Grace in the Shadows

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it is like to be the child of a narcissist. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://thebetteryouinstitute.com/2022/05/16/children-of-a-narcissist/ https://www.narcissisticabuserehab.com/narcissistic-parents/ https://psychcentral.com/blog/recovering-narcissist/2019/05/5-common-struggles-chi...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss tactics narcissistic parents use to manipulate their adult children. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://psychcentral.com/blog/recovering-narcissist/2019/04/5-manipulation-tactics-narcissistic-parents-use-to-control-their-adult-children#7 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-legacy-d...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler continue to discuss surprises in marriage. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: Collins, G. R. (2006). Christian counseling 3rd edition - revised and updated . Nelson Reference & Electronic.  https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527 Supp...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler continue to discuss help for the narcissist. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201410/6-keys-narcissists-change-toward-the-higher-self https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D60s_zyLeu4 https://www.healthline.com/health/can-a-narcissist-change#are-th...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler continue to discuss surprises in marriage. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.mybibleteacher.net/uploads/1/2/4/6/124618875/tonyev~1.pdf 10 Signs of Toxic Marriage: What To Do in a Toxic Relationship Collins, G. R. (2006). Christian counseling 3rd edition - revised and updated . Nelson Referenc...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler how to have childlike faith. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/what-is-childlike-faith-a-bible-study/ https://www.mybibleteacher.net/uploads/1/2/4/6/124618875/tonyev~1.pdf https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss how to deal with the fear of death. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://billygraham.org/story/5-reasons-christians-dont-have-to-fear-death/ No Fear (3 of 5) Dr. James Merritt Psalm 23:4  As a Christian, you need not fear death or spiritual powers https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvatio...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss more about communication in marriage. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: Light University  Marriage Works https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527 Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss surprises in marriage. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.mybibleteacher.net/uploads/1/2/4/6/124618875/tonyev~1.pdf Collins, G. R. (2006). Christian counseling 3rd edition - revised and updated . Nelson Reference & Electronic.  https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it means to have a successful marriage and discuss more about the blame game. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: Light University "Marriage Works" course https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527 Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it means to find your identity. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/core-christian-beliefs/identity-in-christ.html Do You Know Who Your Father Is? James Merritt Romans 8:14 https://www.livescience.com/39307-jerusalem-animal-sacrifice-fo...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss narcissists and phrases to deescalate them. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/phrases-to-disarm-a-narcissist/?fbclid=IwAR0lN9nxov9yMpfiP9hLQujwhLahD_upf7UXZL95ZCtjnu4U2x5YhcOXkn8 https://psychcentral.com/disorders/how-to-talk-to-someone-with-narcissistic-tendencies...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss narcissists and how to cut them off at the knees. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/6-things-narcissists-do-when-you-leave-them/   https://queenbeeing.com/what-happens-when-you-abandon-the-narcissist/   How to Talk to a Person with Narcissism: Communica...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss suffering - what it means to suffer. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: http://www.biblicalcounselingdatabase.net/suffering/ What If It Happens to Me? The Fear of Suffering (4 of 6) Series: Fear Factor James Merritt  https://relearn.org/why-does-god-allow-evil-in-the-world/ https://www.ligonier.or...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it means to struggle with doubt. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: http://www.biblicalcounselingdatabase.net/doubt/ https://www.mybibleteacher.net/uploads/1/2/4/6/124618875/tonyev~1.pdf https://crossexamined.org/why-most-doubts-about-god-are-emotional-not-intellectual-part-i/#:~:text=These%2...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it means to have a successful marriage and how to avoid the blame game. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: Light University "Marriage Works" course https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527 Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it means to have a successful marriage. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: Light University "Marriage Works" course https://bible.org/article/gods-plan-salvation https://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527 Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss dealing with anger. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: http://www.biblicalcounselingdatabase.net/anger/ You're So Mad You Can't See Straight! Series: How To Tackle What's Tackling You! Steve Wagers https://christiandome.com/christian-dealing-with-anger/ https://scripturesandliving.c...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss the importance of friendship! https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: http://www.biblicalcounselingdatabase.net/friendship/   David: Life Lessons from a King James Merritt I Samuel 18:1-4    https://saintlyliving.com/how-to-build-godly-friendships/   https://paulchappell.com/2009/08/19/1426/ https://bi...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss dealing with trials in life. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: http://a599e113513c527ac189-670dd1579c3c7900b6f15a851c09a63c.r48.cf2.rackcdn.com/uploaded/b/0e2733767_1397657722_bct-manual.pdf?fbclid=IwAR3vCNmDADLMLtX5VQd5qO-tVEPbpSiku3Vtvnpgf4vZVKilm5PluSD7e10 When the Heat's on, Enjoy the Fi...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss what it means to be lonely. https://graceintheshadowsor.org/ Information for this episode was taken from: https://www.khouse.org/articles/2007/699/print/ https://www.biblicalthoughts.org/JesusChildhood.htm https://hopespring.org/2010/12/01/the-lamb-and-the-lion/ https://www.westernjournal.com/jesus-understands-your-loneliness/ I'm so...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss dealing with signs of poor boundaries. Information is taken from Marriage Works Curriculum - Light University Information for this episode was also taken from: https://vertavahealth.com/blog/7-boundaries-to-set-when-a-loved-one-is-addicted/ https://bellevuechristiancounseling.com/articles/a-christian-counselors-perspective-on-healthy-bound...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss dealing with signs of poor boundaries. Information is taken from Marriage Works Curriculum - Light University Information for this episode was also taken from: https://medcircle.com/articles/signs-of-poor-boundaries/ https://www.ibelieve.com/slideshows/10-signs-you-re-bad-at-setting-personal-boundaries.html https://bellevuechristiancounsel...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss dealing with loss in marriage. Information is taken from Marriage Works Curriculum - Light University Information for this episode was also taken from: https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/handling-the-losses-of-life-part-1-715210.html https://tacomachristiancounseling.com/articles/dealing-with-grief-getting-through-lifes-losses-part-...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler discuss sex in marriage. Information is taken from Marriage Works Curriculum - Light University Information for this episode was also taken from: https://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/are-there-rules-for-sex-within-a-christian-marriage/ https://tacomachristiancounseling.com/articles/gods-plan-for-sexual-intimacy-4-principles-for-married-couples...