How To Convince with Lawyer Vince

I’m breaking down exactly how to train your brain to stay calm in high-pressure situations. Here is what you will get: ✔️ The two reasons staying calm makes you the most powerful person in the room ✔️ A proven five-step process to stay cool when everyone else is losing it ✔️ Real coaching stories from clients who went from reactive to respected ✔️ Advanced tactics for handling people who try to ba...

How smart people handle office disrespect without yelling, without drama, and without ruining their reputation. In this episode of the How to Convince podcast, I am breaking down exactly how to respond to office disrespect calmly and strategically. Here is what you will get: ✔️ The three biggest truths about disrespect that most people miss ✔️ Tactical phrases to shut down interruptions, gossip, b...

Setting boundaries doesn’t make you selfish. And protecting your peace? That’s not “mean” — it’s necessary. In this episode of the How to Convince podcast, I’m showing you how to set boundaries without guilt, second-guessing, or turning into someone you’re not. Here’s what you’ll get: ✔️ The #1 mindset shift to stop feeling “mean” for saying no ✔️ Real scripts you can use with bosses, clients, and...

Being kind doesn’t mean being a pushover. And setting boundaries? That’s not rude—it’s smart. In this episode of the How to Convince podcast, I’m breaking down 3 steps to setting better boundaries at work—without guilt, over-explaining, or burning bridges. Here’s what you’ll get: ✔️ The mindset shift that makes boundaries feel less awkward ✔️ A step-by-step framework you can use for coworkers, cli...

Kindness isn’t weakness. But clear communication? That’s power. In this episode of the How to Convince podcast, I’m flipping the script on what people call “manipulative.” Because guess what? It’s not manipulation, it’s strategic communication. We’ll cover: ✔️ What strategic communication really is (and why it works) ✔️ The email that turned a burnout situation into a boundary win ✔️ Coaching stor...

Kindness is not weakness. But too often, people treat it like it is. In this episode of the How to Convince podcast, I’m breaking down how to stand your ground without losing your warmth. We’ll cover: ✔️ Why people misread your kindness (and how to reset that) ✔️ 7 power phrases that help you assert without attacking ✔️ Real client coaching stories that show the transformation ✔️ 3 go-to tools you...

Ever struggle with difficult conversations? These WORD-FOR-WORD Scripts Will Change the Game 🔥 If you freeze up, explode, or stay silent when it matters most—this episode gives you the exact phrases to turn tension into clarity. 🧠 Use questions that flip the power dynamic without sounding aggressive 🗣️ Learn how to challenge someone without making them defensive 📋 Get real scripts you can use w...

Want to sound more confident EVEN IF YOU DON’T FEEL IT? In this episode, I’ll teach you how to speak with clarity, presence, and authority in any room. Meetings. Dates. Conflicts. All of it. Subscribe to my newsletter here: ( https://howtoconvince.mykajabi.com/pl/2148656047 ) for weekly tips — and reply with your questions to be featured on next week’s episode. #podcast #confidencecoach #publicspe...

“Silence is strength.”  Not always. In this episode, Lawyer Vince breaks down when silence protects your peace and when it costs you power. You’ll learn how to handle subtle digs, call out disrespect without drama, and use calm comebacks that shift the energy in any room. 🎯 What’s inside: -When silence backfires -8 powerful comebacks to shut down disrespect -How to build your response muscle Don’...

They lied. Now what? If you've ever caught someone lying and didn’t know how to respond… this video is for you. In this episode, I’ll show you how to handle liars with calm, confidence, and serious power. We’ll cover: ✔️ What lies really mean ✔️ How to keep your cool when someone tries to gaslight you ✔️ Powerful phrases that expose the truth without escalating the drama ✔️ How to set boundari...

False accusations can wreck your reputation if you respond the wrong way. In this episode, Lawyer Vince teaches you how to protect your credibility, shut down lies, and stay calm under pressure.

If you’ve been taught to be nice at all costs, this video is your wake-up call. Being nice sounds harmless, but too often it means staying quiet, swallowing discomfort, and putting yourself last. Kindness is different. Kindness tells the truth. Kindness sets boundaries. Kindness includes you. In this video, I’ll break down exactly how to stop being nice and start being kind—without guilt, without...

You ever wish you could say "F**k you" without actually saying it—and still keep all the power? In this video, I’m breaking down the deeper strategy behind one of my most viral posts from How to Convince. I’ll give you real scripts you can steal to shut down disrespect, protect your boundaries, and stay cool under pressure. This isn’t about being petty. It’s about being professional and in control...

Struggle to speak up? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m breaking down why it’s so hard to speak up—and giving you 3 real-world scripts to sound clear, confident, and in control. Learn how to handle nerves, set boundaries without burning bridges, and speak so people actually listen. New episodes every Tuesday at 8 AM PST. Follow for weekly scripts and communication strategies you can actually...