Danielle Lew, Jesus-lover, Wife, Mom, Therapist, Relationship Coach

If I Were the Devil: The War On Love Podcast

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HI- Quick Note: I recommend you start from Introduction as the topics are given in a way that builds on former topics! Welcome to If I Were the Devil: The War on Love — a podcast for Christian Men & Women who know what God's Word says about them in their minds, but struggle to believe it in their hearts I'm Danielle Lew, a Certified Professional Coach, Therapist, APSATS-certified betrayal trauma specialist, and a fellow traveler on this messy, beautiful journey of faith. I offer both therapy & coaching services, because, while we all have "trouble" on this side of heaven, not everyone needs cl...

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Danielle Lew, Jesus-lover, Wife, Mom, Therapist, Relationship Coach

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Religion

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Jul 6, 2026

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Day 13_Your Body: Holy Temple or Evil Flesh Part 3 19.02.2026

Reflection Questions: 1. Where are you living — about your body or in it? 1 Thessalonians 5:23 calls God to sanctify us completely - spirit, soul, and body. Take a moment and ask yourself: when you think about your relationship with God, are you experiencing it mostly as head knowledge, or can you actually feel His presence? Where in your body do you carry disconnection, numbness, or shame? What w...

Day 12_Your Body: Holy Temple or Evil Flesh Part 2 17.02.2026

Reflection Questions: 1. The Whole Person Matters to God 1 Thessalonians 5:23 says "May your whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless." If God's sanctifying work encompasses every dimension of who we are, what areas of your physical or emotional health have you been neglecting under the belief that "spiritual" healing was enough? What would it look like to invite God into those areas to...

Day 11_Your Body: Holy Temple or Evil Flesh Part 1 16.02.2026

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Bonus: Valentines Day: Fathers Love Letter 15.02.2026

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Day 10_ Strategies that keep us in captivity (Though we’re FREE!) 15.02.2026

Journal Prompt Questions for Going Deeper: 1. Recognizing the Enemy's Strategies "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places." – Ephesians 6:12 Which of the 10 enemy distortion strategies resonated most deeply with you? Write about s...

Day 9: We exist because of a sacrifice made 12.02.2026

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Day 8: Your Biggest Weapon is Biggest Target 11.02.2026

Deeper Reflection Prompts: Here are 3 powerful journal prompts based on God's "I AM" declarations: 1. The God Who Simply IS Exodus 3:14 reveals that God is self-existent, eternal, and unchanging - He doesn't depend on anything or anyone else to exist. Reflect on areas where you've been seeking identity, worth, or stability from things that change (relationships, achievements, appearance, others' o...

Day 7: Discovering Your True Self 10.02.2026

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Bonus: Derek’s Testimony (8 Year Overcomers Outreach Meeting) 09.02.2026

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Day 6: The Wounded Self 08.02.2026

Here is some journal questions if you'd like to take a deeper dive: 1. Redefining Love Through Scripture Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 slowly. As you read each characteristic of love (patient, kind, not self-seeking, etc.), reflect: What messages about love did I learn in childhood that contradict God's definition? Write about one specific "love lesson" from your family of origin and how it has shaped...

Day: 5 Loving Self: How Self is Formed 05.02.2026

JOURNAL PROMPTS FOR DEEPER REFLECTION: 1. Identifying Your Nervous System Patterns Scripture: Psalm 139:23-24 - "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." The transcript mentions eight telltale signs of a heightened nervous system: overreacting to minor stressors, difficulty relaxing, hyper...

Day 4: Loving Self : What is Self 04.02.2026

Journal Prompts: What Is the Self Biblically? 1. Exploring the Image of God in You "So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them." - Genesis 1:27 Reflect on what it means that you bear God's image—that your worth is ontological (based on your being) rather than functional (based on your doing): What aspects of God's character do you...

Day 3_ Love is Relationship with Jesus 03.02.2026

What is motivating my actions? When you think about your daily behaviors—giving, serving, obeying—are they rooted in love and relationship with God, or are they driven by duty, obligation, appearance, or seeking approval from others? Am I loving God, or just knowing about Him? Reflect on the difference between religious duty and true relationship. Are you spending time with God to know His charact...

Day 2_ This is War. 02.02.2026

Your Experience of God's Love Scripture: "God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them." - 1 John 4:16 How do you currently experience God's love? Is it primarily intellectual (you know He loves you) or experiential (you feel deeply loved by Him)? What barriers prevent you from fully receiving and resting in God's love for you? Prayer of Surrender Write a prayer surrendering yo...

Danielle’s Testimony Part 1 02.02.2026

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Day 1 Devotional 01.02.2026

Reflection Questions When you read "love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind," which part feels hardest for you right now? (Heart? Soul? Mind?) Why might that be? How comfortable are you with the idea of loving yourself? Does it feel selfish, biblical, difficult, or natural? In what ways might the enemy be specifically attacking your ability to love—God, others, or yourself? What...

The War On Love Devotional Introduction! 01.02.2026

START HERE! Hi! I welcome you listen to this podcast from the start, as each episode builds on the previous one! I am glad you here and I pray this podcast blesses, challenges, and grows you! Dani If you have any questions or comments- please reach out! hello@daniellenicolecoaching.com www.daniellenicolecoaching.com for Faith-Integrated Trauma Informed Relationship Coaching. Soul Care Retreats www...

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