How I See It

Continuing the discussion on conflict, we highlight “baby steps” for learning to approach conflict in a healthy way, for those on the codependent end of the spectrum as well as the domineering end. We hope this episode can offer some helpful ideas for anyone on that spectrum.

"Some misguided Christian leaders feel that they must preserve harmony at any cost, so they do everything possible to reduce friction. They should remember that there is no friction in a machine that has been shut down for the night. Turn off the power, and you will have no problem with moving parts. Also remember that there is a human society where there are no problems—the cemetery. The dead hav...

Welcome back for Part 2! Last week, we got started in our conversation with Chris Pratt, Mark's wife and Kellie Perry. In this two-part episode, we're discussing a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the bes...

This episode was another treat for us as we got to have Chris Pratt, Mark's wife back on the show, along with Kellie Perry, Justin's sister-in-law who has, in her words, become podcast famous for cameo mentions in previous episodes (the Wives episode ). In this two-part episode, we'll discuss a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the ho...

Creation vs Evolution: this ongoing debate, now spanning 3 centuries, is certainly a heavyweight contender for "Most Polarizing Topic". Mark and Justin explore this topic of our origin, acknowledging even the polarized beliefs among those considering themselves "Creationists", and discussing the immense possibilities for a God who can create a universe.

Today, Mark and Justin talk (some may say nerd out) about the value of planting and growing things. They discuss the valuable lessons emphasized through the natural processes that occur in the life-cycle of a plant — things like seasons, dormancy, blooms, and fruit. The metaphors for life seem to never stop, and in the end, we encourage you, the listener, to consider planting something of your own...

What is worship? Is the dictionary definition adequate. Is it an experience? Is it an action? Is it a state of mind? Is it dependent on a deity? So many questions, too little time, but In today's episode, we discuss how we see worship, and we would love to hear how you see it. Drop us a note or a comment on facebook, twitter, instagram, or on our site at https://howiseeit.click/contact #howiseewor...

How often do we confuse thoughts for emotions and vice-versa? Certainly, our vocabulary doesn't help when we say "I feel like" to describe what we're thinking and "I think" when explaining how we feel. Today, we discuss that conundrum, the distinction between these two parts of our psyche, and some practical strategies for communicating our thoughts and feelings.

What's more polarizing than a good 'ole Calvinism/Arminianism standoff?! Today, Mark and Justin take on this vast subject that pits the seemingly opposing views of God's sovereignty versus man's free will. Is there room for both? Can we have our cake and eat it too? Maybe we don't answer all the questions, but we certainly share a bit more about how we see it.

Happy Day-after-the-4th! We hope you had your fill of fireworks and funnel cake as we celebrated the anniversary of our nation's declaration of freedom! Last week we shared the first part of our chat with Senior Resident Superior Court Judge Jason Disbrow. We've heard a lot of great feedback on the episode, as Judge Disbrow shared some thought-provoking insight into the workings of the court, and...

Listen in as Mark and Justin cross-examine our newest guest, Senior Resident Superior Court Judge Jason Disbrow. Join us as we get a fascinating "How I See It" look behind the Judge's bench, hearing some of the nuances of making judgments, how the system works, and how "The Law" can be polarizing, depending on which side of it you may find yourself on. And stay tuned as we continue next week in pa...

In this 2nd part of our conversation with Mary Beth, we continue the topic of integrative health and ways we can optimize our body’s natural systems. We also work at convincing her to start a blog AND a podcast, and finally, Mary Beth asks us how we got started with “How I See It”. As this is a continuation of last week, forgive us again for the audio not being up to our usual standards. For acces...

In this special guest episode, we chat with our good friend Mary Beth Fuchs, who has been in the healthcare industry for many years, and experienced many facets, both good and bad, within the industry. Join us as we learn a ton from Mary Beth about our bodies' natural systems for promoting our health, the healthcare industry, and many other tidbits, as we get a glimpse into how she sees it.

Leadership is a topic man has been mulling over for centuries. So forgive us as we indulge, discussing the difference between what is typically known as leadership vs what we call "true leadership." Is leadership an innate quality or something that can be developed? If there were dogs to demonstrate leadership, are you more of a border collie or a golden retriever?

Rest and productivity are seemingly at odds to one another. Yet it’s impossible to remain truly productive without factoring rest in to the equation (or can we simply live on a steady diet of caffeine??). Is there value in rest without productivity being the goal? Join us and find out (how we see it). Better yet, drop us a comment on social media and let us know how YOU see it! howiseeit.click/soc...

What makes someone “user-friendly”? What does that have to do with software? We’re not sure either, but we tie them together anyway. Listen in as we discuss how attachment styles and love languages affect how we see it.

"The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry." What do you do when you start to sense your week getting away from you? In this episode, we discuss a tool Mark uses to reset and recenter when the week becomes overwhelming or we fail to meet our expectations set out. He calls it the blank page exercise.

Who's Chesterton and why are we talking about his fence? In this episode, we discuss the benefits of "Second Order Thinking", a concept outlined in an article we came across recently. Listen in and find out what those benefits are, and what they possibly have to do with a fence.

What is a mission statement and its purpose? Do you have one? Does the company you work for? Is it just corporate-sounding jargon, and completely disregarded in daily dealings and interactions? Is a mission statement a resource worth developing, or belongs in the "special filing cabinet" (the wastebasket 🗑)? Find out how we see it in today's episode all about mission statements. 🤓

In this SECOND part of our FIRST guest episode, we continue the conversation with our better halves! We chat about life, secret crushes, marriage, woodchucks and damp towels. Maybe as you see how THEY see it, you'll gain some insights to why WE see it the way we do. We had a blast sharing memories together, and we hope you enjoy this special episode of "How I See It"!

In this first guest episode (split into 2 parts), we introduce you to our better halves! We chat about life, secret crushes, marriage, woodchucks and damp towels. Maybe as you see how THEY see it, you'll gain some insights to why WE see it the way we do. We had a blast sharing memories together, and we hope you enjoy this special episode of "How I See It"!

In a discussion on gender, and related issues (toxic masculinity, feminism, alternative lifestyles), do we manage to offend everyone? Hopefully not. As 2 men with wives and daughters, we discuss how we’ve been increasingly learning the value of gender, that gender is not equal to role, and many other lessons.

What does “a little more be alright” look like to the “How I See It” podcast? We chat about the idea of ads/endorsements, our growing audience (“53 more than we had!!”), how we should handle editing ourselves and poorly stated things, and most importantly, whether the blue tape holding the mic on the stand is the real MVP.

Today, we discuss being powerful/powerless. Starting with contemplation on the nuanced definitions words can take on (such as “Humor”), we move into consideration of the word “Power”—the powerlessness over our environment, and the power we may have over our response to it.

Listen to Mark sarcastically explain the value of sarcasm in humor. No, he would NEEEEver do that. No really, he wouldn’t. Seriously, he’s not a sarcastic guy. But we do chat about humor & levity. When does it go too far? When could we benefit from a little more humor? Where do we get our dad/bad jokes? Find out in today’s episode!