tempers flare, words are said, and suddenly the air is thick with tension. But what if there's a way to cool things down and find a path back to understanding? Big Smash shares his unique insights on how to: Recognize the signs of an escalating argument: Spot the warni...

In this episode, we dive deep into the 90-day dating rule – a popular framework for navigating the early stages of a new relationship. We'll explore: What exactly is the 90-day rule? We break down the core principles and how it encourages intentional dating. The pros and cons: We weigh the benefits of establishing clear boundaries and fostering mindful connection against potential drawbacks an...

In this episode, Big Smash and Sosa from the Minnesota Cold Talk Podcast dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, exploring how the pervasive influence of social media shapes our interactions and expectations. They discuss: The impact of social media on intimacy: How curated online personas and constant comparisons can erode genuine connection and authenticity. Navigating the press...