How I See It

As society continues to embrace and promote gender self-identification, we are beginning to see a new era of gender confusion and second-order consequences. In this episode, we discuss what acceptance can look like, the struggles we have with accepting those not like us and advocate for the ability to empathize with both sides of the conversation. Through this episode, our co-hosts aim to promote...

Today we'll be diving into our brains, and discussing relatively recent scientific findings. Neural pathways are the connections between different neurons in our brains, and they're responsible for everything from our thoughts and emotions to our behaviors and habits. Neural plasticity refers to the brain's ability to change and adapt these neural pathways in response to new experiences and learni...

In this episode, we're inspired by the ongoing spiritual awakening happening through events across the country, all triggered by a 2-week long chapel service at Asbury University. We talk about what makes this current move special, and some of its defining characteristics. And finally, we discuss the meaning of revival, and how it can be a deeply intimate, personal, and private occurrence, just as...

Welcome to How I See It's “Year in Review”! In this special episode, we reflect on our first year of podcasting, celebrating the amazing guests we’ve had the honor of interviewing, and take turns sharing some of our “favorite” episodes, including the insights we’ve gained from these conversations. We hope you’ll join us in this celebration of our journey!

Inspired by this Brené Brown, The Power of Vulnerability video, Mark and Justin discuss the many facets and unintuitively powerful nature of vulnerability. This word is often associated with weakness and abuse and therefore avoided at all costs. We would rather live in private shame than openly admit our struggles, but often this vulnerability is the key to unlocking incredible strength and change...

We're so thankful for our listeners and the great feedback you've given us over this first year of our podcast. Next week, we're going to be recording a "Year in Review", and we'd love to include some listener feedback! Please send us your thoughts/comments/feedback via the various social media platforms, or emailing us at us@howiseeit.click , or on our contact page: https://howiseeit.click/contac...

Merriam-Webster Dictionary chose the term "Gaslighting" as its 2022 word of the year as it was searched on their website 1,740% more in 2022 than in the previous year. "In this age of misinformation—of 'fake news,' conspiracy theories, Twitter trolls, and deepfakes—gaslighting has emerged as a word for our time." Today on How I See It, we discuss this term—how it's come to be used and abused in ou...

Join us for part 2 of this episode of 'How I See It,' where Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share th...

In this 2-part episode of 'How I See It,' Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on t...

Listen in to part 2 of our interview with our good friend and Pastor, Troy Knight. Troy is the lead pastor at Generations Church in Southport NC and the owner/co-founder of the local barbecue restaurants, Southport Smokehouse and Leland Smokehouse . In these episodes, we cover a lot of ground. Topics covered include what it takes to balance his two passions, advice to 20-something young men, what...

Happy New Year from How I See It! To kick off 2023, we're bringing you a 2-part interview with our good friend and Pastor, Troy Knight. Troy is the lead pastor and cofounder of Generations Church in Southport NC and the owner/co-founder of the local barbecue restaurants, Southport Smokehouse and Leland Smokehouse. In these episodes, we cover a lot of ground. Topics covered include what it takes to...

Get ready for a heartwarming and festive conversation on this special Christmas episode of 'How I See It'. We take a break from our regular schedule to share some of our favorite holiday memories and traditions and look into the joyful yet sometimes conflicting messages of the season.  At the center of the celebrations are 2 distinct figures: Santa Claus and Jesus Christ. In this episode, we...

In this episode of "How I See It," co-hosts Mark and Justin discuss the concept of the Kingdom of God and how it differs from the personal kingdoms we create for ourselves. They explore the idea that God's Kingdom is a realm of God-centered service and purpose, and contrast it with the often selfish and self-centered pursuits that drive our personal kingdoms. They also discuss the implications of...

Everyone loves being told how to raise their kids, right?! Of course not. In this episode, we explore the polarizing nature of parenting, discussing various beliefs, values, and approaches, and why they can sometimes lead to disagreement and debate. We also delve into the emotional and physical demands of parenting and how they can vary from person to person. Join us as we take a closer look at wh...

Today we discuss the current state of AI (Artificial Intelligence), the science, theories, and philosophies around its future, and the potential dangers/concerns with the impending next "phase" of AI. Is it possible we can create a "computer" that is as smart or smarter than us in every way (e.g. human-level intelligence)? Many scientists, technologists, and philosophers say "yes", and "soon". How...

Today, the show gets a little more personal as Mark and Justin discuss the subject of Depression. Mark and Justin are no strangers to this subject. Justin's familiarity is tied to his intermittent battle with it, while Mark encounters its effects near-daily through his therapy practice. Those who fight their mental health issues also have to fight the stigma associated with them. The most importan...

Mark brings a surprise topic to the How I See It studio this morning: Politics! This topic can elicit deep feelings of anxiety, anger, fear, fight/flight, and it's certainly at the top of the charts when it comes to polarization. We have an opportunity (some would say responsibility) to engage this important topic and to encourage honest enlightened conversations that go beyond the surface-level t...

Enjoy part 2 of our interview with MaryEllen. She continues to describe the benefits of a natural plant-based diet, her enjoyment of cooking and teaching others to cook in this style, and her general appreciation for the plant-based community that's been such a big help in her journey towards recovered health. If you haven't yet, check out part 1 from last week. We enjoyed our time with MaryEllen...

Enjoy this interview with MaryEllen: She describes her journey dealing with Lyme disease and other tick-borne diseases, despite the medications given, and the odds-defying healing she has found through a natural/Vegan lifestyle. Our standard disclaimer: we are not doctors! But if you're struggling with chronic health issues, this episode (and next week's) has some helpful nuggets and encouraging i...

"Gratitude is an attitude my friend" — with so much attention given to the negative in our reality, it pays considerable dividends to redirect our focus to the positive, specifically through the practice of gratitude. Today we talk about various ways we can practice gratitude, how this can influence our outlook, relationships, and opportunities, and discuss the realities of the media platforms try...

Social Media: Is it truly social? Or an addictive wasteland? How "real" are these online relationships? In today's episode, Justin and Mark highlight their disparate experiences with social media and outline the merits and struggles of a world increasingly online, where relationships born through social media are becoming a societal norm.  Related, this podcast grows through you sharing it in...

Today we spend some time reflecting on our memories of that fateful day, September 11, 2001. We also discuss the 9/11 mantra, "Never Forget!"—both the merits as well as the potential issues, and further expound on the challenges of trauma, whether it's from the proximity of an intense event like 9/11, or interpersonal/relational trauma. 

Today's discussion is on the art of listening—ways to improve on this invaluable skill, as well as being able to suss out clues when we're not being listened to. We agreed that we all can be a better version of ourselves as we continue to learn and improve our listening skills. And unironically, we thank you, the listener, for... listening! We appreciate you spending your valuable time with us!

Part 2 of our interview with Elias Dummer (a Canadian musician, songwriter, and writer well-known for co-founding the contemporary Christian band the City Harmonic ) about all things worship, his new album (The Work, Vol 2), favorite memories and songs from The City Harmonic days, (Manifesto anyone?!?!), and many other things. Note: There is a significant echo on Elias' voice during parts of this...

We get a unique opportunity to interview Elias Dummer (a Canadian musician, songwriter, and writer well-known for co-founding the contemporary Christian band the City Harmonic ) about all things worship, his new album (The Work, Vol 2), favorite memories and songs from The City Harmonic days, (Manifesto anyone?!?!), and many other things. We got to enjoy listening as Elias dove into theological de...