Grace & Truth Talks

In this episode of Grace & Truth, Pastor James sits down with three single men for an honest and unfiltered conversation about singleness, dating, commitment, and relationships in today’s culture. With statistics showing that there are significantly more single women than single men in the church, the conversation dives into some tough questions:   Why are so many men still single?   Do men de...

In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth Talks, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffaney dive deep into the biblical roles of men and women, leadership in relationships, and the importance of spiritual submission to God. What does it really mean for a man to lead his household? What does biblical submission actually look like? And how do you build a relationship that is rooted in purpose, vision, and...

In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffany continue their conversation on the core values that sustain a healthy marriage and relationship. Real intimacy, trust, and covenant are built on principles that go far deeper than feelings—and today they unpack three essential values that every relationship must have in order to grow and last.       They discuss why put...

Are you trying to make your relationship work… or are you building it to last? In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth Talks, Pastor James and Tiffaney unpack the difference between working for a relationship and becoming the person God designed you to be within it. What does it really mean to: “Become one” in marriage? Stop striving and start flowing? Build core values that protect your rel...

We’re back. The conversation got so good in Part One… we had to keep the tape rolling. In this episode of Grace & Truth Talks, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffany unpack the real reasons why people struggle to change — even when they say they want better. We’re talking about: Rebellion Pride Ignorance Laziness Fear And the bonus roadblock… Regret   Why do we stay stuck? Why do we sabotage growth?...

We often ask for growth, but are we willing to pay the price for it? The scariest thing about moving forward isn't the work itself—it's the fear of the unknown. When we don't have a clear picture of what’s ahead, we tend to run back to the toxic "comfort" of what we know. In this episode, we explore the internal roadblocks that keep us stuck in old cycles. We dive deep into why your desire for con...

We’ve been taught how to be wives and how to be mothers… but were we ever taught how to be friends? In this Grace & Truth conversation, Pastor Tiffaney and her guests expose the silent competition that destroys women’s circles, from the “eye” we give each other when we walk in the room, to friendships that stay “neutral” when you’re the one hurting. This is real sisterhood and real conversatio...

What happens when you think you missed God’s moment, but heaven says you didn’t? In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth, Pastor James and Tiffaney unpack the truth about God’s timing, Kairos moments, and the seasons we wish we would have known more back then. From missed opportunities to divine delays, this conversation brings clarity, healing, and hope for anyone questioning where they are...

A lot of people talk about “submission” like it’s control, silence, or hierarchy. This conversation clears it up with Bible, wisdom, and real-life counsel. Pastor Michael Willard joins Pastor James and Pastor Tiffaney for a needed talk on biblical leadership in love, what submission actually means, why courtship should reveal seasons, and how to think about divorce with wisdom and boundaries, not...

Can men and women really be friends? Where do boundaries begin, and where do they cross the line? In this powerful and honest episode of Grace & Truth Talks, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffaney lead a timely conversation on friendship, accountability, boundaries, and emotional intimacy, especially between men and women. Joined by special guests, including Dr. Jermaine Nelson and producer Carin, t...

What happens when friendships change, loyalty is tested, and seasons come to an end? In this powerful Grace & Truth conversation, we unpack the complexities of friendships, breakups, loyalty, and godly relationships, from casual connections to ride-or-die bonds. This episode explores how unity, trust, honor, and growth shape our relationships and why some people are meant for a season, not a l...

We’re living in a world that hates the wait. We want love, marriage, stability, healing, right now. But the truth is: waiting isn’t just a delay… it’s a development season. And if you don’t learn how to wait well, you’ll keep stepping into the same cycles with new faces. In this Grace & Truth episode, Pastors James and Tiffaney teach on how to wait well for love, marriage, and more and why “wa...

Are you entering the New Year feeling like you’ve missed your moment? In our final episode of the year, Pastors James and Tiffaney Edwards pull back the curtain on the "refining" process of God. Whether you are navigating a season of crushing, a sudden career transition, or a season where you feel hidden and overlooked, this episode is a necessary reset for anyone looking for clarity in their next...

Pastors James and Tiffaney pick up where the men’s panel left off and go straight into the tension behind “I want a healed man” and “I want to be led.” They unpack why “strong” can quietly turn into control, why some men confuse a woman’s help with threat, and how God’s design for order is supposed to produce safety, not competition. This episode also gets real about what emotional safety actually...

We’re living in a world where it’s easier to "cancel" a connection than it is to work through a conflict. But often, we get too weary from a year of "shedding" to see the harvest that’s actually right in front of us. Whether you’re ending the year celebrating a string of wins or you’re sitting in a "winter" season where everything feels cold and stagnant, this conversation is the roadmap for what’...

In this episode, Pastor James sits down with Terrence, Derek, and Anthony for part two of a timely conversation that sparked debate online about men, relationships, and what “growth” really means. They respond to last week’s women’s panel and the viral “teacher/go higher” moment, clarifying what got misunderstood. This is about alignment, pace, purpose, and the difference between contentment and c...

In this special year-end episode, Pastors James and Tiffaney revisit the most viral, debated and controversial moments from Grace & Truth in 2025, and give their unfiltered reactions. From submission and self-awareness to growth, dating standards, and respecting a man’s voice, they unpack the real heart behind each moment and respond to the praise and the pushback. If you’ve ever watched a cli...

In this honest and eye-opening episode, Pastor Tiffaney sits down with a panel of wise, purpose-driven women to explore what women really want in relationships, and what they need in order to feel seen, safe, and secure. From the meaning of submission to the weight of provision, this conversation goes beyond surface-level dating talk and into the real standards and expectations that shape godly re...

In this vulnerable and wide-ranging episode, Pastor James opens up about his journey from a selfish lifestyle and federal prison to discovering his true calling. He shares the hard lesson learned from a past "transactional" marriage where he tried to cover up a mistake rather than repent, leading to a quick annulment. "Ask the Pastor" panel featuring Carin, Oge, and Talonna, where they discuss the...

What do men really need to feel safe in a relationship? In this episode from Grace & Truth Talks, the conversation gets real about growth, humility, leadership, and the often-overlooked ability to submit when your partner is stronger than you in certain areas. This is a powerful and necessary discussion for anyone pursuing healthy love and purposeful partnership. The guys break down one of the...

Everybody asks women what they want in a man, but this time, the fellas got the mic. In this raw and mature Grace & Truth episode, Pastor James sat down with three single men to have an honest conversation about what marriage-minded men actually look for in a wife, beyond looks, status or social media trends. They talk humility, emotional safety, growth and how ego, pride, and timing shape the...

On this episode of Grace & Truth, we are getting real about the difference between infatuation and mature, sacrificial love. We discuss why so many of us get stuck in relationships that move in circles rather than spiraling upward, and why "potential" is the most dangerous thing to fall in love with. Pastor James and Pastor Tiff share the blueprint for spotting "fruit" in a partner—looking pas...

For the single person or the grieving heart, the holidays can feel like a minefield of memories and expectations. In this segment, we discuss why you don't have to "perform" happiness this season. Courtney Truitt, a Certified Trauma-Informed Grief Coach, joins Pastor Tiff to share actionable advice on setting holiday boundaries—including why you should always drive your own car to events so you ca...

What if "falling out of love" isn't something that happens to you? What if it's a choice? In this profound and powerful "aha" moment, Pastors James and Tiffaney expose the real reason relationships grow cold. In this video, you will discover: The powerful reframe: "Falling out of love" is actually "falling into selfishness." How silence and internalization become the biggest enemy of your relation...

In relationships, it is easy to fall in love with who someone could be, rather than who they actually are right now. But how do you tell the difference between a partner who is building a future and one who is just wasting your time? In this touching and transformative conversation, Pastor Tiffaney opens up about the early days of her relationship with Pastor James. She shares why she felt complet...