His&Hers

Have you ever felt so disconnected from the man in your life, your husband, that you felt there was no other solution but to separate? My guest today, Rafeeqah Solomon-Sterris, felt just like that. Rafeeqah had been married for 16 years but, after many battles with her husband, she just couldn't take it any longer and she and her husband ended up divorcing. That's not where the story ends though....

Today's guest is Amiena Peck. Amiena is a Linguistics lecturer at the University of the Western Cape as well as a certified emotional intelligence coach. She offers free emotional intelligence training to students at the university and to others on various platforms that she talks about in the podcast. I'm delighted to have Amiena with us today to give us some insights and practical tools to use t...

On today's episode of His&Hers, we're talking about respect and what it means to men. Have you ever said something without meaning to sound disrespectful but then your husband feels disrespected? Men and women have many different ways of looking at situations. It can become quite hazy sometimes for a woman to make sense of a man's world. Luckily, my guest on the show today is my husband, Hashmet K...

In this episode, we talk about growth and maturity in marriage as two essential ingredients for a healthy marriage. I'm joined by Yusra Galvaan as she shares her marriage story with us, the challenges and the lessons.

In this episode, Shenaaz Moos, a licenced counsellor, shares her insight on the very important topic of boundaries in marriage. We talk about why it's so difficult for women to set boundaries and how a wife can maintain boundaries respectfully. We also delve into expectations, disappointments and self care.

Today on His&Hers, I talk to Ruqaiyah Davids about her biggest marriage lesson - gratitude. We talk about how important gratitude is and how a simple shift in perspective can benefit the marriage.

In this episode of His & Hers, I talk to Nuraan Davids-Latief. Wife, mom, lecturer, phD student and so much more, Nuraan joins me in unpacking misunderstandings and misconceptions in marriage. We delve into the common things men and women are misunderstood for, how to overcome misconceptions and the importance of communication. Nuraan shares with us the precious lessons she's grasped over 15 years...

In this episode, we explore the male perspective on relationships. I invite my husband, Hashmet Khan, to offer us a peek into the world of men. We answer questions, such as, 'What do men wish women knew about them?', 'How can a woman make a man feel appreciated?', 'What, from a man's perspective, is the magic ingredient for a harmonious marriage?'. We unpack cultural norms and expectations and exp...

His&Hers is a weekly podcast on relationships between men and women. On His&Hers, it's all about climbing out of our own world and into the world of our significant other. And in so doing, we explore the power of perspective.