Hermit Haven

Ever feel like you’re stuck in between? Like the version of you that once made sense doesn’t quite fit anymore - but the next version of you hasn’t fully arrived yet? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the in-between seasons. The ones that feel quiet, uncertain, and sometimes a little uncomfortable. We talk about how it feels to outgrow old identities, the grief that can come with letting...

Have you ever caught yourself wanting just a little more—more rest, more space, more alignment—and instantly felt guilty for it? Same. And this episode is for you. Today, we’re peeling back the layers of that guilt and diving into why so many women (especially moms) have internalized the idea that wanting more means being ungrateful. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t.  We talk about how gratitude and desi...

This week’s episode is all about making life feel a little more magical—without needing a big life change or a perfect routine. We’re talking about romanticizing the everyday - those little, cozy, joy-filled moments that ground us, especially during seasons of change. Whether it’s your morning coffee, a walk with your favorite playlist, or lighting a candle before journaling, these soft practices...

Life doesn’t stay the same - and honestly, we wouldn’t want it to. But stepping into a new season (whether it’s motherhood, healing, career shifts, or just figuring yourself out again) can feel both beautiful and terrifying. In today’s episode, we’re talking about what it really means to thrive through change - not just survive it. We’ll share personal reflections, the mindset shifts that helped u...

Why do we feel guilty for doing nothing? Whether it’s sitting on the couch for five minutes or taking a weekend to yourself, the guilt creeps in fast—and we’re over it. This week, we’re talking about unlearning the pressure to constantly be productive, and learning how to rest without apology. Because your worth isn’t measured by your to-do list.  We’re sharing honest stories, laughs, mindset shif...

This episode is your permission slip to slow down. 🌙💛  If you’ve been feeling like life is moving at a quieter pace—maybe you’re resting more, creating less, or simply stepping back from constant doing—this is your reminder: you are still growing. This slower season is just as sacred as the seasons of productivity. We’re chatting about: What a season of slowness actually looks and feels like Why...

We’re redefining the “boss babe” mindset—because it’s not just about building the dream life, brand, or business. It’s about the inner work that makes it possible. In this episode, we share the mindset shifts that changed our lives—from trusting our intuition to believing we’re worthy before we’re “ready.” We’re talking about what a “life of yes” really looks like, how to chase your dreams without...

We’re shaking things up and bringing you a cozy, casual episode sharing our current ins and outs — the small changes making a big difference in our everyday lives. From confidence and hobbies to guilt-free rest and walking pad moments, we’re naming what’s in (hello joy!) and what’s out (goodbye people-pleasing 👋).  In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Being more confident in decision-making 📵 Choo...

Ever notice how the quiet work you do on yourself starts to change everything around you? In this heartfelt episode, we’re exploring the ripple effect of self-growth—and how tending to your inner world begins to overflow into your relationships, parenting, creativity, and confidence. We talk about what self-development really feels like (not just what it looks like), the not-so-glamorous parts of...

Is it possible to love solitude and still value deep, meaningful connection? In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to be a “hermit” at heart—especially in a world that often rewards constant availability and social energy. We talk about the very real tension between needing quiet time to recharge and wanting to be there for the people we care about. From overstimulation and guilt...

Ever feel like you’re falling behind in life? That invisible pressure to hit every milestone—marriage, babies, a dream job, a house—on someone else’s schedule? Yeah, us too.  In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the unrealistic timelines we’ve been handed and exploring how to actually define success on your own terms. We’re sharing real stories, honest reflections, and gentle reminde...

This week, we’re slowing down and reflecting on the wild, beautiful, emotional journey of becoming—and being—a mom. With Mother’s Day approaching and Ashley welcoming her first baby boy, we wanted to take a moment to talk about the real stuff: birth stories, identity shifts, the quiet ways we grow through motherhood, and how we hold onto the spark that makes us, us.  Whether you're a brand new mam...

Ever wondered what we did before we were co-hosts of Hermit Haven? This week, we’re getting personal and sharing all about our past jobs—how they shaped us, what we learned, and the funny, heartwarming, and unexpected stories that came from them. From Michaels craft runs to preschool nap time routines, Disney cast member moments to early social media beginnings—each role we had became a stepping s...

What if the key to feeling more connected, confident, and at peace… was simply learning how to lean into your strengths—and letting others do the same?  In this heartwarming episode of Hermit Haven, we’re getting real about what it means to be part of a team—whether that’s in friendships, relationships, motherhood, or building something creative together. We’re sharing the importance of celebratin...

Today we’re slowing down and tuning in to something that’s been tugging at our hearts lately—your why. That deeper purpose behind what you do, what you dream about, and how you show up every day. In this episode, we’re talking about: What it really means to have a “why” Why it’s so easy to lose sight of it (especially in the busy seasons of life) How to uncover your own unique purpose Practical ti...

Today’s episode is all about something we’re super passionate about—helping you build the kind of self-belief that makes you unstoppable. We’ve been there... wishing someone would hype us up, only to realize that sometimes, we have to be that person for ourselves. So, we’re spilling all the tips and personal stories that have helped us: Hype ourselves up with affirmations and small wins (even when...

In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re exploring what it really means to be a girl’s girl — someone who celebrates, supports, and uplifts the women around her. We’re unpacking the myths around this term, talking about the power of community over competition, and sharing practical ways to show up for the women in your life. We discuss simple ways to be a girl’s girl, from celebrating her wins and s...

We’re back with a fun and cozy episode sharing all our faves right now! We’re talking about the little things that are making life sweeter—from cozy drinks and small luxuries to self-care habits that are helping us feel more grounded. In this episode, we cover: Our current favorite products and little must-haves The books and you tube creators bringing us joy Simple habits and routines that have b...

What if the smallest habits could completely transform your life? In this cozy book club episode, we’re diving into Chapters 8 & 9 of The Power of Habit and uncovering how everyday routines shape not only our personal growth but also entire social movements.  We’re breaking down: ✨ The Power of Community: How habits fueled the Montgomery Bus Boycott & Saddleback Church’s growth. ✨ Are We...

Romanticizing the Little Things to Live a Richer Life What does it really mean to live a rich life? Spoiler alert: it has nothing to do with money. In this episode, we’re redefining richness as finding joy, fulfillment, and meaning in the little things. From family moments to small self-care rituals, we’re sharing personal stories and mindset shifts that help us feel abundant every single day. 🎧...

In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re slowing down to talk about the little moments that bring the most joy. We often think happiness comes from big milestones, but the real magic is in the everyday—morning sunlight through the window, an unexpected text from a friend, or the smell of fresh bread baking. Join us as we share our own simple joys, ways to cultivate more happiness in daily life, and...

In this episode, we’re diving into chapters 4-7 of The Power of Habit and exploring the concept of keystone habits—those small but powerful routines that create a ripple effect in our lives. We break down how habits shape our decisions, the science behind willpower, and how small shifts can lead to big transformations.  We also share personal insights on how habits impact health and wellness, from...

The Secret to Making Progress (Without the Pressure to Be Perfect) Have you ever found yourself waiting for the perfect time to start something—only to realize that time never comes? Or maybe you’ve achieved a goal and still felt unfulfilled? You’re not alone. In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re getting real about the battle between progress and perfection—and why the key to growth isn’t about...

Ever felt like you’re not interesting enough to share your life online? Or worried about what people will think if you start posting content? We get it. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it really means to be a content creator—not just the tips and tricks, but the mindset, the challenges, and the growth that comes with it.  We’re sharing: ✨ How we started our content creation journey (...

Hey bestie! 💛 Our Hermit Haven Book Club is back, and we’re diving into our second book—The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg! This book has us deep in thought about the small (and not-so-small) habits shaping our daily lives. In this episode, we’re breaking down the first three chapters and discussing: ✨ The Habit Loop – How cues, routines, and rewards drive our behavior ✨ Keystone Habits – The...