Love Atiya

IADGAF

Education EN ↓ 77 episodes

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional , too loud , too sexual , too sensitive , too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine...

Author

Love Atiya

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Education

Podcast website

loveatiya.com

Latest episode

Jul 10, 2026

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Episodes

PATREON BONUS CONTENT: My New View Of Relationships In 2025 14.02.2025

Send us Fan Mail Join me on patreon to listen to the full clip & hear about all of my epiphanies and fun adventures! PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Support the show

53. Me & My P*ssy are TIRED | How To Advocate For Your Vulva To Your OBGYN 01.02.2025

Send us Fan Mail Happy February beautiful souls! Today’s episode is all about: Choosing self over people pleasing  Going from the side character to the main character in my own story  Dealing with anxiety & burn out  How to cope with and recognize medical coercion  How my OBGYN prescribed me pain pills for my vulva pain (wtf) How to advocate for yourself to your vulva doctor  & MORE WANT M...

52. It Hurts When I C*m 01.01.2025

Send us Fan Mail Hey beautiful souls! So the other day I was masturbating and felt a sharp pain while I orgasmed… wtf Let’s figure this sh*t out! ARTICLES SITED: https://www.health.com/mind-body/what-to-do-if-your-orgasms-are-actually-painful https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15723-vaginismus https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/12325-dyspareunia-painful-intercourse   WANT M...

51. My P*ssy Is Grieving With Kiana Founder Of Souley Gazing 08.12.2024

Send us Fan Mail Hey beautiful souls, Issa ‘nother fire episode and this time we’re joined by the wonderful Kiana founder and creator of souley gazing a digital marketing agency for creators of color (or BIPOC) Finding solo ways to explore penetration Manifesting meeting our celebrity crushes  Showing up & showing out in the sex tech space The needs for representation for black folk in sex tec...

50. An Episode For Those Who Are Also Disgusted By Men… 17.11.2024

Send us Fan Mail Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk about my disdain for men…. That’s it, that’s all WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience   SIGN UP FOR 15% OFF PLEASURE PRODUCTS FROM Ethereal X | The Self Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your...

49. Bye Bye Hinge, Hello Streets + Autism & Emetophobia Update 01.11.2024

Send us Fan Mail HAPPY SEASON 3 MY LOVES! I am soooooo proud of us, most podcasts don’t last past episode 7 so reaching season 3 is a huge accomplishment and I am so grateful for all of your support! Today's episode is all about: My one week on hinge How I’m navigating my neurodivergence My disgust with men Discovering I’m insane Taking things literally because of my autism but also like… isn...

48. An Orgasm For Your Ears Feat Cornelia From Xounds 06.10.2024

Send us Fan Mail Heyyyyy beautiful souls, If you wanna feel like you’re listening in on two besties chatting then you’ve come to the right place. In this episode we are featuring the wonderful Cornelia, Co-founder of Xounds, an audio erotica hub focused on consent and pleasure! In today’s episode we’re gonna talk about: Our kinkiest fantasies The pros of audio erotica Why consent is one of Xounds...

47. Why I Hate You Hetero Hoes 22.09.2024

Send us Fan Mail "I don't give a f*ck if he's a millionaire...he's still a man" - Love Atiya 9/15/2024 In todays episode we talk about: Why I hate (jk) you hetero hoes How it's hard hearing stories about men How unimpressed by men I am "Friends" & a lack of accountability How I miss cuddling My sexuality (am I gay or nah?) Being Angry at men & MORE B...

45. Sex After 2 Years Of Celibacy & Sex Tips For Survivors 01.09.2024

Send us Fan Mail It’ssssss my mf birthdayyyy! Happy happy August 26th my loves! In today’s MUCH ANTICIPATED episode we talk all about my experience having sex for the first time since reaching two years mark of celibacy. I’ll share some insight into ways I re-entered the world of sex after healing and recovering from multiple sexual violations within the last two years & conclude the video wit...

44. Is This My Voice Or My Ex’s | Healing From Negative Thoughts / Negative Self Talk 22.08.2024

Send us Fan Mail Hey beautiful souls! In todays episode we’re gonna talk all about: My new sex toy shop! Life as a self diagnosed neurodivergent person  My ass… literally  The fact that I had sex!  Navigating negative self talk  Overthinking & OCD Learning to clap for my own damn self  How my ex almost fully fcked up my life but unintentionally led me to meeting my higher self  How I advocated...

43. Planning Your Sex Featuring Crystal Creator Of The Sex Planner 28.07.2024

Send us Fan Mail Hello beautiful souls! I am sooooo excited to share with you the absolutely astounding star of a human Crystal A-Ego creator of The Sex Planner! In today’s episode we talk all about: - Sex Holidays - Planning sex & why it’s an important practice in every relationship - Electromagnetic Play & The Men Of Onyx - Finding balance as a parent - Loving the current you (and lettin...

42. What An Orgasm Feels Like with Polina from Nympho Life 14.07.2024

Send us Fan Mail Heyyyy beautiful souls, I am SO HAPPY to be back! In today’s fabulous episode featuring the very fun. very sexy and absolutely amazing Polina we talk all about: - Sex outdoors (exhibitionist vs voyerism) - Polina shows us the coolest sex toy she owns - How/why vibrators were created (& how doctors used to literally f*nger their clients) - Leeches & Vulvas - How Polina disc...

41. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 2 03.06.2024

Send us Fan Mail HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience! In todays episode we’re diving into part two of catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including: Never being in a relationship & navigating love as an adult Having healing and supportive friendships  Yearning to love in a world where many people are currently protecting their hearts Lo...

40. My Mom Brought Me My First Vibrator At 16 | Sex Ed At Home Feat My Mommy 25.05.2024

Send us Fan Mail Ya’ll this is my most cherished episode to DATE. I have wonder woman as a guest. A literal personification of love. The mother to all. The muva to me and the grandmuva to my cat.  This is a one of a kind experience, featuring sacred conversations that many don’t get to witness, I hope you enjoy as much as I did. It’s so long overdue. Introducing…. My mommy, Mother Earth!  In this...

39. Becoming Besties With My Vagina | More Tips For Vulva Health 28.04.2024

Send us Fan Mail Hiiiiii love bugs!  Welcome to episode 39! In this episode we’ll be touching on: How my family forgot about me  How we all have a (lack of) capacity & how I’m learning to be there for myself How compassion is the thief of joy Craving a family bond  Reconnecting with my yoni  Going to an OBGYN in Mexico  Getting gaslit by a black woman OBGYN  How I wanted to literally ☠️ on bir...

38. Things I’m Doing To Connect With My Vagina | Am I Poly & Is There A Straight Agenda? 09.04.2024

Send us Fan Mail “I fell in love with him because he was acting like me” - Atiya 4/8/24 Heyyyyy beautiful souls! I am so excited for yet another solo episode! Today were unpacking: My secret trip to Atlanta  Everything just seems more beautiful  I’m in school (& working on a final presentation) Opened my heart to dating again  Dating is showing me how much I’ve healed vs how much I have to hea...

37. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 2 05.04.2024

Send us Fan Mail WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS! I am so excited for part two of this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them. TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion w...

36. Cuckholding & Learning How To Squirt With My Favorite Sex Toys 10.03.2024

Send us Fan Mail I AM SO EXCITED FOR TO BE BACK WITH A SOLO EPISODEEEEE! How I've missed you so. Haven’t these guests been amazing?! I am so grateful but I had to take a moment to give y'all all kinds of updates about what’s been going on in my sex positive world. In this episode we talk all about: How I had an orgasm in my sleep because of Jcole My first day of sex school I think i’m ov...

34. Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips With Nadine From The Sober Butterfly Podcast 11.02.2024

Send us Fan Mail Heyyyy beautiful souls! Happy LOVE MONTH (although every month is the month of Love in my life) We’re back with yet another AMAZING guest and in today's episode we have the illustrious Nadine, host of The Sober Butterly Podcast. In this episode we talk about EVERYTHING including: Experiencing sex & pleasure while sober. The journey of sobriety. Sober dating vs dating when...

33. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus 28.01.2024

Send us Fan Mail HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience! In todays episode we’re catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including: Never being in a relationship & navigating love as an adult Having healing and supportive friendships  Yearning to love in a world where many people are currently protecting their hearts Looking for soulmates Bein...

32. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 1 18.01.2024

Send us Fan Mail WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS! I am so excited for this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them. TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgm...

31. Are You Beyonce?! | Navigating Unhealthy Relationships & Adult Friendships 01.01.2024

Send us Fan Mail HAPPY NEW YEAR MY BABIES! Wow I am so happy to end the year with you on this podcast & enter into an even more beautiful season in 2024! In this episode we talk about: How to navigate adult friendships & evolving communication styles  The cringe texts I sent to my ex & old fwb’s An update about my dating life More on reactive abuse (keke palmer) And navigating an abusi...

To My Love Bugs: More Bonus Content, Diary Entires & More 25.12.2023

Send us Fan Mail Hey beautiful souls! Join me on PATREON and become a member of THE LOVE CLUB! On Patreon you can have access to: Diary Entries Love Notes A Safe Space To Ask Advice Piping Hot TEA! The Opportunity To Meet A Community Of Beautiful People & More JOIN THE LOVE CLUB: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Support the show

30: I’m Horny But I’m Not | Anal Tips With Atiti | Tips For "Hypersexuality" 17.12.2023

Send us Fan Mail Happpppppy almost new years beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about: Tips for anal play How to make anal feel more pleasurable HELP for people who may not be able to control sexual impulses/hypersexual activity Tips for Surviving SAD this winter (seasonal affective depression) People invalidating my self diagnosis (and how they can kiss my ass) Dolphins and their fac...

29. If Your Boo Doesn’t Turn Your Body On | What Is Reactive Abuse | Celibacy Tips 03.12.2023

Send us Fan Mail HIIIII MY LOVES! Welcome to episode 29 of THE LOVE ATIYA EXPERIENCE! This episode we talk about: An update for Project Pleasure!  How my first time attending a sexual assault support group was amazing. How “tapping” helps me when I’m triggered. What is REACTIVE ABUSE and how did learning about this contribute to my healing! Article: https://www.verywellmind.com/reactive-abuse-sign...

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