Healing the Broken Marriage with Brian and Elisha Magill

How normal is your marriage?  Is that a marriage without conflict or maybe a low level of conflict?  Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha talk about the mindset of “normal marriages” and how that remark can represent a point of comparison that isn’t very helpful.  Brian and Elisha share how a “normal marriage” is a marriage WITH conflict, NOT without, but ultimately how to resolve...

Do you have issues with intimacy? Or maybe you are no longer communicating like you used to.  If you are lacking in these areas…we can help! Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha talk about the 3 important areas in your marriage or relationships: intimacy, commitment and communication.  Brian and Elisha share from their own past experiences when these 3 areas were left unattended....

Are you in the midst of a bad season and feel like giving up?  Don’t….we have good news for you!  Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Elisha opens up and shares what it has looked like to walk through hard seasons and how you can change your view of that season. There is always a silver lining to everything we walk through, but it takes intentionality to find.  It might not change the season, bu...

Is it possible to move forward with forgiveness without an apology?  What if they aren’t even sorry? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha talk about how you can realistically forgive when there is no apology. This is an area that Brian and Elisha have experienced first hand and today they share how to go through the process of forgiving when the other person isn’t sorry.  Some pe...

Is it possible to affair proof your marriage?  Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha share the tools that they have learned from falling into the trap of infidelity, how to walk out of that into healing, but also how to affair proof your marriage for the future.  The pain of infidelity is intense and doesn't happen with one decision, it’s a string of compromises made over time and...

If you don’t know who you are, you will believe what others say you are. Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha share about the identity crisis they walked through during very difficult years of their lives.  Elisha shares how during horrifically difficult times in their marriage, she lost herself.  Hear about the identity restoration that God did in her heart and how she found who...

We overexposed our children to too much in our marriage and the guilt and shame was real. On today’s episode of Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha talk about the casualties of war in a broken marriage.  So many times in relationships and marriages, the children become those casualties of war in a sense.  Brian and Elisha share about their own story and how God not only redeemed their ma...

Our scars are proof that God still heals! This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha open up and share about the emotional scars they have endured throughout their lives but ultimately, how to find healing for those scars. Brian & Elisha share how holding onto situations, circumstances, thoughts, mindsets and trauma can be a result of emotional wounds, and when ignored, only fester...

God can redeem your life! This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha talk about the importance of going after healing and finding the root system if you have had a moral failure in your life. Ministry is what we do with God, not for God and if you are in ministry and have had a moral failure or maybe have stepped away from God into a lifestyle of sin, you can be redeemed, but it wi...

If you struggle with comparing your marriage or relationship to other people’s, you are not alone. This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha share about how they struggled with the game of comparison within their marriage; hear how they ultimately recognized what was happening and decided to break free from comparison which brings freedom.  Comparison is a thief; it never leaves you...

Have you ever had to make a hard decision in your relationship not everyone agreed with? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha talk about the restoration journey they walked through their marriage and how not everyone was on board with this at first.  When this happens, it can be very difficult and can even make you doubt if you are doing the right thing.  Brian and Elisha share abo...

Have you ever walked through a hard season and just spiraled out of control? This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha open up and share about the hard season’s they walked through that caused them to latch onto the emotion of anger and rage as a form of control, stability and justification. Elisha shares how she grabbed onto a wrong tool of anger as a form of control, how the anger...

God does want to heal and restore everything in your life that has been broken.  Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha bring to the conversation, Jennifer Eivaz.  Jennifer is a Minister, Best-Selling Author, and International Conference speaker with a heart to equip the church in the supernatural and for raising up passionate and effective prayer. Tune in as Elisha and Jennifer di...

What are you not dealing with? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha talk about why unresolved issues or trauma don’t just go away on their own.  Brian and Elisha share about their own experiences with unresolved trauma and the tools they had to use to get to the root of the issue to find freedom and a better quality of life. Unresolved trauma doesn't just go away on its own, whethe...

This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha have on Christa Smith. Christa is an Author and ministers all over the world alongside her husband, Sean Smith.  Christa’s passion for the Lord pours out of her as she delivers what she hears the Lord say with accuracy, humor and Holy Spirit power. Tune in as Elisha & Christa discuss how she walked through nearly 20 years of singleness befor...

Whether you were the one who hurt someone or you’ve been the one hurt, reversing a hurt and rebuilding trust can take time.  Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha share a story of how trust had been broken and the deliberate work it took to rebuild that trust.  If you have been hurt by someone, everything can feel unsafe and unsure.  We all have or will do something in the future...

Are you struggling to trust? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha bring on Licensed Therapist, Madi Stonier to the conversation. Madi is a Licensed Therapist, President of One Life Counseling, and President of Healing Center SD Inc. Madi is a certified EMDR therapist; Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist; and trained in Restoration Therapy. Her experience and training is in trauma...

Can you forgive someone without trusting them? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha share what rebuilding trust after infidelity has looked like in their marriage and how forgiveness and trust are not the same thing. Elisha and Brian share the misconceptions they believed about forgiveness but ultimately how to forgive while rebuilding trust again. Trust is not the same as forgiv...

Unresolved issues are just that, unresolved.  Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha open up and share their process of confronting their past they thought was resolved, only to find out…it wasn’t.  Elisha shares vulnerably her process of dealing with unresolved hurts that had been hidden under the surface and the grace and patience you need to give yourself when this happens.  Life...

One encounter with Jesus can change your whole life! Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha share about the amazing encounter Elisha had with Jesus when He walked into her bedroom.  Elisha shares vulnerability about that encounter, what Jesus did to her heart in that encounter and what transpired after.  Jesus cares so much about the condition of your heart.  He wants to heal you a...

What do you do when the pain from healing feels too great? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha talk about what to do when you are faced with tremendous pain from a hurt or betrayal. Elisha shares vulnerably what it looked like when trouble came to either house, met them at the door and challenged them in ways they never could have imagined. When this happens, do you throw it all...

What do you do when everything around you seems to be falling apart? Do you still believe? Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian and Elisha share about their redemption story and how God even used a divorce filing to bring restoration.  Sometimes the thing you are praying and believing for may not look good or may even look opposite of your prayers. But, what if God is right in the midst of...

You are not what happened to you! Today on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha bring in Identity Specialist Ray Leight to the conversation.  Ray is an Author, Speaker, Teacher, Identity Coach and Healer.  Along with 1-on-1 coaching, teaching and training, Ray has developed the Identity Restoration process that helps you transition from anywhere you are stuck back into a Kingdom Lifestyle o...

Are you feeling helpless to overcome what triggers you?  This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Elisha brings in Dr. Ally Butrous, Doctor of Psychology to the conversation.  Dr. Ally has worked as a Mentor, Author, Coach and Counselor helping individuals and groups thrive beyond the obstacles in their lives. Tune in as Elisha & Dr. Ally discusses why so many of us experience triggers, the deep...

Are you triggered by the word trigger? This week on Healing the Broken Marriage, Brian & Elisha share about how they had to face triggers in their own marriage after the restoration process had begun.  Feeling triggered isn't about someone rubbing you the wrong way, triggers are mirrors to unresolved trauma buried deep within.  This week, Brian and Elisha walk us through how they overcame triggers...