Harmonious Gentlemen

In this episode, the Gents revisit a topic they happen to know a bit about. They start the conversation by addressing public perception of teachers and the comments they hear regularly about their chosen field of work. From there the chat meanders... from busting myths and defending the profession, to critical self-reflection and questioning career choices. Is public education broken? What's the s...

It's the start of a new season (whatever that means), and the Gents are fired up and ready to go. In this episode they address the idea of awkwardness and why they avoid certain topics. They identify the inconsistencies in how they talk on and off the podcast, and wrestle with their fears of being cancelled. Considering who they are, should they tiptoe around hot issues? Or is it important to mode...

Recorded way back in July, this episode is a response to what seems like the rise of nationalism. Don't know what that means? Well, the gents barely do either, but they aren't afraid to talk about it. They discuss the differences between patriotism, nationalism, and national pride, and attempt to tackle a number of tough questions: Is Nationalism bad? What are the different types of Nationalism? I...

In this episode, the gents explore the depths of their favourite cults. How and why would someone join a cult? Is the phrase, "healthy cult" an oxymoron? Who is likely to be recruited for cult life? How do we protect ourselves and our loved ones from cults? The conversation flows like a crisp Blindman Five of Diamonds pilsner, and you'll finish the episode feeling filled-up like after a delicious...

In this episode, the Gents are joined by the wonderful and brilliant Anita Veldhuisen Slomp. With humility, curiosity, and expertise, she shares stories of life as a mediator and conflict resolution professional. She provides tips for preventing future podcast disharmony and strategies for becoming better mediators of conflict in our everyday lives. Thanks to Blindman Brewery for hosting the episo...

We love jujubes, well-fitted underwear, and mowing the lawn. We love Seinfeld, full moons, and the smell of spring. We love our families, each other, and you! In this episode, we serve up a steamy plate of love stew. Crafted with care with only the finest ingredients: vulnerability, acceptance, and time. We love love, but why do we find it so hard to share it with certain people? Should we be bett...

How can it be that the Harmonious Gents are so filled with hate? In Episode 69, they embrace the forbidden feelings we've been told not to have. They talk about what they hate, what they REALLY hate, and whether or not it's okay to hate other humans or be hated by other humans. Is hatred compatible with harmony? Check this one out. We hope you don't hate it. . The harmonious conversations on this...

Peter joins the Gents on Episode 68 for a heartfelt conversation about doubt and how it plays a role in their lives. Are the concepts of doubt and faith in opposition to each other? Are they exclusively relevant to religion? Has your understanding of doubt changed over time? Is doubt a sign of weakness or strength? What's your biggest doubt when it comes to your faith? Who has the winning doubt ac...

In this episode, the Gents define conspiracy theories, discuss the ramifications of being conned, and come clean about misinformation they've fallen for in the past. In today's society, it feels like you need to take a position on each and every issue, but is this true? Is it possible to simply not have an opinion? How do you have a harmonious conversation with someone whose opinion seems ridiculo...

In this one, the gents are joined by author, CEO, researcher, master storyteller, and empathy activist, Rob Volpe! Did you know that we are currently experiencing an "Empathy Crisis"? Considering the state of society, it's not surprising. Thankfully, Rob has some ideas about how to solve the empathy crisis, one conversation at a time! . Check out Rob's book: "Tell Me More About That: Solving the E...

War is devastatingly awful. War is inexplicably terrible. War is about the furthest thing from harmony we can think of. But is war justified? In this episode, the Gents chat a bit about Russia's invasion of Ukraine and try to look at the ideas of violence, conflict, war, and even pacifism from a few different perspectives. Thanks again to Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive for fuelling the co...

In this episode, the gents are joined by special guest, Codi Kreil. With Codi leading the charge, they tackle the topics of sex, purity culture, shame, and post-church trauma. Sharing personal stories and reflections on harm done by well-meaning church traditions, the crew dives into what healing might look like and how church and religion might do better moving forward. These are, of course, diff...

In this episode, the Gents are joined by bestselling author, speaker, and counsellor, Shannon Moroney. She shares her own story of resilience, helps redefine forgiveness, and pushes the Gents to their vulnerable limits by helping them practice good apologies. This is an episode you don't want to miss! . Learn more about Shannon and order her new book, "Heal for Real: A Guided Journal to Forgiving...

Rather than tackling one big question, the gents opt for an episode of vignettes: short conversations focused on various topics. With Peter along for the ride, they ask each other questions ranging from how you might change the face of history to which bear is best, and from how rich is too rich to seeing through the BS of critics. It's different, it's harmonious, and it's worth a listen! This is...

In Episode 61, the Gents discuss a hypothetical shift in direction for the Podcast. Should we be canceling or un-cancelling others? What is forgiveness really? Does everyone deserve a second chance? All they really know is that it's complicated, and worth talking about! Plus: Graham gets punished, Chris shares a grace-filled experience, and Tyler likes revenge. This is a public episode. If you wou...

In the first episode of a new year, the Gents discuss the surprising complexities of personal fitness. Why is it so difficult? Where does the pressure come from? What is the true motivation? How vain are you, really? Go ahead and alter your New Year's Resolution to include listening to this episode! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to...

Merry Christmas! In the spirit of the season, the Gents decided to gift a special episode. 2021 was a big year for the podcast, with lots of memorable episodes and the introduction of numerous special guests. Pour yourself an eggnog or a special brew from Blindman Brewing, and join the Gents as they reflect on the year that was. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with othe...

Amazon delivery drivers are working overtime, fans for inflatable Snoopy displays are blaring, and Mariah Carey's classic Christmas song is playing on repeat. Candy is stuck in your molars, children are begging for Hot Wheels, families are attempting to overlook political differences, and, oh yeah, the coming of Christ. In this episode, the Gents consider the Grinch as a true hero and attempt to f...

In this episode, the Gents are joined by Dr. Melanie Humphreys for a pint and a conversation at Blindman Brewery. As the President of The King's University she provides a unique perspective on inclusion, belonging, privilege, and Christian secondary education. Listen in as she discusses admitting former Guantanamo Bay detainee, Omar Khadr as a student, participating in the Truth & Reconciliation C...

Peter joins the Gents for a casual conversation about Epistemological Frameworks. Don't worry, they didn't know what that meant either. Over a couple refreshing Blindman Brewing Session Ales, they chatted (fairly) harmoniously about the differences between fact, belief, and opinion; recommended (thanks to Cilantro and Chive) some local spots, entertainment options, and life-enhancing habits; and e...

In this episode, the Gents are joined by the legendary Robin Pawlak. He shares stories and insight from his years of teaching and, more recently, his adventures (and misadventures) as an author. They dive into the creative process and discuss the importance of character arcs in not only writing, but real life as well. Check out "Space Cadets" and learn more at robinpawlak.com . This is a public ep...

In this episode the Gents tackle the ever-present elephant in the room. How do we remain Harmonious during the fourth wave of Covid? It's an episode about the things we hate talking about, but can't seem to stop talking about. Vaccinations... Individual rights and freedoms... Public health crises... Echo chambers... Conspiracy theories... Is it even possible to speak on these topics without gettin...

In this episode, the Gents are joined by Homeboy Sandman of Stones Throw Records and Mello Music Group. The NYC rapper shares stories of growing up hip-hop, rhyming with honesty, and creating art harmoniously. It's a banger. Plus: A true story about a failed freestyle by one of the gents and a confession of turtle plagiarism. Check out Homeboy Sandman's new EP Anjelitu on Bandcamp or wherever you...

In Episode 52, the Gents discuss their hopes and apprehensions about the upcoming Federal Election over eggs and bacon from Phil's. They won't tell you exactly who to vote for, but they'll get you thinking about the possibilities for harmonious voting, democracy, and political conversations . Thanks to Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive for supporting this episode. This is a public episode. I...

In this episode, the gents are joined by Olympian and silver medallist, Rebecca Smith. They chat about the challenges and opportunities that come with doing what you love at the highest possible level, and discuss the Olympic experience. This episode is supported by Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get ac...