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All good things come to an end… This was a hard one to record. I wanted to overthink my decision. I have been trying to force something that I knew in my heart wasn’t what was best for me. I wanted someone to tell me what to do and how to do it. I definitely tried to overthink what to say, but ultimately, I knew that if I didn’t do what I knew I needed to do and just get it out there, I would not...

In the decision lab right now, I have women who are tackling a whole host of things… Parental relationships. Posting on social media. What to wear. Feeling unworthy of love. Hating ourselves to be better. Spoiler alert… Hate and judgment of yourself are never going to get you anywhere!! All of these things impact our lives and, therefore, directly impact our decision-making patterns. They compile....

I am guessing most of you know, or assume you know, who I voted for. We all feel passionately about who we voted for and why.  At this point, everyone has big feelings, so let's be kind. Now that the election is over, I have several concerns, the most immediate being that we take a minute to make decisions that are in alignment with who we are and not made in haste driven by anger, joy, rage,...

Know a decision needs to be made but not sure what decision to make? I got you boo. It feels like a lot when we know a shift needs to happen in your life but don’t know what exactly to do.  You may feel stuck, overwhelmed, and insecure. You may feel unworthy or undeserving of the thing that is calling to you. Whatever it is that you are feeling, this episode is going to help you see it, acknowledg...

When the decision means releasing your identity and stepping into a new one, today I am sharing four things that feel scary about making a decision that feels like it is requiring us to release an identity we have been carrying. Join the BOLD Diggers Membership and get the Holiday Boundaries Class for FREE! https://nextbestdecision.com/bolddigger Get on a free call with Jess! https://calendly.com/...

Here’s the truth about your procrastination and chronic fatigue… It isn’t because you are lazy. It isn’t because you lack motivation. It has nothing to do with you, your ability to make stuff happen, or your worth, (because you are a badass and nothing can take that away from you). But if you are wanting to understand why you are always feeling tired and constantly procrastinating, this episode is...

Decision Overload, ie - anxiety, stress, sleepless night, overthinking, the ADHA spiral…   We have all been there and done that. But how did we get there? How can we tell we are in it? How do we pull ourselves out of it? Today I am sharing four ways to get yourself out of decision overload. Start 2025 off powerfully with me and a room full of people ready to leave old patterns of decision making b...

Your New Year's Resolutions are getting you nowhere because you are doing one or more of these four things. If you want to feel fulfilled and successful next year, start making these shifts now! Spoiler alert: the last one is the basis for all the rest and what is really holding you back. Get on a call with me. YOU DESERVE IT! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncall Grab yo...

Creating a life you don't want to leave. If you dread going home. If you are feeling unsafe to feel the feels. If you are powering through until _______. If everything feels overwhelming. Then this episode is for you! Schedule a call with me today, and let's see if a Decision Day or 1:1 Coaching is right for you. These spots won't be available for long, so make that decision and take a...

Do you relate to today's guest? Tamara Hawes Woods is the founder of Cȯcomadre, a career and personal development platform designed to help women who are STARs (skilled through alternative routes) and SEEkers (those who lack skills, education, and experience) to achieve their dreams. She created Cȯcomadre on the heels of a personal and catastrophic financial loss that left her with only $3.59...

Let’s talk The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. I have LOTS of thoughts about this show because I have watched it… Well, you will just have to listen to how many times I have watched it. And let me tell you, these women are making some decisions. We can all agree on that. HA! Many of which we ALL have opinions, but there is only one decision made (by two people) that really got to me. Get on a call w...

We all have excuses that we carry. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you are carrying this excuse? Is it serving you? Are you ready to release it? Join me as I tackle some of the top excuses I hear for why you can’t take aligned action in your lives. Then send me a message or drop a review, letting me know which excuse you are ready to let go of. Can you guess which excuse I use most often...

My friend, what communities are you a part of? Church? Family? Friends? Culture? Work? Are you sitting in them or GROWING in them? All of these communities have a unique impact on YOU. Therefore, it is important to be intentional with the communities you are a part of. Time to ask yourself some hard questions about your communities. Get signed up for the FREE Workshop happening TODAY!  It is the l...

How do you leave trauma decision-making patterns behind? Trauma comes in many forms, shapes and sizes. Therefore it impacts each of us in different ways and often leads to people pleasing tendencies, self sacrificing to keep the peace, and taking responsibility for other people’s thoughts, feelings and emotions. Which then directly impacts our decision making and lands us in Trauma Decision Making...

Addiction to blaming others. We all do it and probably always will. Why do we do it? How does it manifest in our lives? What do we do with it? Why does it matter? Join my favorite guest and me as we chat about all things that go into the blame game.  Ready to leave blaming and victimhood behind and take control of your life? Get signed up for the FREE Workshop happening August 28th! It is the last...

The Cost of Inaction…  There is a side effect from inaction that you are not considering…  By not investing mentally, physically, financially, you are giving up time, energy and connection to yourself, your kids, your family, friends, career, whatever it is that brings you joy. Today I am tackling three common excuses for inaction. Are you guilty of one or all of these?  Wins people are having in...

At church a few weeks ago, a lady said this to me and it has stayed with me and inspired this episode. Today we are going to have a quick chat about this one thing that you think you need to claim the life you want but that you don’t really need at all. It is time to stop asking for this… You can get the results the ladies in the Lab are getting by making one simple decision… Get on the waitlist f...

I can tell you what your problem is... So many of us have over loaded our lives. We have filled it up by doing all the things without creating the space to know if it is in alignment with what we really want. But we forget to do this one thing to find true joy, peace, happiness, and fulfillment in life. Ready to create some space in your life? Get on the wait list for the decision lab TODAY! https...

We have done all the things without questioning… We have followed the path. We have overloaded our lives. We have shoulded all over ourselves and allowed others to do the same. And we are left with what? Resentment. Anger. Bitterness. Here is what to do about it. We are three weeks into the decision lab, and here are my favorite takeaways so far… “I was really surprised at how many times I sat in...

We have all been there and done that… We have sat in a big old pile of should when it comes to our age and the timelines we envisioned for our lives. We should our pants by: Comparing ourselves to where we thought we should be in life. Comparing ourselves to others. Comparing ourselves to where society has told us we should be. It is time to clear ourselves up, put on a fresh pair of pants, and em...

We will all have regrets. They are an important part of life! They provide us with information so that we can keep progressing towards what is in alignment for us. And while regrets are a part of life, there are ways we can learn to have less of them and most importantly, learn to not dwell on them or beat ourselves up for having them.  Want to know where and how much you are shoulding on yourself...

People had life-changing breakthroughs and ah-ha moments during last week's workshop, and I didn't want you to miss out! So here is one of the recordings from last week. (Minus a couple of bonuses and the Q&A. What can I say? It pays to be there live!) Your Next Best Decision is just around the corner, along with clarity, confidence, and concision. Don't wait another minute to take...

A story you need to hear, but I really don’t like sharing. It was the HARDEST decision of my life and was made at the lowest of lows. But it is by far one of the best decisions I have ever made. Last chance to make your next best decision for the rest of your life... https://nextbestdecision.com/workshop Missed the workshop? Don’t tell anyone but you can get signed up for The Decision Lab today! W...

I know you have been told it is all your fault. That you are the one that makes “bad decisions”. That your feelings are wrong. Your thoughts are wrong. Your intuition is wrong. But here is the hard truth: IT ISN’T YOUR FAULT! (Not what you thought I was going to say, eh?) You may believe that your decider is broken, but I have good news for you: it isn’t, and neither are you. You aren’t too much o...

Do you ever ask yourself, “How the heck did I get here?” I ask myself that on the regular. Sometimes it is in awe of how awesome things are in that moment and other times it is in complete overwhelm.  Today I am tackling this topic in regards to the shift in the podcast. This decision has been a long time in the making. We were just waiting for the right timing to pull the trigger and make the cha...