HELP! I Suck at Dating

Jared’s back from his honeymoon and Dean’s back on Paradise! We hear a ton of secret details from Jared’s wedding and honeymoon and he tells us the story of how he LOST his ring! Dean clears up some details about what happened with Caelynn and why he dumped her on her birthday. Plus we hear what happened during his time away from the beach. And we get an update on how things are going since Dean a...

Annaliese Puccini has lost at love now THREE TIMES on Bachelor shows...but she stops by to see Vanessa and Dean LIVE at the SF GIANTS GAME to reveal how things have changed!  Maybe she doesn't suck at dating.... But first she tells us everything that went down with Chris Bukowski on Paradise. The Married Men from HOW MEN THINK are here to help the singles find love and consider settling down. Do y...

Things are starting to heat up for Dean on Bachelor in Paradise and he’s here to fill us in on what we didn’t see. He tells us who he confided in the most while on the beach.   Dean opens up about some of the Bachelor moments he was too embarrassed to watch on TV.   And we get his take on who will be the next Bachelor! Is he Team Derek? Or Team Pilot Pete??   Learn more about your ad-choices at ht...

Vanessa did some soul searching and made a list of the Top 5 lessons she’s learned about love since her last relationship and she’s ready to share all her tips!   Is it cheating to “Like” an Instagram picture of the opposite sex when you’re in a relationship? We look at both sides and try to figure it out.   Plus we talk to Ernestine Sclafani, wife of sports commentator Skip Bayless, about how to...

Dean has made his appearance on Bachelor in Paradise and he’s here with Vanessa to fill us in on everything you DIDN’T see. He lets us in on his conversations with Kristina and what their relationship is like this time around.  And we hear all about Dean’s wedding weekend with Ashley and Jared… he almost missed the whole thing! Plus we break down Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth’s split Learn more a...

Bachelor in Paradise is back with a new season, so Dean brings Wells onto the show for a full preview of what goes down this year in Mexico. Wells tells us that something happens on this season that’s never happened before in Paradise history. Annaliese spills the tea on what happened with Kamil after he broke up with her last year. Tayshia gives us a sneak peek at the drama she gets into on her f...

Jared is in the final stages of wedding planning, and the recently married Krystal Nielsen is here to help make sense of some last minute dilemmas.   We hear about what went down at Jared’s bachelor party and why Dean wasn’t there.   And Krystal tells us why she’s not changing her last name to Randone. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/list...

The gang is all together in Lake Tahoe, and Vanessa brought her boyfriend to meet her co-hosts for the first time!  This leads to a discussion on why its important for your significant other to mesh well with your friends. We address the caterpillar in the room… and we’re talking about Dean’s mustache. And Vanessa’s boyfriend pops a question live on the show that leaves everyone floored! Learn mor...

Dean is back! We have a lot of questions for him after seeing his promo for Bachelor in Paradise.  Sean Lourdes and his fiancé Megan Thomas from “Marrying Millions” on Lifetime tell Dean, Vanessa & Jared how to know if someone is dating for love… or for money. And Tina Wilson, founder of the Wingman app, explains why a wingman is beneficial when dating. And why you should put your friends in c...

Bachelor alum Sadie Murray is with us and if anyone knows what its like to suck at dating, it's her. She was the O.G. Bachelor virgin and she shares with us what it was like for her virginity to be such a big part of the show. How's your Venmo etiquette? We talk to digital etiquette expert Mika Meier about the Dos and Don'ts of dating when it comes to apps and technology. She has some great advice...

When is a date actually considered a date? That’s the question that Dean, Vanessa and Jared hope to solve for one of our producers. And for those recently dumped, Latreal Mitchell from Revenge Body on E! Is here with some tips for getting into the best shape of your life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jared went to Chris and Krystal’s wedding down in Mexico, and is ready to spill all the details!  The cast of the new season of Bachelor in Paradise is out and we hear Dean, Vanessa and Jared’s initial thoughts on who’s hooking up with who.  And we talk to former Playboy Playmate Sunshine Shen about her spiritual awakening and what she’s learned about dating from living in L.A. Learn more about yo...

Vanessa heard what Alex Bordyukov said about her on last week’s show, so we get him back on to clear the air about their “relationship”.   Then we talk to Vanessa’s friend Taylor Nolan about how to keep things spicy in a long distance relationship and it gets spicy! And while we’re settling issues about Alex, Caroline Lunny checks in. She dated Alex on Bachelor in Paradise: Australia and tells us...

After Dean experiences some motorcycle trouble, he makes it to the studio with his friend from The Bachelorette Alex Bordyukov. Alex tells us about his experience on Bachelor in Paradise Australia, and he gives us some exclusive behind the scenes tea.  And we hang out with the host of "Unspouse My House" on HGTV, Orlando Soria, who has some simple tips people can follow to change their home after...

Dean and Jared are backstage at iHeartRadio’s Wango Tango!  Bachelor villain Corinne Olympios is here to give us an update on her dating life! She’s in a long distance relationship, and she lets us in on how she makes it work.  Dean crawled out of his van to talk to Jared about their celebrity crushes and who Jared’s “hall pass” would be, and we hear some incredible advice on how to successfully s...

Dean and Jared have a lot of questions about sexual health, so they called in real life nurse and Bachelor alum Danielle Maltby to help shed some light!  She clears up a lot of confusion about HPV, birth control, and what to know if you think you have a sexually transmitted infection. Plus, we hear about some moves Dean has tried that the rest of the room can’t quite relate to. Learn more about yo...

We are the most  personal and uncomfortable dating questions today.    When is the best time to tell the person you’re dating that you have kids, have been divorced, or have an STD? We get to the bottom of those tough conversations.   You asked...we answer! Dean lets us in on what he expects when he goes full #VanLife.     And after discussing some of Hannah B’s season of The Bachelorette, Dean te...

Dean, Jared & Vanessa keep finding ways to improve at dating, but maybe the best choice is no relationship at all. We talk to Brendon Watt, author of "Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?".  Get rid of the "fairy tale complex", and find new levels of intimacy.  Then we hear from Brett and Devon Kolomyjec about their app "Happily", which is a one stop shop relationship resource.  Plus, Dean...

Everybody’s fist pumping when Vinny Guadagnino from Jersey Shore stops by. Vinny can relate to Dean, Jared and Vanessa now, because his new show Double Shot at Love is kind of like The Bachelor. Vinny tells us about how he defended Dean early on, and he reveals that he might even show up on Paradise! Plus, we talk to body language expert Katia Loisel, and find out how much you can learn about some...

 More people are meeting their partners over social media, so we try to figure out exactly what an attractive Instagram feed looks like. Ben Higgins met his new girlfriend after sliding into her DMs, so he lends his opinion to Jared, Vanessa & Dean.  Ben sticks around to help Jared and Vanessa smooth things over from last week’s talk about Jared’s wedding and who isn’t on the guest list. And w...

Jared’s wedding planning with Ashley continues but something is revealed that deeply upsets Vanessa. Meanwhile, Dean lets us in on some personal work he’s been doing and explains why he thinks he’s a better person when he’s single.  And we talk to psychotherapist Ken Page, author of Deeper Dating. He tells us about a meditation practice that’s easy to do, and will put you in the perfect headspace...

Dean tells us he’s been feeling a lot healthier and confident lately, but to really evaluate what that means, we talk to “Possibilitarian” Cherie Healey . She helps Dean face some of his unprocessed grief from losing his mother, and she shares some incredible advice on how to deal with fear. Plus, Dean lets us in on a HUGE project he’s been working on, and we hear about how his Coachella trip has...

The rumors are circulating that Dean is going back to Paradise, and he finally sets the record straight for you. He hints at a truly epic entrance, and tells us that this new season could completely change the way everybody looks at him.   We talk to model GiGi Gorgeous about her journey.  She tells us her theory on why transgendered dating is better than cisgendered dating. Learn more about your...

Dating coach Marni Battista joins us to share some advice on how to meet people that have "evolved" to a more serious level in relationships. And we tackle some dating issues from 3 different perspectives: a single person, someone in a committed relationship, and one in a new relationship. Also, we figure out the male equivalent to flowers... what's a quick gift you can get for your guy to show th...

It's a girls day on the podcast when Vanessa hangs out with her friend Mikaela Whightman from Bachelor Canada. Together, they tackle the question "can you ever be satisfied in love?" Reza Farahan from Shahs of Sunset stops by, and reveals why hands and teeth could be a clue to what kind of kisser you are. Plus, Vanessa opens up about her anxiety, and how she deals with panic attacks.  Learn more a...