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Your favourite girls and Harmony are back and it's a deeper and more serious chat. This part of the episode is all about reviewing the year so far in a truly befitting gbeborun manner by splitting into categories, grading them and being honest about why you're feeling the way you are. The hope is that being honest about where you are and why you feel the way you do will help you think proactively...

This week's episode was so fun and intense (and to be honest, long) that we decided to split it into two. FK and Jollz are joined by Harmony Adenipekun, a lawyer, luxury event planner and all-around bag of fun! In part one, they discussed crazy wedding expectations and weekend shenanigans before giving their two cents on a wide range of dilemmas like being "less intelligent" than your partner, in...

This week, your favourite podcasters are joined by hit producer, Big Rage to discuss where we can find love (Jola was right, there is love in Ebeano) before getting into a heated argument about "modest dressing" and to what degree people can have a say over what you wear. He also spoke about his career trajectory and experiences as a producer as well as the future project he is excited about Don’t...

Season 6, Episode 20 Guess who's back from a quick holiday! FK & Jollz catch you up on their early summer shenanigans, before going into a series of lamentations about Nigeria and low expectations and solving some dilemmas (look out for the woman whose husband got carried away with her sister's BBL). The bounce is back! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while l...

This is a hot and steamy episode! As usual, Jola & FK update you on their recent experiences before diving into some really interesting dilemmas (look out for the one where a friend feels left behind) and talking about shit etiquette - where, when and how do you shit around those you love, like or lust. Honestly, this podcast is truly the gift that keeps on giving Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or...

It's the podcast's 200th episode (well, sorta kinda in an ISWIS mathematics way) and no better way to celebrate than a brand new installment of the crowd favourite, "Secrets & Lies". Submissions range from spicy to hilarious and very vulnerable but through them all, Jollz & FK are there for you! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podca...

This week, the bounce is joined by Ahmed and Faith; two incredible young people. They discuss their weekends before giving some pretty fabulous advice to some crazy dilemmas and then diving into an honest, hilarious and vulnerable conversation about what it means to be blind in Nigeria and how organisations like the Bethesda Home for the Blind continue to do the Lords work in helping them attain a...

Happy Children's Day! This week's episode is super special, as FK & Jollz are joined by two super cool kids, Regina and Charissa. The 12 and 10-year-olds discuss what's hot in the world of children, and also ask some pretty interesting questions! A good time was had by all! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the sh...

This week, FK & Jollz talk about irrational behaviour that makes sense to no one but you and solve some very interesting dilemmas ranging from pending breakups to potentially letting go of dream destination weddings. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a revie...

This week, FK & Jollz talk about the dangers of pretending to be someone else and acting brand new to impress people you would love to be like. There are, as usual, some very interesting dilemmas (look out for the unhygienic boyfriend) and we have a brand new question this week! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate t...

This week, the ladies have their thinking caps on, and to enjoy the episode you might have to also! There's a deep dive into sources and cures for discontentment as well as a crazy dilemma or two (someone needs help figuring out if she maybe has a sugar daddy). Alleged sapiosexuals, get ready to have a blast! Audio  Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while list...

This episode is a mildly insane celebration of 1/2 of your favourite duo's birthday! After recapping Jola's birthday surprise (she WEPT) and the ensuing overindulgence in enjoyment, Jollz & FK get into some of your dilemmas, before sharing their over-the-top financial fantasies. Finally, Jola shares her unsafe space for the week; "loved ones". Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to sha...

This week, FK & Jolzz are joined by Dr Busola Tejumola, the fabulous head of content & channels, West Africa at Multichoice. After helping solve some dilemmas around friendships, they discuss the upcoming AMVCAs and what to expect from the 10th edition of the biggest night in Nollywood. The AMVCA's will air on Africa Magic Channels on the 11th of May, and voting categories are still open t...

Season 6, Episode 10 Did you know it was possible to drive from Europe to West Africa? This week's guest, the amazing Pelumi Nubi recently completed the journey and sat with FK & Jollz to talk all about it! The ladies discuss what matters the most when taking on such a journey, crazy land border administrators, meeting people and developing a sense of adventure before Pelumi helps figure out s...

Season 6, Episode 9 This week, it's just your favourite girls! Post their regular weekend recap (ISWIS babes are UP), FK & Jollz talk about the new NEPA tariffs, the reliability of aggression in getting to a reasonable resolution when dealing with most Nigerians and the perils of being so likeable and meeting your partner's friends. After doing their best with some fascinating dilemmas (look o...

This week, FK & Jollz are joined by the amazing Ibi of "My Money Start" for an honest conversation about money; shame and feelings of inadequacy, where to start figuring your finances out, the importance of budgeting, where to start your investing journey and much more. She also helped solve dilemmas on immigration fraud, and getting back with an ex for an all expense paid trip to Santorini. F...

Season 6, Episode 7 Kunbi Odubogun; a serial entrepreneur, IVF mum of two and friend of the pod is back to share sweet shenanigans with your favourite girls! In this episode, we recap Kunbi's journey with endometriosis & infertility, to becoming a mum and her reasons for starting several ventures from a law firm to legal contract templates and the amazing Perfete! This week's dilemmas include...

Season 6, Episode 6 This episode dives into the joys and perils of doing business with your friend and your favourite podcasters are joined by Dami & Renike; friends, sisters in law and co-founders of an inclusive womenswear brand called "Bawsty". The ladies talk about starting a business together, managing expectations and dealing with problems before diving into some of your dilemmas and lam...

Season 6 Episode 5 This week, your favourite podcasters are extremely excited to have the MOST amazing Rima Tahini in the studio. The soft-spoken director of A&R at Mavin Records spoke about her career in finance before moving into music, helping to build this iteration of Mavin Records and even a teeny tiny bit about what it's like to work with her husband, Johnny Drille. Never ones to leave...

Season 6 Episode 4 This week, FK & Jola are joined by Joke, a hairstylist and Opeyemi, a female barber. After talking through their weekends, they all discuss the women's journey into the hair business, their experiences and career trajectories. They also help a lady solve a dilemma concerning an avoidant boyfriend and for the first time, FK has an unsafe space, and it's Tyler Perry and the in...

Season 6, Episode 3 We have our first guest of the season and it's none other than a friend of the pod, a full-time bahd guy and all-around great guy, Folarin "Falz" Falana. After discussing quiet weekends and Falz's new love of crochet outfits, the trio dive into dilemmas on chronic masturbation, sourcing non-childish underwear and a not-so-secret sperm donor. They then dive into parents and thei...

Season 6 Episode 2 This week, the bounce is hot and bothered! In this episode, FK & Jollz talk about Valentine's Day, their observations on Nigerians and romance after hosting a very interesting speed dating event (and their uncharitable thoughts towards no-shows) before delving into dilemmas and then talking about the adventures of missing ozempic vials and debating what constitutes as "child...

Season 6 Episode 1 Welcome to Season 6 everybody! The Bounce is Back from a much-enjoyed sabbatical and we hope you missed us as much as we missed you! In this episode, FK & Jollz catch you up on all the shenanigans they got up to over their nice long break, try to help with some of your dilemmas and share their deep grievances towards "#Fragheads". Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast...

Hello Boys and Girls, Hello All! Welcome to the finale of season 5! It been such an exciting season and your fave girls FK and Jollz talk about their year, excitement for the live show this week, what they got up to o the weekend and so much more. Find out how Dekunle broke Jola's heart, FK's thoughts on shower etiquette and of course, lots of wise advice for some of your dilemmas. See you soon! E...

On this amazing episode the bounce takes us to therapy. Your favourite girls FK and Jollz are joined by clinical therapist Funmto Ogunbanwo and together, they try to help some of you with your dilemmas. They also talk about the struggles of moving back to Nigeria, taking charge of your life, being gentle with yourself and taking stock of the past year while making actionable resolutions for the ne...