Grace in the Shadows

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt the chill of loneliness creep in despite being surrounded by people or even in a loving marriage? We, Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler, dare to peel back the layers of this complex emotion, embarking on a fascinating journey to understand its causes and impacts. We dissect recent data from the Guinness World Records of 2023, revealing the 10 loneliest states in...

Send us Fan Mail Fasten your seatbelts as we embark on a journey that's sure to surprise you! We'll reveal how humans have outshined horses in the Olympic Long Jump and uncover the fascinating story behind James Cameron's selling of the Terminator script. You'd be astonished to know it was sold for a mere dollar, with a binding promise that he'd be its director. And if tha...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered about the origins of Mormonism? How it all began with Joseph Smith's vision at the tender age of 14, and his tumultuous journey involving everything from arrests over polygamy to an untimely death at 38? We're diving into it all. We're also delving into the influential role of Brigham Young and the four texts that are central to the faith of Latter-day...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered about the intricate world of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) - how it manifests, its root causes, and the potential roads to recovery? Brace yourself for an enlightening conversation that unravels this complex mental health issue, throwing light on how it can stem from a myriad of experiences - from warfare, and police encounters to pandemics, natural...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how scientists know what rats dream about or the unusual origins of everyday inventions like the microwave and glitter? Satisfy your curiosity with us, Dr Marla and Dr Jonathan Behlr, on this intriguing episode of Grace and the Shadows. We traverse through the quirky world of animal dreams and the history of common household items, revealing some astonishing facts th...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered why your friend posts so frequently about their achievements, their looks, or their acquisitions? In this episode, join us, the Behler duo, as we tread into the intriguing world of narcissistic behaviors on social media platforms, detailing the telltale signs of a narcissist and the different stages of narcissism. Beyond the all too familiar landscape of soc...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered about the origins of the word Xmas? How about the curious history of movie trailers? We've got something fascinating for you! Join us as we journey into these fun facts and immerse ourselves in the intense tale of the Biblical character Samson and his father Manoa. We traverse his life, discussing the Nazarite vow, his fame and power, and, more importantly, the...

Send us Fan Mail What if the Messiah you've been waiting for has already arrived, but he is not what you expected? This episode takes you on an enlightening journey, asking you to reconsider your preconceptions. We delve into the fascinating crux of divergence between Judaism and Christianity, exploring why Jews rejected Jesus 2000 years ago and why this continues to persist. Unravel the comp...

Send us Fan Mail Strap in for a fun-filled ride as we journey across the United States from the comfort of your headphones. We're thrilled to announce Grace in the Shadows' recent expansions in Vermont and New Hampshire and are calling on you, our listeners, to help us build our listener base in Alaska and Rhode Island. As a token of our gratitude, we're giving away a special Grace...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like someone is messing with your mind, making you doubt your own perceptions and feelings? You might be a victim of gaslighting, a manipulative strategy commonly used by malignant narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. In this deep-dive discussion, we, Dr. Marla and Dr Jonathan Behler, get real about the devastating impact of gaslighting on its victims, explor...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what heaven would feel like? This enlightening conversation with Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler takes us on a journey to understanding heaven as a place of boundless joy and contentment, where every teardrop is wiped away. We discuss the transformation of earthly emotions like sorrow and grief into divine love and how memories, regardless of their nature, will no...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine having a handle on your anger, not just controlling it but using it in a way that aligns with the teachings of the Bible. That's precisely what you'll learn in our thoughtful discussion about the profound significance of managing anger from a Biblical perspective. We delve into the powerful verse, "Be angry and sin not," and how it shapes our daily live...

Send us Fan Mail How much do you really know about love and narcissism? Strap in for an enlightening journey into the world of narcissists and their complex understanding of love. We unfold how they see relationships as ego-boosters, not as a platform for mutual love. You'll be surprised to learn how this skewed viewpoint can lead to many misconceptions about love and its true essence. We&apo...

Send us Fan Mail Are we alone in the universe, or is there a possibility of life in distant galaxies? Prepare to challenge your presumptions as we take an entertaining, mind-bending ride through the enigma of extraterrestrial life. We'll also delve into some intriguing side topics, drawing back the curtain on the captivating life of Wally Amos, the talent behind famous celebrities such as Dia...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever wonder about the incredible design of the human body or the origins of your favorite chocolate cake? Join us on this enlightening journey through the wonders of the cornea, the hard-hitting movie Sound of Freedom, and the unexpected Texan roots of the German chocolate cake. We even dive into the forgotten world of the first animated feature film L Apostol, crafted in A...

Send us Fan Mail Has the spirit of the Antichrist infiltrated our world and the church? This burning question forms the backdrop of our enlightening conversation, where we decipher how this spirit is manifesting in various shapes and sizes. Alongside such a profound discussion, we'll also share some intriguing trivia - from the true origins of Chicago's 'Windy City' nickname to...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why dealing with narcissists feels like a draining tug-of-war? We're unraveling this complex knot for you, giving you insights into why treating them the way they treat you often escalates the conflict and becomes an emotional drain. We highlight a crucial aspect you need to remember: narcissists thrive on conflict and drama. By responding in kind, you might onl...

Send us Fan Mail Did you know that in Canada, an apology isn't considered an admission of guilt? Or that a Pizzy Bear is the unique offspring of a Polar Bear and a Grizzly Bear? We bring in these facts as an ice-breaker before discussing more serious issues. Our hearts have been heavy with worry after a car accident involving our daughter, yet this incident has given us more insight into the...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why closure seems elusive when dealing with narcissists in relationships? Well, you're not alone. Join us, Dr. Marla Behler and Dr. Jonathan Behler, as we dive into the perplexing world of narcissism, highlighting why closure remains an uphill task. From lack of empathy to fear of vulnerability and aggressive control and manipulation tactics, we unpack how these...

Send us Fan Mail Are you feeling the weight of anxiety? Ever wondered how it intersects with your Christian faith? We've got you covered. In our enlightening discussion, we touch base on anxiety's prevalence – particularly in the wake of COVID-19. Guess what? Even biblical stalwarts like Moses, Elijah, and Jeremiah experienced anxiety! It's intriguing, but God designed us with the f...

Send us Fan Mail Join Dr. Jonathan Beeler and  Dr. Marla Behler as we peel back the layers of our personal narrative, a unique love story that began in 1996, tested by the trials of anxiety. Have you ever felt the mental health stigma weighs heavily on your shoulders? We did, but we found strength in each other, learning to navigate these waters with resilience, faith, and love. Stepping off our h...

Send us Fan Mail Ever walk through a storm and come out the other side feeling more alive, more connected to something greater than you? That's the power of brokenness we're exploring today. On a journey from the rainy landscapes of Mobile, Alabama to the sun-drenched vistas of Phoenix, Arizona, we're taking a metaphorical road trip through the trials and joys that life throws at us...

Send us Fan Mail Ever been sunburnt so badly you blacked out? Well, you're not alone. Come along as we share a hilarious tale of a sun-soaked trip to San Diego where a day under the sun left Marla and her sister questioning their whereabouts. We'll also discover some intriguing trivia, like the peculiar physiology of a shrimp and the accidental invention of the ever-refreshing popsicle....

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered how the Eiffel Tower gets taller in summer or why human teeth are the only body part that can't self-heal? Dive into this riveting new episode where we unpack these fascinating trivia and navigate the life of an intriguing biblical character, Samson. We'll explore his unfulfilled potential, his place in the Hall of Faith in Hebrews 11, and the soci...

Send us Fan Mail As we navigate the alarming impact of the porn industry, we discover shocking statistics, such as the fact that over 40 million Americans regularly visit porn sites. This industry generates more revenue than the NFL, NBA, and MLB combined, and its effects are felt in nearly half of all families. As we share our personal struggles with technology, we ask for your prayers as we face...