Heartbreak and Healing with Chennaisixtyeight

I hear sometimes girls think, I wish I was born as a guy at least once. Well, although it looks cool to be a guy, it isn’t that easy. The transition of being a child, boy and a man, is a game that many would hate. It can be emotionally draining. Send this to your guys, who may relate.

How do you know they are the one? In 3 conscious steps. 1) The one who has all options in the world to choose; but still chooses you 2) The one who know your past, present, best and worst and still decides to stick with you 3) Don’t listen to your heart, don’t listen to your head, but listen to your spirit. That will say, from your inner self. Did it say?

With whom you never dated? But it disappeared on a fine night, and you had no clue why? They vanished from your chat list, You couldn’t fight for it, Nor talk about this to anyone….. To lose someone, who was never yours. It’s a strange painful feeling.

Send it to someone who may regret for the love and effort given to the wrong ones. I want you to know that, It’s not your loss… Because, ‘adhaney Ne’? You have been yourself, given your love and it was meant to reach them. Even if things didn’t end up the way you wanted. Until you being yourself, the loss is not yours.

And that’s how universe works my darling. When you are sure about your own choices, You order the coffee, You sit back and wait for it to come. If it comes, it’s yours, If it doesn’t, it’s not a coffee shop. 😂 Your coffee will come ☕️ Suda Suda

Men don’t express, men don’t share, men don’t cry. But have you ever asked why? What stops them? May be this reel has an answer. Share who may need to know this. Special thanks to  @isha.foundation  for letting us collaborate as creators, think through on mental and emotional welness and a retreat like never before.

No matter how far someone goes, Once blossomed connection can’t be broken, Even if somehow, somewhere you try, It still stays, and everything stays.

You can send one too 😬 I wish happiness is surrounded by you always :) Join our support group for daily positivity.

They Don’t Know: Do they? 🥺❤️ Do you know why someone gets mad at you? In a hope that you would come forward and rebound. In a hope that you would hug and give them love. Unfortunately some people inspite of knowing that fights could destroy relationships. They still don’t care, they don’t give in… And that’s painful. Send; if they don’t know

Are You That Person? 🫂❤️‍🩹 Thanimaiyil puriyum vazlkai… The one who has the courage to sit in a restaurant all by himself, is also the strongest. Because only the one who learns to be alone, will learn to live. Rest all will survive ❤️

A big part of happiness is being excited. We use to be a lot more excited even for the smallest things as a child, but for some reason as we got older we lost that excitement. And that’s why I consciously chose my excitement this time. @lokastays

Love of your life May come anytime, But the time you spend single will never return. Married people or those in relationships may know this better. A part of you will always miss all the good times in the world you spent focusing on yourself, your family and friends. You have the rest of your life to be married or in a relationship. So for now cherish your single time; because this won’t last long...

You don’t know true pain, Until you crave a conversation with someone, Who is no longer with us.

Sometimes the world can’t understand the bond between tom and jerry, but only they do. They survive, protect, and be there for each other. When rest of they world see them as enemies, deep down there is no better love than tom and jerry. Who is your Tom or Jerry. Tag them and let them know. Be Tom and Jerry.

Worlds worst day is the birthday. It’s a deep fact is you see. Because 90% of people are going to put an act of being present with random wishes. However if you notice they wouldn’t have existed the entire year. All you have to do is to go silent and see, who would even remember your birthday? Because people who really care and wish for you, it’s just an other day of care and make you feel special...

Because you never know, What a conversation can do, what a conversation can do. This is the most underrated thing in the universe. People don’t understand the power of one good conversation with the right person. It may take time, it may take some efforts; but having a right listener in place can change your life. Kick start your free 15 min therapy today. Type ‘CALL’ and I will send you the link.

We often look at the old pictures and think if we could go back to those days…. But never realised it would become a golden moment to look back when we clicked those pics few years back. Similarly few years from now you would never realise that it’s a golden moment for the pictures you click today. So everyday in this world is a golden moment, an opportunity to be alive. No matter hard and tough i...

At least 1 day in a week; give it for you, give it for your self care. You need a break and you deserve that. People might say you are wasting your time, but trust me; Life’s best turning points comes after a short nap, deep conversations or a short break. So never be sorry for taking time for yourself. Prioritise you, prioritise your mental health!

1) Accepting what happened 2) Total disconnection / No contact 3) Self love 4) New routine/ New Life If you are under any of these stages, you are going through what humans have gone through for millions of years. This isn’t new and this isn’t only for you. It’s life and it hits hard sometimes. Go through the emotions, but come out smiling bright.

Care and Control is very different. Anything that comes with concern is care and, Anything that comes with authority is control. Have an eye on this. If someone stops you, pulls you and fights for you. That’s because they care. If your actions upsets them and they question you, It means they are concerned. Love comes with care and concern. Control comes with authority and pride.

Be a part of our support group: “Struggles of Adulting” I know your parents can hate me when I say this: But it’s necessary that someone say this. Answering back, disagreeing, sticking to your opinions, putting your values across, choosing your partner or career even if they disagree. Isn’t going to make you bad or a disrespectful child. Remember that.

Some people talk less; so others jump to judge them in every chance they get. They say they are arrogant, they don’t know to talk or they shy. The fact is, what if they understand the significance of their words, what if they know where to talk or it’s just a habit they talk less. So every human being have their personality. If you don’t respect that, at-least stop judging too quick.

Mention them, let them know. Because it’s important. Sometimes we neglect things that needs to be said, sometimes we neglect to appreciate our peace. If some one can bring your smile back and give a deep sense of silence to your heart, keep them closer. You may need them for life. They are your healing pill.

Because it matters to let them know, you think about them. Inspite of all sign, push aways, silences, defence and closed doors. There are always few people who dare to walk in through that door and sit near you with no judgements. And they are friends, they are family. Erukangala; someone who walked through that door for you? Tag them; If you have them

Whatever left; is not mine; And whatever is mine; is not going anywhere… isn’t it? It’s such a simple philosophy to avoid overthinking. Share who may need it now.