Hanging Out In My Closet

Does success for you mean success for me, or vice versa? We often hear this word thrown around, but what does it actually mean. Let's delve into how we define the idea of sucess for ourselves and for each other. 

There is a lot of power in words. They can affect our outlook and overall experience. Let's talk about the power of words and how we utilize words. How we accept and receive words. How we determine what we do with words we accept. Come hang out in my closet. 

When we look back at our lives and think about our younger self's expectations of what our own lives would be in the future, how do we measure up? There's a reason why people often say hindsight is 20/20. Let's explore hindsight together, friends.  

Can we live a harmless life? The Dalai Lama says, "Our prime purpose in this life is to help others and if you can't help them at least don't harm them." But is it possible? Can we live in a way that does not cause harm? Check out the episode and let me know what you think. Can't wait to hear from you!

When we hang on to bitterness and anger, and all those things that people have done to us or not done to us, all it does is impact our lives. Do you really think those that have done wrong by you are standing around being remorseful about what they did to you? Let's talk about forgiveness today. 

I cannot tell you how many times I have been so wrong in assuming I understood people's motivation for doing what they did, when the reality is I had no idea. Let's talk about making mistakes and being wrong. How do we deal with it?  

Have you experienced the sense of freedom that comes with people knowing who you truly are? On this episode I want us to talk about vulnerability. Why do we avoid it and how could it help us truly acheieve our purpose - for ourserlves and others. 

Since we are getting to know each other, let us talk about our purpose. Mine is healing. I want to spend some time telling you about how I came to that realization, and to share with you how you too can better understand what you are here to do and meant to do. 

Growing up as a gay, black, Puerto Rican with black parents, in Puerto Rico, was a pretty amazing experience. It helped to set the foundation on my outlook on life, and has left me with some of the most wonderful memories of that time. Allow me to share some of my experience.

My mother was such an inspiration in my life. Every week when we spoke on the phone she would close our conveersations by asking me the same question: are you flowing with the river? These are a few of the most important lessons from my mother.