Honey, That's Grace

Ever been frustrated at church? With your spouse? With a friend? Ever felt unseen… forgotten… overlooked? What if the disappointment isn’t actually about them? In this episode, we’re talking about: • The expectations we never say out loud • The pressure to “find the perfect church” (especially as a military family) • Silent resentment in marriage • Unrealistic expectations in friendships • And why...

BONUS EPISODE ALERT 🚨✨ You didn’t think we were showing up twice this week… but here we are. Episode 14: “low-stakes holy hot takes” is LIVE — and it’s lighthearted, honest, and maybe just a tiny bit controversial (in the most harmless way possible). 😅 We’re talking about: ☕️ Venti iced lattes in the sanctuary — yes or no? 🪑 “Your” seat at church… is it really yours? 📖 Physical Bible vs. Bib...

Tell me you have a complicated relationship with your reflection without telling me... 🪞🫠 We’ve all been there. You’re sitting in the Target parking lot, hair in a "postpartum hair loss" bun, having a mini-meltdown because you feel like a "failure" at basically everything. You feel like you have to show up as "Happy Katie" for the world, but inside, the imposter syn...

Tell me you have a love-hate relationship with your phone without telling me... 📱🫠 We’ve all been there. You’re exhausted after a long day of "sandwich generation" life, you sit down to rest, and your thumb automatically starts scrolling. An hour later? You’re more stressed, more dysregulated, and somehow looking at a bird-feeder livestream. 🐦 In today’s episode, we’re getting real ab...

Ever feel like one more "slurp" of spaghetti might actually send you over the edge? 🫠 In this episode, we’re getting honest about that "Mercury Rising" feeling… that moment where overstimulation takes over and suddenly the kitchen counters feel like a personal attack. We are diving deep into why "doing nothing" is a high-level skill and how we can stop living our liv...

"I thought this was it. I thought this was where God was leading me... then I wasn't selected."Have you ever felt like God let you down? Like you did everything right—you prayed, you had faith, you stayed the course—and the door still slammed shut? Whether it’s a career setback, a struggle with infertility, or the crushing weight of a friendship loss, unmet expectations don't just feel like a disa...

🎧 NEW EPISODE IS LIVE Patience: the everyday, stretch-you-thin kind This isn’t Instagram patience. This is road-trip potty stops, grocery store lines, barfy dogs, loud houses, and deep breaths you didn’t plan on taking. We talk about losing your cool… apologizing… slowing down… and learning that patience isn’t perfection — it’s coming back with grace. 💛 Waiting isn’t wasted. God is growing somet...

Everybody has an opinion… and somehow it’s louder than the kids. 😅 🎧 NEW EPISODE IS LIVE: Judged Much? Finding Peace When Everyone Has an Opinion If you’ve ever… gotten side-eyed for screen time on a weekday 👀 felt criticism hit your identity, not just your choices spiraled from one comment like, “Wait… am I a bad mom?” 😩 tried to “protect your peace” but didn’t know how without snapping …this...

Forgiveness is one of the hardest things Jesus asks us to practice — and one of the most freeing. Episode 7 dives into what forgiveness really looks like: ...not excusing the hurt ...not ignoring boundaries ...not rushing reconciliation but choosing peace over pain and releasing what you were never meant to carry. If forgiveness feels impossible right now, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to...

Comparison is a thief. It steals joy. Peace. Confidence. Sleep. (And somehow convinces you everyone else has it together). This episode gets REAL about social media spirals, mom guilt, and why grace says: ✨ You’re enough right now. If scrolling has been messing with your heart... this one’s for you. #honeythatsgrace #faithandfeelings #graceinthemess #jesusmeetsushere

If you’ve ever felt that nagging little voice whispering “you’re not enough”… this one’s for you. 💛 Today we’re breaking down: • the difference between guilt and healthy responsibility • why guilt feels so loud (especially for women + moms) • how to stop living like God is keeping score • practical ways to release guilt and receive real grace • what scripture actually says about rest, shame, and...

Today’s episode feels like a deep breath. We sat down and talked about something so many women struggle with but rarely admit: Why is it so hard to set boundaries? We talk about it all — the guilt, the people-pleasing, the resentment, the exhaustion, the fear of disappointing people… and how Jesus actually modeled healthy limits. In this episode you’ll hear: 💛 Why “good things” can still burn you...

We’re breaking down the stigma around therapy... especially in faith circles. Because you don’t have to choose between prayer and practical help. It’s not either/or. It’s both/and. If you’ve ever wondered what therapy is actually like… this one’s for you. Grace and emotional health can sit at the same table. 🍯💛 #honeythatsgrace #graceinthemess #WomenOfFaith

🧡🍂 Happy Thanksgiving, friends! 🧡🍯 Today we’re pausing to say thank you. Thank you for showing up with your whole heart and letting us speak grace into your week. We’re grateful for quiet moments where God whispers, “You’re loved. You’re held. You’re enough.” For laughter, messy tables, burnt pies, and real-life grace. Wherever you are today, may your rest be deep and your joy contagious. Hone...

We want you to know that you’re not the only one who feels this way. If you’re anxious, overwhelmed, or carrying a quiet weight you don’t talk about, you’re not alone. We want you to know that your anxiety doesn’t make you weak, dramatic, or “less Christian.” Faith and anxiety can coexist, and Jesus meets you right where you are — not where you think you should be. We want you to know that God isn...

This podcast was born out of something simple — the reminder that God doesn’t love a future, polished version of us. He loves us right here , in the messy middle, in the moments we’d rather hide, in the places we feel too much or not enough. Grace doesn’t dismiss the pain, and faith doesn’t erase it. We can love Jesus and still feel anxious. We can trust God and still struggle. We can be grateful...