His Body Equipped- Ephesians 4:16

Let's give our children more of our time and involvement in their lives. Part of investing in your children is spending quality time with them, do something they like, be interested in their lives. If you have a hard time enjoying spending quality time with your kid, ask God to give you the desire to build a bond and then ask him to instruct you on how to build a bond with your child

Be careful of who you share your struggles with while on your journey with God, some people rejoice in your struggle but can't rejoice in your success. We have to learn how to be mature in our understanding of another person's journey and walk with God.

Healing is easier when you do it Gods way. If communication must be cut so that you can heal in peace, DO IT! Don't go passed the boundary of Gods word. Nobody is worth your PEACE

Allowing God to develop the fruits of the Holy Spirit in you and in your mate. Stop looking at the physical appearance or the social status of a person and look for the fruits of the Holy Spirit in them.

Give up the need to be chased! If you're doing the chasing, STOP chasing. Love is not manipulative. Rise up to the standard of healthy relationships and healthy relationship building. You can't build a healthy relationship on mind games and emotional abuse.

Breaking free, isn't just physical, it's spiritual, it involves using the same mouth that you used to create those demonic covenants with someone to also break those covenants. Bind yourself to God, he will safeguard your heart, your body, your emotions and YOU!

If you are going to be with someone who has a child or children from a previous relationship, you have to be secure or you will not only destroy the relationship you are building with your mate but you will also destroy yourself in the process.

Build the friendship, not the romance. Inspired by the book Lady in Waiting.

Holding your peace in a time where the enemy is doing all he can to get a fleshly response and reaction out of you. Don't put your peace in the hands of difficult people.

Don't ever get comfortable with disrespecting the people you are in relationship with

Be encouraged! Allow the changes God is making in your life.

Get to know people before you give them peices of you that they don't deserve or value. Stop giving YOU away to people who aren't even willing to GET TO KNOW YOU!

Who we draw and the type of people we associate ourselves with says alot about who we are as individuals. Who are you? , Now look at your circle, who are they? ... How do "THEY" mirror "YOU"?

How you pray for the people who don't love you exposes your love walk. Let's not just love only the people who love us, love those who may not love you.

It's time to be uncompromised and unashamed.

Allow God to show you the things in you that are keeping you from creating healthy relationships. Put God back on the throne of your heart and take people off. It's time to allow God to complete you and let the people he puts in your life complement you.

How much of God do you want vs. how much of God you're settling for?

I'm reading a book called "Lady in Waiting" it's a good read. Lets allow God to complete us while we wait.

I'd rather be on the outside looking in, than on the inside of deception and dysfunction looking out.

There is nothing to prove when God has approved you.

Sometimes when we are walking on unfamiliar territory, we confuse, unfamiliarity with uncertainty and just because it's unfamiliar, doesn't mean it's uncertain. God is sure about you and he is sure about your future. Let God lead you, stay focused on Him.

It's time to let God bring his divine Order and Structure. Everything must line up.

How you heal determines if you heal.

Here is some encouragement, if you need it ❤️

Measuring the value of people