Healing with WORTH

Healing from Betrayal: Understanding and Managing ResentmentIn this episode of 'Healing With Worth,' hosts Naomi and Marquelle dive deep into the complex emotion of resentment that often accompanies betrayal trauma. They discuss how resentment is intertwined with grief, pain, and a sense of powerlessness. The hosts emphasize the importance of acknowledging and validating these feelings, as...

Navigating Betrayal Trauma: Essentials of Boundaries and IntimacyIn this episode of Healing With Worth, host Marquelle, along with guest Maurice Harker, founder of the Worth Program, delve into the intricate aspects of boundaries and intimacy in the recovery from betrayal trauma. They explore the concept of the intimacy pyramid, emphasizing the importance of creating safety and setting boundaries...

Emotional Differentiation and Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss emotional differentiation in relationships, particularly in the context of betrayal trauma. They share personal experiences and strategies for managing one’s own emotions without taking on a partner’s negative emotions. The hosts emphasize the importance of grou...

Rediscovering Yourself After Betrayal: Part 2In this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle continue their discussion on rediscovering yourself after betrayal trauma. They emphasize the importance of trust in oneself and in Christ, noting that the healing process takes time and effort. The hosts share their personal stories, tools, and strategies to navigate and recover from trau...

Rediscovering Yourself After Betrayal TraumaIn this episode of 'Healing With Worth', hosts Naomi and Marquelle delve into the journey of self-discovery following betrayal trauma. They discuss the emotional impact of Discovery Day (D-Day) and the stages of healing, including dealing with initial shock, overcoming collapse freeze, and gradually reconnecting with activities that bring joy. Th...

The Crucial Role of Self-Care in Healing from Betrayal TraumaIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss the importance of self-care for women dealing with betrayal trauma. They address the common struggle women face in feeling guilty about taking time for themselves, emphasizing that self-care is not selfish but essential for overall well-being. They share personal ex...

Navigating Post-Divorce Family Dynamics with Laura AllingerIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle continue their conversation with guest Laura Ollinger, exploring the complexities of family relationships post-divorce. Laura shares practical advice on dealing with ex-partners who exhibit narcissistic tendencies or engage in manipulative behavior, particularly when it impac...

Navigating Family Transitions with Laura Allinger - Part 1In this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle welcome Laura Ollinger, a teen and parent wellbeing coach, to discuss the challenges of navigating separation and divorce when children are involved. Laura shares her insights from both professional and personal perspectives, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, main...

The Journey of Forgiveness: Navigating Betrayal and Healing with Christ's AtonementIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Marquelle and Naomi delve into the complex and often challenging subject of forgiveness, particularly in the context of betrayal trauma. They discuss insights from the book 'The Promise of the Atonement Cure for Broken Dreams' by Esther Rasband, and share pers...

Finding Hope and Healing in the Face of Betrayal TraumaIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle address the topic of hopelessness, especially during tough times. They emphasize the importance of self-care, positive affirmations, and setting boundaries to regain confidence and self-esteem. They discuss practical steps like going outside, connecting with nature, and seeking s...

Navigating Divorce and Recovery: Insights and Support for WomenIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss the difficult topic of divorce. They are joined by guest Heidi Davies, who shares her personal experience with divorce after a 17-year marriage marked by her ex-husband’s worsening pornography addiction and emotional abuse. The conversation also covers the emotion...

Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal Trauma: Key Steps and BoundariesThis episode of the 'Healing With Worth' podcast, hosted by Naomi and Marquelle, explores the complex process of rebuilding trust in a relationship after betrayal trauma. They emphasize the importance of first restoring self-trust, then gradually rebuilding relationship trust through consistent, accountable, and emotionally ma...

Overcoming Roadblocks in Betrayal Trauma RecoveryIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss some common obstacles faced during the healing and recovery process from betrayal trauma. They emphasize the importance of self-work, the challenges women face in early recovery, and the value of support groups. They also touch on the detrimental effects of rushing forgiveness...

Building Self-Trust After Betrayal TraumaIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Markel discuss the important topic of trust in the context of betrayal trauma recovery. They emphasize the need to rebuild self-trust first before working on trusting a partner again. The hosts share personal experiences and practical tips on recognizing and honoring one's emotions, as well as the i...

The Betrayal Trauma Summit: Empowering You to HealMarquelle announces the launch of the Betrayal Trauma Summit on March 24th, highlighting an impressive lineup of speakers and topics aimed at addressing the needs of individuals facing betrayal trauma. Key sessions include discussions on establishing a foundation, creating identity statements, aligning with spiritual values, understanding and navig...

Navigating Divorce and Forgiveness in Betrayal Trauma RecoveryIn this episode of Healing with Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss the complex topics of divorce and forgiveness in the context of betrayal trauma. They offer insights into the emotional hurdles faced by women contemplating or undergoing divorce, emphasizing the process of grief, forgiveness, and boundary-setting. Highlighting a f...

Creating Safety and Boundaries in Relationships Amid Mental Health Challenges In this episode of Healing with Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss the challenges of dealing with spouses who have mental health issues and addictions. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining safety in relationships, regardless of a spouse's diagnosis. The hosts provide insights into...

A Bittersweet Farewell and Moving Forward with Courage In this episode of Healing with Worth, hosts Janeen and Naomi announce Janeen's departure from the podcast as she reaches a new stage in her recovery. They introduce the new co-host, Marquelle, and discuss key takeaways from their journey, including the importance of self-compassion, courage, and community support in healing from betrayal...

Understanding Functional Freeze in Betrayal Trauma In this episode of 'Healing with Worth,' hosts Janine and Naomi are joined by special guest Natasha to explore the concept of 'functional freeze' as it relates to betrayal trauma. They discuss how the term resonates with personal experiences, share insights from various articles, and delve into the physical, cognitive, and emotional effects of thi...

Natasha’s Journey: Love, Boundaries, and Betrayal Trauma In this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Janine and Naomi continue their conversation with Natasha, who shares the remainder of her personal story and discusses the power mantra that helped her through betrayal trauma. Natasha explains her approach to dealing with her husband's addiction and adopting a mantra to set clear boundaries and...

In this episode of 'Healing with Worth,' hosts Janine and Naomi introduce Natasha, a licensed marriage and family therapist who shares her journey through betrayal trauma and recovery. Natasha discusses the inadequacy of conventional marriage counseling for dealing with issues like addiction and affair repair, and emphasizes the importance of specialized training. She also introduces her power man...

In this episode of Healing with Worth, hosts Janine and Naomi discuss essential self-care practices during the holidays, a period that can be particularly stressful. They emphasize the basics of nutrition, hydration, and sleep, and offer advanced self-care tips such as spending time in nature, listening to music, and engaging in creative activities. They also highlight the importance of setting bo...

In this episode of Healing with Worth, hosts Janine and Naomi discuss the challenges and importance of setting boundaries during the holiday season. They highlight the intersection of boundaries and self-care, providing practical advice for women dealing with betrayal trauma. The podcast emphasizes the need for intentional planning to maintain mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual safety, and...

Navigating Divorce: Expert Advice from Debra Doak In this episode of Healing with Worth, host Janine and Naomi are joined by Debra Doak, a certified divorce coach, financial analyst, mediator, and pastoral counselor. Debra shares her journey in helping women through divorce, discussing common mistakes, the importance of planning, and the benefits of mediation. She emphasizes the need for proper in...

In this episode of 'Healing with Worth,' hosts Janine and Naomi welcome Laura Fisher, a therapist in training in marriage and family therapy. Laura shares her extensive background and the various certifications that qualify her to speak on betrayal trauma recovery. The conversation primarily focuses on the process and importance of full therapeutic disclosure in relationships affected by betrayal....