Breakup Coach Dorothy

How to Get Over Your Ex

Society EN ↓ 400 episodes

Breakup coach Dorothy, outlines the steps to get over your ex without it "just taking time".She has combined her background in psychology with her life coach certification tools to provide actionable insights so that you're not only learning the why but you're learning the HOW to getting over your ex. Note: Dorothy utilizes the "he" pronoun when talking about her ex but this work can be applied to anyone. All genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply the tools. Loving the How to Get Over Your Ex podcast? Grab your free masterclass "How to FAST FORWARD getting over your...

Author

Breakup Coach Dorothy

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Society

Podcast website

dorothyabjohnson.com

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

Ep. 286 - Turning Betrayal into Brilliance: Lessons from Ariana Madix 14.04.2025

When Ariana Madix discovered her partner's betrayal on national television, no one expected what happened next: one of the most spectacular post-breakup transformations we've ever witnessed. In this episode, I break down the exact mindset shifts that allowed Ariana to not just survive her heartbreak but absolutely thrive in its aftermath. If you're struggling to see how your life can possibly get...

Ep. 285 - The hidden freedom in letting go: Why we cling to people who don't choose us 07.04.2025

In this episode, I reveal the counterintuitive truth about why letting go feels impossible (even when holding on is blocking everything you want), and the unexpected place where freedom is actually hiding. If you've been feeling like you know exactly what you need to do to move on from your ex but haven't been able to actually "do it", it's a must listen. You'll discover a simple 3-step mental shi...

Ep. 284 - Why We Wait: 5 Steps to Transform Fear Into Life-Changing Choices 31.03.2025

That life-changing decision you've been putting off? It's not procrastination, it's fear masquerading as "I need more time." Dorothy reveals how she shattered months of paralyzing indecision about her housing situation in just 20 minutes with the right guidance. The real reason we wait until the final hour isn't lack of information, it's our invisible ceiling of comfort protecting us from the unkn...

Ep. 283 - The gap between "I can't do this" and "I am": The evolution nobody talks about 24.03.2025

In this raw and revealing episode, Dorothy opens up about her journey through motherhood and entrepreneurship, sharing the profound realization that changed everything: the gap between "I can't do this" and "I am." Through vulnerable stories of 3 AM doubts and unexpected breakthroughs, she reveals how our most limiting thoughts often appear right before our greatest expansions. If you've created a...

Ep. 282 - Your ex isn't holding you back anymore. THIS is. 17.03.2025

In this eye-opening episode, Dorothy challenges you to confront what's actually holding you back long after you've "healed" from your breakup. Discover why so many people who are "over their ex" still find themselves recreating similar patterns and limitations in their new life. Learn the three critical mindset shifts that shatter this and allow you to quantum leap into the extraordinary life you...

Ep. 281 - How to stop thinking about your ex all the time 10.03.2025

You can't stop thinking about your ex, and it's exhausting. No matter what you do, they're always on your mind—replaying memories, overanalyzing what went wrong, wondering if they miss you too. It feels like you have no control over it. But what if you could? In this episode, I'm giving you a simple, two-step process to break the mental loop and finally get relief. No fluff, no vague advice—just e...

Ep. 280 - The real reason you're still stuck on your ex 03.03.2025

You're stuck on your ex, and you don't know why. You've tried everything—cutting contact, waiting for time to heal, distracting yourself—but nothing is working. What if the reason you can't move on isn't what you think it is? In this episode, we're uncovering the hidden force keeping you emotionally tied to your ex and why the usual breakup advice isn't helping. If you've ever wondered, Why am I s...

Ep. 279 - When it feels like you don't matter to the person who matters most to you 24.02.2025

After a breakup, it's painful to feel like you never mattered—especially when it feels like you don't matter to the person that matters most to you in this world. When your ex acts indifferent, it can make you question your own worth. In this live coaching session, we unpack why their actions don't define your significance and how to reclaim your sense of importance, appreciation, and power. You g...

Ep. 278 - "They promised forever … then left. How to trust again." 17.02.2025

After a heartbreak, especially one where someone promised forever and then changed their mind, trusting again can feel impossible. You might be wondering, 'How will I ever believe in love again?' In this week's episode, we unpack why shutting down trust isn't the answer and how to move forward without fear. This isn't about labeling your ex as toxic or rewriting the past—it's about understanding t...

Ep. 277 - How to feel loved this valentine's day (even if you're newly single) 10.02.2025

Valentine's Day can feel overwhelming when you're newly single—reminders of love are everywhere, and the loneliness can feel sharper than ever. But what if, instead of dreading it, you used this time to lean into love in a way that actually makes you feel connected, supported, and at peace? In this episode, I share three defining relationships—one where I was left, one where I did the leaving, and...

Ep. 276 - If you think your ex's new partner is better, listen to this 03.02.2025

Seeing your ex with someone new can feel like a punch to the gut—especially if you believe their new partner is somehow "better" than you. In this episode, I break down exactly why that feeling of jealousy takes over and how to take your power back. I'll walk you through three key steps to stop obsessing over your ex's new relationship and start feeling motivated to build the life you actually wan...

Ep. 275 - How to release mom guilt after a breakup or divorce with Laura Conley 27.01.2025

After a breakup, many moms face the overwhelming challenge of feeling guilty for investing in themselves while their children are also hurting. It's common to question whether you should be putting time, energy, or even money into your healing journey. In this episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Laura Conley (Founder of Yummy Mummy) tackle that guilt head-on by breaking down the two types of guilt:...

Ep. 274 - How to leave an unhealthy relationship and stand in your standards 20.01.2025

Struggling to leave an unhealthy relationship or stand firm in your standards? In this episode, we dive deep into how the way you think about yourself today impacts the actions you take tomorrow. If you've ever found yourself holding onto a relationship you know isn't right or letting someone treat you poorly, this episode is for you. We'll explore why it's so hard to break these cycles and offer...

Ep. 273 - How to stop comparing your new partner to your ex in 2 simple steps 13.01.2025

If you've found yourself comparing your new relationship to your ex, you're not alone—and it doesn't necessarily mean you're not over them. In this episode, I break down two powerful steps to help you move past those comparisons and focus on what truly matters: creating clarity and deeper connection in your current partnership. Whether you're sabotaging a great relationship, feeling like something...

Ep. 272 - How to align with what you really want and let go of mental limitations 06.01.2025

As we enter 2025, it's easy to get caught up in setting goals based on what our minds think we should achieve. But what if there's a better way? In this episode, we're exploring how to set your intentions for the new year by tapping into your inner voice, the part of you that knows what truly matters. Instead of letting your mind create goals driven by expectations, I'm going to guide you through...

Ep. 271 - 3 powerful ways to feel anchored in dating after a breakup 30.12.2024

In this episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Braveheart Miranda talk about how to feel anchored in dating after a breakup. Miranda is a member of the Bigger and Better Life Mastermind, a 6-month immersive experience of creating your bigger and better future, whatever that looks like to you. Tune in as they talk about 3 specific ways to feel anchored in dating after a breakup, diving deeper during th...

Ep. 270 - Self help burnout, how to stop chasing and start living 23.12.2024

Feeling burned out from constant self-improvement? In this episode, I'm sharing a practical 5-step plan to help you shift from revamping your life to fully living in and enjoying it. If you're at a place where you've built much of what you've envisioned for yourself but feel like it's time to pause and simply be, this episode is for you. We'll talk about reflecting on your personal growth, choosin...

Ep. 269 - 6 Life-Changing Lessons to Create Your Bigger & Better Life in 6 Months Video 16.12.2024

Imagine living a life that feels like you've won the lottery every day—where everything aligns with who you truly are, free from attachment, and grounded in emotional maturity. In this episode, I'm sharing the six lessons that Bravehearts have learned and lived through over the past six months in the Bigger & Better Life Mastermind. We'll explore how they applied powerful tools like inner voice wo...

Ep. 268 - Your personalized prescription for overcoming undesirable outcomes 09.12.2024

In today's episode, we delve into a common yet often overlooked issue: lingering on undesirable outcomes, such as the inability to move past an ex. Discover a transformative, step-by-step process tailored to shift your perspective and actions to achieve more favorable outcomes in your emotional and personal life. We'll explore how taking ownership of your thoughts and behaviors provides a personal...

Ep. 267 - What to do with your happy memories of your ex 02.12.2024

In today's episode, we dive into a common post-breakup challenge: handling the happy memories with your ex that keep pulling you back. If you find yourself frequently lost in nostalgic moments, wondering how to balance these memories with your current path to healing, this discussion is for you. We explore a transformative approach that doesn't erase the past but empowers you to live fully in the...

Ep. 266 - When to feel your feelings and when to shift your perspective w/ Dana Evans 25.11.2024

In this episode, join Breakup Coach Dorothy and Dana Evans as they discuss when to feel your feelings and when to shift your perspective. Dana is an emotional clearing expert and walks us through exactly "how" to process emotion with tangible steps as well as a clear guide on "how to get out of a funk".  Tune in as they talk about how the mind can get in the way of the inner voice, reframing and c...

Ep. 265 - Navigate life's changes without losing yourself 18.11.2024

In today's episode, we're diving deep into self-identity through life's varied seasons. Whether you're in the throes of personal transformation or navigating the complexities of self-discovery post-breakup, understanding and embracing the fluidity of your identity is crucial. We unpack the concept that our self-perception need not be rigid but can evolve gracefully with life's inevitable changes....

Ep. 264 - Two questions to see if your relationship expectations are too high 11.11.2024

Are you worried that your expectations in a relationship might be too high? In this episode, we tackle the common fear of "am I asking too much?" when it comes to what you want in a partnership. If you've ever found yourself second-guessing your standards or wondering if you're expecting too much, this episode is for you. We'll dive into two powerful questions that will help you get crystal clear...

Ep. 263 - Should I reach out to my ex or not? 04.11.2024

Are you struggling with the question of whether to reach out to your ex? In this episode, we dive into a practical 5-step process that helps you gain clarity and confidence in making the right decision for YOU. Instead of relying on advice from others, this episode guides you through a series of questions and scenarios to uncover what's truly aligned with your needs and desires. You'll learn how t...

Ep. 262 - Build your revenge body w/ Jenny Blake 28.10.2024

Did you know that what you eat, how you work out, and how you feel in your body, can affect your breakup journey?! Join us in today's episode as Jenny (The Nutritionist) shares how food affects our body, how we can use nutrition to change our shape, how to prepare food in a way that truly satisfies us and how lifting weights improves our bodies all in relation to your breakup. Leave today's episod...

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