Hope For Wives

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we are continuing our discussion around how trauma negatively impacts our self-confidence, self-esteem, self-worth. We are going to explore ways to gain the confidence you lost after discovery and empower yourselves...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we are discussing why and how a betrayed partner's self-esteem decreases after discovery. Self-esteem is your sense of overall personal worth  or value. Similar to self-respect, it describes your level of confidence...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: We are continuing our exploration of how to navigate when friends or family in this episode.  Today, we are sharing practical tools and tips when friends and family are unintentionally insensitive to complexities of pain i...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation We Will be Discussing: Today, we are exploring the reality of the insensitivity of some friends or family to complexities of pain involved in betrayal from sex addiction. What are some experiences either you or your clients have share...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Today, Lyschel and Bonny continue the discussion, because Pam is away with other obligations, about Option C.  We talk about staying well through choice, change, the complexities, and Christ. We Will be Discussing: How do we stay well...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: Today, we are discussing what it means to stay while waiting in the hallway between pre-discovery and true solid recovery in the betrayer. Option C includes choice, change, complexity, and Christ. We Will be Discussing: What is Optio...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: Lyschel and Pam had other obligations, so I, Bonny will be speaking with a special guest today –  Dr. Barb Steffens! Barb is the retired founder of the association of partners of sex addicts trauma specialists, or APSATS. APSATS was...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: We are continuing to tenderly discussing sexual abuse in marriage and today we are moving into the intense end of the spectrum and will be talking about marital rape.   So, again, we invite you to check in with yourself. Are you in a...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: The next two episodes we are tenderly discussing topics around sexual abuse in marriage. So, we invite you to assess whether you are in a grounded enough state to listen to this conversation. If you are not, please come back another...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: We often work with women who experience a lack of understanding from their husbands on what it takes to heal from sexual betrayal trauma. So, today, we are discussing, "When the husband is frustrated with her slow healing process."  ...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: If you've been with us from the beginning, or have binged us up until this point, you'll know that we have purposely laid out content to follow a trajectory from first discovery, through safety and stability, grief and mourning, and...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: Pam and Bonny discuss 3 Keys to Coupleship Recovery – Safety/stability, Prioritizing the Relationship, and Radical Honesty. We Will be Discussing: What would you like couples to know about safety and stability? What does it mean to p...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: Today, Lyschel and Bonny discuss, "So What, Lord?" or, "Prove it, Lord." This isn't our typical episode. It's a conversation as Lyschel shares a devotional she recently connected with on a deeper level and wants to share with you. We...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: Today, we are discussing faulty messages women have received from church or society's teachings and how these teachings have impacted betrayed wives. Proverbs 31:8-9  in the message says, "Speak up for the people who have no voice, f...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Listen now: Today, we are continuing our discussion around, "How to Make Time for Healing." In the last episode, we walked through how she can care for herself through the first phase of healing, safety and stability. Our incredible guest, Casey Allison, is back wi...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Listen now: Today, we are discussing how to make time for healing, especially when you are a busy, maybe you're a mom with a full-time career, or a woman who runs her own small business, or a woman who has a passion for volunteering. We Will be Discussing: What are...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Listen now: Today, Lyschel has a conversation with Kim Hansen Petroni around the question of divorce. Kim is an APSATS certified partner coach and has experienced divorce. She is in the process of becoming a certified divorce coach. We Will be Discussing: What shou...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Listen now: Today, Pam and I are finishing our conversation around "How Do I Know That I'm Healing." (Lyschel still isn't with us, but she will be back soon!   We have a practical conversation, about things you can do to assess are you healing or stuck? We Will be...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Listen now: Today, Pam and I are discussing, "How Do I Know I'm Healing?" (Lyschel isn't here because she is taking a very small sabbatical because her plate is very full at the moment. She will be back soon, promise! I know we will all miss her!)   Back to our top...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com Today we are continuing our discussion around, "When Your Husband Keeps Lying," adding practical tools to care for yourself while navigating continued deception.   So, the scenario is, she keeps discovering his deception (and possibly it is not deception about his...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com   Today we discuss, "When Your Husband Keeps Lying."   We understand that experiencing constant deception is not only emotionally exhausting, but can keep us in a state of complex trauma.  . We Discuss: Let's talk about what women are desiring when it comes to hone...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com   Today, Bonny continues her conversation with Jessica Eidens, a betrayed families specialist. We Discuss: How does a betrayed partner (wife) navigate when the person with SA has been objectifying their own child (not in a physical manner, just in the brain). What...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com   Our previous episode, "What about the kids?" is one of our most downloaded episodes. This tells us there is a need for more insight and understanding around how problematic sexual behavior affects the family. So, today, I'd like to welcome Jessica Eidens, a betra...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com   Today, we continue our discussion around how a wife can heal even when her husband is not in good emotional and behavioral health, yet. We will be focusing on practical tools and ideas you can use to care for yourself and move into personal growth in spite of her...

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from  RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from  HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from  StrongWives.com   In today's episode, we are discussing how your healing is not dependent on your husband's recovery. This conversation has wives in mind that have been on this road for several years now and there is still a good bit of relational conflict in the marriage.  In our...