How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife should remember that marriage is a union of two people Husband & wife. Do not share your intimate secrets with friends your marriage is not a community project that gets discussed and commented on by your friends. Your friends do not need to know when and how you made love or why you and your husband disagree. Show your husband the respect and privacy he deserves. The on...

A Submissive wife should remember if you are feeling tired and you reject your husband's romantic advances his brain is wired differently to yours where sex is concerned, and he will see your rejection differently than you just being tired, he will see it as rejecting him. You might not feel in the mood at first but if you allow your mind to unwind from the day while taking things slowly and think...

A Submissive Wife should remember to dress modestly when out of the house without her husband; you do not want to send out the wrong signals and attract attention from other men. You can look classy and stylish in modest clothing you do not have to look frumpy,   Dress with class, your smile is what people notice and remember not your chest.

If your marriage is not what it used to be and the flame is dying. Ask yourself does this verse apply to you and your marriage "If you are too lazy to plough then don't expect a harvest." If you don't put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow and thrive? Marriage is a life long commitment that needs attention and effort if you don't give it love and care your relationship will wi...

As a Submissive Wife, you should always be striving to be the best wife you can be. Help and support him every day and always be the one he knows he can rely on to be in his corner.   If you want the husband of your dreams, you have to be the Wife he always prayed he would marry.

A Submissive Wife should not criticise her husband's choices. It is rude and disrespectful to criticise him if you think he has made a wrong choice look for a respectful way to get your message across and learn to trust his choices and that he has your best interests at heart. If you think his judgement is that wrong asking you to marry him was one of his choices

As a Submissive wife, it is not always going to be easy to submit to your husband. If you are finding it hard to submit to your husband's will and follow his lead remember to pray for help & guidance so that you will be more open to submitting to your husband's will.

As a Submissive Wife in this modern world, you will encounter lots of contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take any notice of other peoples negative opinions about your lifestyle choice. It is your life, and you have the right to live your life as you wish. You know that living a life where you submit to your husband and follow his lead is what makes you happy and that is all that matters. No...

Sadly modern society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this, more and more parents are treating their children as though they are best mates.   You and your husband are not their friends you are their parents, the two people your children can rely on and who should be teaching them right from wrong and how to behave. Your children nee...

A Submissive Wife should remember that men and women were not created to be able to do the same things as good as each other. Men are good at providing and building while women are good at caring and homemaking. It does not mean that one is superior to the other. They are both equal in value and were created to compliment each other; there is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles

When your husband comes home from work, let him have time to unwind before you start telling him all about your day and it's problems.  He will want to hear about your day but not the minute he walks through the door. Let him take his shoes off make him a drink and let him unwind a little first.  Save your news for the dinner table.

Sex is not just something you provide for your husband's satisfaction The purpose of sex is to create connection and oneness with each other, so don't take the attitude of lying back and letting him get on with it,  instead grab the opportunity to become one with your husband both physically and mentally.  Sex was given to us for pleasure

Don't bring other people into your bedroom. There should only be you and your husband, do not bring your phone to bed with you. Focus on your husband and not on your social media feed. Your husband is the one that matters, and he will still be there when all the online friends have long gone 

Have you discovered these holidays how distant you and your husband have become?  Have you noticed large cracks appearing in your marriage? Are you ready to give up take the easy option and get divorced or do you want to fight for your marriage because your vows meant something to you? If they did have you considered how being a Submissive wife in a traditional style marriage could bring you...

The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence it only looks like it. Please do not compare your husbands against other men; they will have different strengths and weaknesses, this does not mean that they are better than him. Your friends may go on about how their husband is good at this and that or buy them things you wish you had. Remember the reasons you feel in love with your husband;...

When celebrating the New Year tonight, you should remember Once you are married you and your husband become one, and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought.   The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body.   The only man you should be kissing or wanting to kiss tonight is YOUR HUSBAND&nbs...

A Submissive Wife should take pride in looking after the home. I advise you have a daily cleaning schedule done with jobs for each day. List your daily jobs such as making beds and your weekly jobs such as cleaning bedrooms. Spread the jobs out, so all rooms are cleaned each week. Having a set rota ensures all jobs get done and get split into manageable tasks, so you don't have all the jobs to do...

If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a woman worthy of his respect. You have to Be humble, kind, gentle, modest and always be on your husband's side, even when times get tough. You have to be the wife he knows will always give him an honest opinion. However, do it with respect even if your opinion differs from his viewpoint.  

A Submissive Wife should remember that she should never put friends, family or work in front of her Husband.   Once you are married, you become one, and your husband is your number one priority.   Being married does not mean you cannot spend time with family and friends it means that you put your husband before your family and friends.  If you put your family and friends before your...

  A Submissive should always make sure she stays within her budget. Irresponsible spending puts unnecessary pressure on your husband and your relationship. It is your husband's responsibility to manage the family finances and make sure all the bills get paid.   When you do not control your spending you make his job difficult and in some cases impossible and you leave him with no option b...

When you disagree, don't hold a grudge.    Life is to short.   When you hold a grudge and stop speaking to your husband, it shows your lack of respect for your husband and his leadership.   Holding a grudge will only cause him to pull away and be distant, and you want the holidays to be full of love and laughter, not arguing and divorce

  Holiday Tip No8 A Submissive Wife should not forget to take time out to pamper her self for Christmas, remember you want to look your best for your husband.  Wear clothing that he likes to see you in. It is essential that you make an effort to look your best, he will appreciate the effort you make.   Just because you are married, it does not mean that you can stop trying to dress...

Holiday Tip No7 A Submissive Wife should be grateful for anything her husband buys her for  Christmas. How much the gift/s cost is unimportant the real value of a gift is the thought that went into it.   Do not compare your gifts to what others have received, remember they may have a more expensive gift, but they are not lucky enough to be married to your husband

Holiday Tip No6 A Submissive Wife should not be guilty of spending more time and effort looking at her social media feed than she spends working on her marriage. Your husband should be your number one priority not what your friend wore to a party.   Watch a movie together, go for a walk the important thing is to spend quality time together. If your phone is a constant distraction turn it off...

  A Submissive Wife should not drink to excess; you do not want to embarrass your husband in front of your family and friends over the holidays with drunken behaviour.   Alcohol alters the way we think and react to situations and things people have said to us. Enjoy a glass of wine or two but be aware of your limits and if you are one of those who can not handle alcohol drink soft drinks...