Heart Set Above

In Part 2 of this series for Christian parents of adult children who are no longer (or not yet) walking with God, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, unpacks two common burdens many faithful parents carry: delayed development and parental guilt. 💭 Is your grown child making choices that leave you confused, hurt, or worried? 💔 Do you find yourself replaying the past, wondering what you could’ve done differentl...

When your adult child walks away from the faith—or chooses a path that feels deeply at odds with what they were raised to believe—how do you respond as a Christian parent? In this heartfelt opening episode of our new series, Holding On and Letting Go, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT shares her own powerful journey of coming out to her parents at 19, hitting rock bottom in a foreign country, and ultimately re...

Ellen and Georgia dive deep into one of the most transformative therapeutic concepts—Unconditional Positive Regard—and why it's essential not only for therapists, but for every Christian seeking to love like Christ. Drawing from their graduate training and personal faith journeys, they unpack how UPR mirrors the agape love of God, how it shapes our self-worth, and how it allows us to sit with...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, therapists Ellen and Georgia dive into the vast and often misunderstood landscape of trauma. Why does trauma affect us so differently? How do we define it—and more importantly, how do we begin to heal from it? Together, they explore what trauma really is, why it so often leads to disconnection, and how healing starts with restoring connection to ourselves, to ot...

Is self-care just trendy pop psychology—or is it deeply biblical? In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen & Georgia have an honest & insightful conversation on what rest really means in a world running on burnout. They unpack the overlap between theology and therapy, explore the spiritual depth of Sabbath, and redefine self-care as sacred connection—with God, self, others, and creation....

In this episode, Ellen and Georgia dive deep into the reality of living "Out of Eden." Why do we feel grief, homesickness, or a sense that we were made for something more? How does brokenness show up in our lives in both big and small ways? Together, they explore the ache that comes from living in a fallen world and how connecting with God becomes the only true solace in that ache. From...

Welcome back to Hearts and Above! In today’s episode, Georgia and Ellen are opening up about something we all wrestle with at some point: refinement. What does it really mean to grow in your faith? And why does it sometimes feel like you're stuck, or not growing at all? From honest stories (including newbie gains at the gym!) to deep reflections on the subtlety of spiritual transformation, we’...

In this Threads from the Couch episode of the Heart Set Above podcast, host Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, reflects on a moving session with a client burdened by her daughter's spiritual distance. As they unpacked grief and fear, one truth emerged: God does some of His best work in the mess. Drawing from personal experience, Scripture, and the stories of Hosea, David, and Paul, Ellen reminds us that even w...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen and Georgia peel back the layers of what it really means to be a therapist—and a client—in today’s culture. They explore the nuanced intersection of faith and mental health, from their own journeys into the profession to the growing perception of therapists as the “priests of the day.” With warmth and wisdom, they tackle questions like: Should you go to th...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, shares a deeply personal journey through parenting a child recently diagnosed with autism—and the hidden emotional toll of judgment, especially from those closest to us. From fears about the future to the quiet pain of perceived criticism, Ellen opens up about how even well-meaning opinions can build walls that last for decades. This episod...

Ellen and Georgia welcome Amber Carroll, a speaker, mom, and missionary consultant with Equip, for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation on navigating LGBTQ+ topics within Christian families and churches. Amber shares her deeply personal journey—beginning with her marriage to a gay man and continuing through her work equipping churches to embrace LGBTQ+ individuals without compromising traditio...

“Forgiveness is a journey, not a light switch.” In this powerful episode of Heart Set Above, your hosts Ellen and Georgia dig into the real, raw, and often painful emotions surrounding forgiveness — especially the kind taught from the pulpit. Ever felt like forgiveness sermons just make you feel like a failure? That if you still remember, still feel hurt, or haven't reconciled immediately... t...

In this deeply personal episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen, LMFT, & Georgia open up for the very first time about her spiritual journey — not from the stage, but from the soul. From growing up in a loving yet complex Christian home, to grappling with identity, emotional enmeshment, and a season of deep loneliness, Ellen shares how her search for love and worth ultimately led her back to the God...

Do you ever feel like you're falling behind in life, like there’s just too much to learn and not enough time? In this heartfelt episode of the Heart Set Above Podcast, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, opens up about the anxiety of information overload—especially as a parent navigating her son’s autism diagnosis—and the spiritual and emotional burnout that can come from constantly trying to keep up. Ellen exp...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Host, Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explores the profound pain of being misunderstood—something we all experience, yet rarely pause to examine. Drawing from her own life as an introvert, therapist, and mother of an autistic child, Ellen unpacks how misunderstanding shapes relationships, fuels conflict, and exposes our deep longing to be known. She also reflects on God's...

In this of Heart Set Above, Ellen & Georgia explore the lost spiritual discipline of silence and solitude—how it can help us slow down, hear God's voice, and truly connect with Him in the midst of our fast-paced, modern lives. We dive into personal stories, practical tips, and reflections on how Jesus himself withdrew to lonely places to be with God. How do we build intimacy with God beyon...

In this heartfelt episode of Heart Set Above , Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explores a deep and painful reality that many parents face—the heartbreak of watching a child walk a different spiritual path. Through the story of a grieving parent, Ellen offers wisdom, encouragement, and seven powerful prayers for those struggling with uncertainty, fear, and longing. From surrendering control to trusting God’s...

In part two of our conversation with Matina Montes, we dive even deeper into the complexities of faith formation and family dynamics. Matina introduces us to schema assessments , a powerful tool that uncovers generational patterns and helps families navigate hurt, connection, and spiritual growth. We explore why some children walk away from faith, how parents can foster healing and resilience , an...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen and Georgia welcome special guest Matina Montes, a seasoned expert in spiritual formation, to explore the profound journey of raising children in faith. Matina shares invaluable insights from her studies and research, including the key stages of faith development, the role of authoritative parenting, and how to create a spiritual sanctuary at home. Togethe...

In this episode of Heart Set Above, Ellen & Georgia dive deep into what it truly means to have a heart set above—one that is fully focused on God amidst life's distractions. What does Scripture say about aligning our thoughts, desires, and actions with heavenly priorities? How can we cultivate a mindset that keeps us grounded in faith while navigating the challenges of daily life? Key Takeaway...

Why do we feel a deep, unshakable longing for something more—something just beyond our grasp? Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, explore the ancient ache of being separated from Eden, the place of perfect communion with God, creation, and one another. We’ll unpack the spiritual, emotional, and even physical ways this separation manifests in our daily lives, from our restless search for meaning to the deep year...

Fear is something we all experience, but have you ever wondered why God tells us not to fear? Ellen Radcliff, LMFT, unpacks the deeper meaning behind this command and explores how faith can replace fear in our daily lives. Through biblical insights and personal reflections, she reveals the powerful truth about trusting God in uncertain times. Tune in for an encouraging conversation that will stren...

In this episode Ellen & Georgia discuss why they started the Heart Set Above Podcast and what listeners can expect to gain from joining this faithful community. -- Connect with Ellen https://heartsetabove.com/ https://linktr.ee/ellenradcliff

Welcome to the Heart Set Above Podcast with Ellen & Georgia The podcast where faith and therapy intersect. Designed for Christian therapists, counselors, and the "every man/ woman. This show explores the sacred calling of guiding others toward healing while staying rooted in biblical truth. We're excited to have you join us! -- Connect with Ellen https://heartsetabove.com/ https://linktr.ee/el...