Happily Ever After by Martin & Debbie Raj

Send us Fan Mail Are you waiting on God to bring the right person into your life? 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️ Here’s the truth: waiting doesn't mean doing nothing! It really means to wait on God's timing — with purpose. 💥 Instead of sitting around hoping for the right person to magically appear, this is your time to GROW 🌱 — mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and even socially. Whether you're sin...

Send us Fan Mail Join this podcast to hear our honest thoughts, real-life experiences, and a few laughs along the way as we share how we see faith shaping our family and future. ✨ Hit play—you won’t want to miss it! Want to level up your relationship game? Let’s chat 1:1 and start building those healthy, strong connections! 💬❤️ And hey—want to bring these messages to your city/community? Invite...

Send us Fan Mail In this candid and vulnerable episode, we open up about sex in marriage—an often avoided but essential topic. We share our honest expectations going into marriage and whether reality matched them. Not just that but we also share many other factors related with it. Whether you're single, engaged, or married, this real talk about sex, love, and vulnerability in marriage offers...

Send us Fan Mail 🎙️ "Are We Equally Yoked?" What religion do we belong to? Does religion matter when it comes to relationships and marriage? The Bible says to be equally yoked—but does that apply here too? 🤔💬 In this episode, we’re opening up about the decisions we made regarding our religious beliefs, what “equally yoked” means to us, and how we’re navigating faith in our relationship...

Send us Fan Mail One of the biggest questions we get is: “How do I know who the right one is?” It’s not like the movies—no dramatic music, no magical light, and definitely no falling flowers! 😂 In this episode, we share our personal journey—how we met, how God led us, and what we’ve learned about recognizing His hand in relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or just wondering what to...

Send us Fan Mail There’s always some kind of intruder that tries to sneak into marriages—sometimes it’s people, but other times it’s subtle things we might not even notice. In this episode, we share what we've seen creep into relationships and challenge the health of a marriage. But what about you? Are there other things that have tried to sneak into your marriage? What could they be? Listen...

Send us Fan Mail Before our wedding, we had dreams, fears, and big expectations—did reality match up? In this episode, we get real about our pre-wedding thoughts, the excitement, and the worries we faced. Did marriage meet our expectations, or were we surprised? Join us as we openly share our hearts, the lessons we’ve learned, and how our relationship has grown. Watch now! #MarriageJourney #Before...

Send us Fan Mail Getting married these days is one of the most significant investments in life. Some choose to invest in a fancy wedding, while others prioritize meaningful connections—or a mix of both. In this episode, we share our wedding experience, what mattered most to us, and where we chose to invest our time, energy, and budget. 🎧 Listen now and join the conversation! 🔔 Don’t forget to li...

Send us Fan Mail One of the most common questions people ask is whether arranged marriage still exists in India and what I (Martin) think about it. Some have even asked if we had an arranged marriage according to Indian tradition or a love marriage according to Western tradition. In this episode, we answer all those questions and more. 🎧 Listen now and join the conversation! 🔔 Don’t forget to li...

Send us Fan Mail One of the most common questions people ask is whether arranged marriage still exists in India and what I (Martin) think about it. Some have even asked if we had an arranged marriage according to Indian tradition or a love marriage according to Western tradition. In this episode, we answer all those questions and more. 🎧 Listen now and join the conversation! 🔔 Don’t forget to li...

Send us Fan Mail Racism isn’t confined to one place or one group—it exists in every corner of the world, even within the same race. Society has shown us the harsh realities of division from Africa to India to Korea and beyond. But the real question is: how do we raise our children in a world where racism still lingers, even though none of us choose the race we are born into? In this episode, we ta...

Send us Fan Mail Raising children has been a major topic in our relationship from the very beginning—and it still is after marriage. In this episode, we share our initial feelings on having kids and how we see it right now, what people have counseled us regarding children, and much more.  We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share your perspective in the comments or connect with us on social media. 🎧...

Send us Fan Mail Even though we grew up on different continents and in different cultures, what truly shaped our lives were our family values, personal choices, and surrounding influences. In this episode, we get real about how these factors impacted our views on entertainment and recreation—what we embraced, what we let go of, and what we’re intentionally implementing in our own family today. 🌟...

Send us Fan Mail Public Displays of Affection: How Much is Too Much? 🤔💑 PDA means different things across cultures, families, and even relationships—some embrace it, while others avoid it completely. In this episode, we dive into our first impressions of each other, whether our assumptions were accurate, and how comfortable we really are with public affection. Are you team kiss-publicly or keep-...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Our Interracial Marriage, we talk about the ways of communication in our cultures. We share how we had misunderstandings because of our preconceived ideas, fear and how we came to understand each other through it all.  🔹 Overcoming cultural misunderstandings 🔹 Better understanding for conflict resolution 🔹 Strengthening emotional intimacy Tune in now for an h...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Our Interracial Marriage, we talk about the fascinating world of languages in our relationship. We share the languages we grew up speaking, how our multilingual backgrounds impact our communication, and the beautiful (and sometimes challenging) journey of blending our linguistic worlds. Plus, we discuss the languages we want to pass down to our children and why...

Send us Fan Mail Growing up in different countries and cultures has given us unique stories to share. From eating with our hands to enjoying spicy dishes, trying Asian cuisine, and debating sweet versus savory breakfasts, we’ve experienced a lot. Join us on this journey as we share personal moments, foodie adventures, and how cultures have shaped our life at home. Let’s talk, laugh, and connect! W...

Send us Fan Mail There are unique experiences and expectations that come with being in an interracial marriage. From country and state culture to community and family traditions, culture plays a significant role in shaping our journey. We took a heartfelt trip down memory lane to reflect on our journey. It's a fun, honest, and relatable conversation about love, growth, and embracing cultural...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage is a journey you shape together, and one of the best ways to keep it vibrant is by adding a little fun along the way. In this episode of Happily Ever After, we share practical ideas and personal stories about how doing fun activities together has strengthened our bond. From intentional date nights to spontaneous adventures, we have explored ways to bring laughter and joy...

Send us Fan Mail Money plays a significant role in every stage of life—whether you're single or married. It has the power to be a blessing that strengthens relationships or a curse that causes division. In this video, we open up about our personal experiences with finances, starting from childhood. We reflect on how our upbringing shaped our views on money and the impact it has on our adult l...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like you can’t say “no” to others without fear of rejection or conflict? Have you ever been ignored, ridiculed, or even avoided after giving an honest “no”? This is because boundaries reveal the true nature of those around us—they help us identify who is safe and who may not have our best interests at heart. In this video, we share our personal experiences with se...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we continue to share our experiences navigating family dynamics in marriage. Life shifts in significant ways—from living with your parents to having your own space and then transitioning to sharing that space with your spouse. These changes can be exciting, but they also come with their own challenges. We are happy to share our personal experiences within our family. #M...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we share our experiences on navigating family dynamics in marriage. Life shifts in significant ways—from living with your parents to having your own space and then transitioning to sharing that space with your spouse. These changes can be exciting, but they also come with their challenges. #HappilyEverAfterPodcast #AboutUs #OurStory #RelationshipJourney #ChristCenteredL...

Send us Fan Mail We always have some expectations before marriage. Some may become a reality, and many don't. In this episode, we discuss our expectations and whether reality met them or not. #MarriageExpectations #RelationshipReality #HealthyRelationships #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipCoaching #FaithAndMarriage #ChristCenteredLove #MarriageJourney #LoveAndGrowth #RelationshipGrowth #HappilyEv...

Send us Fan Mail If we could go back to our single days, what are three things we wish we knew? In this episode of Happily Ever After, we're sharing them with you. What’s something we assumed incorrectly? What’s a common piece of advice that turns out to be a myth? We'll dive into some of our personal experiences. Whether you're single, wondering what's next, or just feeling st...