I Don't Get It

Ashley recently went on four dates with the same guy. She gave him chances because he was good on paper and respectfully asked her out. She describes her third date when she felt it necessary to kiss a guy she didn't want to kiss for the first time. They then fast forward to their fourth date, on Valentine's Day, when she became officially grossed out. Jared joins in on the conversation and talks...

Ashley and her special guest, The Bachelor's Jared Haibon, discuss what guys really mean when they say “let’s take it slow” or what it probably happening when a girl is “confused” in a relationship. Jared discusses why “games” normally have to be played in dating. Jared tries to teach Ashley how to have confidence when a guy she likes makes her nervous. Ashley and Jared then reminisce about the mo...

Haley and Emily Ferguson, best known as "the twins" from The Bachelor franchise join Ashley and Lauren this week as they discuss everything from blow up techniques to Valentine's Day gift giving. Their conversation surrounding chivalry and sweetness will certainly confuse male listeners. The old fashioned pursuit rarely works in the millennial era. The ladies discuss the c...

Has someone ever said "You're so pretty and smart... why are you still single?" Well, the Iaconetti sisters delve into reasons women tend to push away the nice guys and say come hither to the bad boys. Ashley analyzes her inability to crush often, and particularly crush on guys who reciprocate feelings towards her, while also asking for some advice in a current dating scenario. Lauren discusses he...

Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don’t get why their magical childhood feelings have disintegrated with age. What happened to those enchanted times of daydreaming about Justin Timberlake and Leonardo DiCaprio without a care in the world? Now when a crush is formed in adulthood, those new whimsical crush feelings turn into worries and dare say it…REALITY. The girls also delve into their experiences with...

Ashely and Lauren Iaconetti just don't get why women have to go through a million steps just to get ready. Why do we have to wear makeup and pluck our eyebrows? They debate whether women should wear makeup everyday or whether they should let their skin breathe. They reveal what plastic surgery they've had and how much landscaping they have going on in the bikini area. And we're not sure how i...

Add cool girls to the list of things Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don't get. You might think, wait, these chicks were on the Bachelor, they ARE cool girls, but believe it or not they don't agree. And while they're at it, they just don't get fuck boys...or is it fuckbois. Whatever. They don't get them. And what's up with ghosting? Who thinks it's ok to just abandon a friend or relationship without a...

Why does it seem like loving moments always invite awkwardness??? This week Ashley I brings in her sister Lauren to discuss sticky situations in dating. Ashley describes a crush she had on one of her teachers and why it went horribly wrong. We get to hear the unsavory details of the time she threw up around her long-time crush Jared from the Bachelor. Lauren and Ashely debate which stoma...

In the first episode of the I Don't Get it Podcast, Ashley I (Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) and her bestie, Naz Perez (producer, Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) talk about how they met and why they are kindred spirits. These two beauties realized they both were unlucky in love and had never had boyfriends, and then realized there were lots of things that baffled them about the world. They find t...