how to twenty-something

Use your mental fortitude to reach your full potential. This episode of How To Twenty-Something brings on Parker and Sam and how they turned their desire to have it all “figured out” into a mission to help other twenty-somethings navigate their lives. Together, Sam and Parker founded Elevation Nation, where they coach young adults to use their mindset and mental fortitude to achieve their goals, c...

Episode 34 of How To Twenty-Something dives into the need to slow down, practice patience, and learn to love delayed gratification. The episode emphasizes the impact of immediate gratification on our expectations and discusses the role of patience in various aspects of life, such as personal development, relationships, and career. I share personal experiences and examples, including stories from f...

Episode 33 of How To Twenty-Something brings on Bri Blair, to discuss how she has become the master of leaving her comfort zone and how you can become one too. We dive into how leaving your comfort zone promotes self-confidence and makes it easier to manage your anxiety. Bri gives insight as to how you just need to take the first step (buy the plane ticket) and build off of that starting point. Sh...

In this episode, I highlight all the ways you hold yourself back in regards to self-sabotage. I explore various ways individuals unconsciously impede their success and well-being, touching on the impact of personality tests, the fear of success, and specific examples of sabotaging behaviors in relationships. Procrastination, rebellion against time, and making excuses are also discussed as common f...

In this episode, I talk about the topic of "winning your weekends" for us twenty-somethings, addressing the prevalent imbalance between our structured weekdays and often chaotic weekends. I discuss the misunderstood concept of work-life balance, challenging the misconceptions around working less to play more or saving all the fun for weekends. I then emphasize the importance of a consistent routin...

In this episode of "How to Twenty-Something," I open up about the profound impact of going through a best friend breakup. I paint a vivid picture of the emotional rollercoaster that follows, detailing the loneliness and sense of starting from scratch after the person you've shared your life with suddenly becomes a stranger. Reflecting on my own experience, I share the pain of losing a friend and t...

The very first episode of 2024 talks about how to not keep living your same ways in this new year. I critique the common trend of people engaging in short-term challenges, such as Dry January, only to revert to old habits once the challenge is over. I advocate for a more thoughtful and lasting approach to change, urging listeners to consider the long-term impact of their resolutions. Sharing perso...

In this podcast episode, I delve into the intricate role of the "strong friend," addressing both those who embody this persona and those who have a strong friend in their lives. I share insights into the challenges faced by strong friends in expressing vulnerability and seeking support, emphasizing the importance of breaking down emotional barriers, as well as how the friend of the strong friend c...

In this episode, Relationship Coach, Lucy Price, brings to light the mindset shifts that come with feeling like love is hard to come by. We talk about searching for evidence of love, the different types of excitement with a new relationship, how to feel loveable, seeing people for who they really are and what they are capable of, and knowing your worth. This is a jam packed episode filled with inc...

Long Distance is almost inevitable in your twenties and there are certain practices you should keep in mind if this is the route your relationship takes. In this episode you’ll learn my tactics for sustaining the time apart and avoiding a potential downfall. I share insights on the importance of planning, effective communication, and setting clear expectations for a successful long-distance relati...

Episode 25 of How To Twenty-Something brings on one of my clients, Julia Watkins, where she provides insight into wedding planning and married life. During this episode we uncover religious differences coming together, prioritizing yourself for your wedding, what changes after the wedding is over, how your career fits in with your family, and how to keep your marriage happy and healthy. Key Takeaw...

In Episode 24, I talk about my top ten tips for getting through a breakup. From deleting them from all aspects of your life to practicing ultimate self care, these tips are to help give you the best foot forward to healing a broken heart. Key Takeaways: Out of sight, out of mind Grief comes in waves, let yourself feel our emotions as they come up Don’t listen to your bed when it invites you to sta...

In this episode of How To Twenty-Something I talk about what it means to have a gratitude practice in place and why you should consider adopting one. With Thanksgiving just around the corner, I highlight how this holiday encourages us to reflect on the blessings in our lives and how this should become a regular practice in our day to day. Being appreciative means you are in a place of abundance an...

In this episode I bring on Kaylan Adams to discuss his personal growth journey through his twenties and the impact it’s had on his relationships. He takes us through relationships he’s outgrown, maintained, and fostered during the last decade of his life and the role mentorship has played in these connections. Kaylan believes we should all be regularly seeking out help to support our mental health...

Dating in your twenties is tough, but it doesn’t have to be. In this podcast episode, I explore the intricate world of dating during your twenties, a period characterized by self-discovery and relationship complexities. I address the challenges posed by modern dating, including the influence of dating apps and societal pressures to find the perfect partner. I highlight the significance of distingu...

In this episode, I bring on Gabby and Sean to discuss how they’ve worked to cultivate a healthy relationship. Throughout our conversation we break down what it means to be in a relationship that’s healthy, how to show up for one another, the importance of communication, and how to support each other’s goals and ambitions. If you are single or questioning the health of your relationship, then pleas...

Knowing who you are inside and outside of your relationship will help strengthen your connection with your partner. In this episode I delve into the challenges of maintaining individuality within romantic relationships, particularly during our twenties. It's a time of exploration and growth, and it's easy to lose sight of ourselves in the midst of a partnership. A healthy relationship should enhan...

Maybe we aren’t all so different after all! In this episode of How To Twenty-Something Jenna Diamond provides the audience with how she transitioned from a full-time athlete to a full-time working adult. As she shares her experience, it becomes clear that we aren’t all that different after all and we all share similar struggles or ‘rites of passage’ as we move from college to the real world. She a...

In this episode of "How To Twenty-Something," I delve into the significance of independence as a young adult and the balance between newfound freedom and occasional loneliness that comes with being in your twenties. I emphasize the importance of taking control of your own life experiences and choosing communities that foster personal growth and authenticity, even if it means stepping out of your c...

In Episode 16 Marissa and I talk about her not so typical route after college. We’re typically presented with two options when we gear up for graduation: continue school or get a full time job, but Marissa wanted to share a third viable option; taking a year of service. Throughout this episode we talk about her year of service, her transition into the adult world, and how you can consider taking a...

In Episode 15, I take you through the process of setting goals, why it’s important to do so, how to apply it to your unique life, and what to do after you accomplish them. I explored the concept of goal setting and challenged the traditional approach to it. While acknowledging the effectiveness of SMART goals, I emphasized the importance of creating goals that contribute to building positive habit...

In Episode 14, Kaela and I talk about her path through her twenties, the obstacles she overcame, and how her mindset shifted to strengthening her belief in herself.  Improving your belief system is not a process that happens over night. However, if you continue to seek out different opportunities and be open to any results that may follow, then you’ll set yourself up to succeed.  Key Tak...

In episode 13 I help you come to terms with where you’re at in your life so far. We often compare ourselves to the milestones other people around us are hitting, or measure our success based on society's perceived definition of adulting perfectly, but the reality is all of us are on very different timelines. Our timelines make us unique, they create experiences that create the amazing human standi...

Episode 12 introduces one of my clients, Nicole Goldstein, where she provides insight into how she sets boundaries, maintains mental clarity, and develops confidence in her career. She explains that there are many different tactics you can apply to your life to get your mind right in terms of your career, calming your nervous system, and finding the parts of your 9-5 that do bring you some joy and...

In this week’s episode of How To Twenty-Something I help you reach your starting point to find what fulfills you in your unique life; either inside or outside of your career. I take you through different viewpoints as to how you explore different aspects that drive your purpose and reason for existing on this planet. I reflect on my own personal experiences and how they relate to the way I operate...