Girl, Date the Good Guy | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

Not every man who claims Christ reflects Christ in his character. In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down 6 biblical red flags that reveal when ego — not the Holy Spirit — is leading a man’s behavior. Learn how to discern pride, instability, lack of accountability, emotional manipulation, and counterfeit empathy in Christian dating. This episode will help yo...

He posts Scriptures. He serves at church. He sounds spiritual. But does his private character match his public Christianity? In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down how to discern the difference between a good church guy and a God-led man. Because not every man who talks about God is led by Him. Using biblical wisdom from Matthew 7:15–16, James 1:22, 2 Corin...

This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your permission slip to stop settling. If you’ve ever looked back and wondered, “Why did I accept that?” “Why did I tolerate so little?” “Why did I shrink to keep someone?” This episode is not about shame. It’s about awakening. In this powerful and healing message, we unpack why you accepted less in past relationships — and why that chapter does not define you. Thr...

In this emotional and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares her personal testimony of spending years praying for a relationship that never changed—and the painful truth God revealed about staying in unhealthy, disrespectful, and abusive situations. Many Christian women are taught that endurance equals faithfulness. But in this episode, Emily exposes that lie and reveals what...

Are you stuck entertaining “Mr. Right Now” — the man who gives attention but no commitment? In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily Jordan exposes why temporary men delay your destiny and how emotional attachments can block God’s best for your future. Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and practical royal training, you’ll learn how to recognize distractions, set godly...

(Christian Dating, Healing, Waiting on God, Faith-Based Encouragement) This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is both a gentle word of encouragement and a powerful prayer for the woman who is waiting on God with her heart. 💗 If you’re single this Valentine’s Day… If you’ve ever wondered when your love story will begin… If you’re healing from heartbreak and learning how to trust again… This episode is for...

In this powerful Valentine’s Day edition of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily delivers a life-changing message for every woman who has ever been tempted to text the wrong man, reopen an old door, or repeat a broken relationship cycle. If you’ve been trying to make something work that was never sent by God… If you’ve struggled with emotional attachment, loneliness, soul ties, or going back to unhealth...

If Valentine’s Day has you feeling single, forgotten, discouraged, or tempted to settle, this episode is for you. In “Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story,” Emily speaks directly to the woman who is waiting, healing, and trusting God with her heart—especially during a season when love seems to be everywhere except in her own life. Through personal testimony, biblical tru...

What if the reason you haven’t experienced the fullness of God’s goodness isn’t because He’s holding out on you—but because your heart learned to stay closed just to survive? In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily opens up about heartbreak, healing, and the quiet ways pain teaches us to protect instead of surrender. Inspired by Justin Bieber’s song “Open Up Your Heart,” this conversation explo...

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak hope, peace, and truth into the heart of the woman waiting for God’s best in love. This episode is for the woman who desires a Godly man, but is learning to let God be her first love while she waits. We explore what it truly means to be loved the way Christ loves—with patience, faithfulness, humility, and sacrificial car...

In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan speaks directly to the woman who wakes up with anxiety, racing thoughts, and a restless spirit — even when life looks “fine” on the outside. With honesty, biblical truth, and deep compassion, this episode explores why anxiety is often a signal of spiritual disconnection rather than personal failure, and why lasting peace cannot be found in the worl...

In this special announcement episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares what God has placed on her heart as Valentine’s Day approaches—and why this season is too important to stay silent about. If you’ve been healing from heartbreak, feeling lonely, tempted to go back to old patterns, or wondering if God still has a love story for you… this episode is for you. Emily opens up about her own jo...

Have you ever found yourself asking, “Is this my anxious attachment acting up… or is something actually off with him?” You’re not crazy—and you’re not alone. In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down one of the most confusing questions Christian women face in dating: How do you tell the difference between your own anxiety and a man’s inconsistent behavior? Drawing from...

What if God loves you right where you are—not the future, more healed version of you… but you, today? In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life and truth over the woman who feels unworthy, distant from God, or stuck in cycles of shame, sin, or darkness. This episode is a gentle royal pause—an invitation to rest in the truth that God’s love is not based on p...

In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan tackles one of the most confusing questions Christian women face while dating: Is he a red flag… or is he just growing? With honesty, compassion, and biblical wisdom, this episode breaks down how to discern between a man who is genuinely growing in Christ and one who is emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unsafe — even if he claims to love Go...

If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this healthy… or am I just attached?” this episode is for you. In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re breaking down seven clear signs you’re dating a good guy — not based on butterflies, chemistry, or emotional highs, but on peace, safety, consistency, and God-led discernment. So many Christian women have been taught to confuse anxiety with attraction and in...

Have you ever realized that you’ve been surviving for so long, you forgot who you were before the pain? In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life, truth, and hope into the woman who has been living in survival mode after heartbreak. This episode is for the woman who learned how to protect herself, stay guarded, and keep going—but is now exhausted and ready...

In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan opens up about the version of herself that lived in survival mode — functioning, pushing forward, and coping — but not truly healed. Through personal testimony and faith-filled reflection, she shares how heartbreak, loss, and prolonged pain can teach us how to survive while quietly disconnecting us from our hearts, our identity, and even God. This...

Friends with benefits is often sold as freedom, empowerment, and “no-strings-attached” fun — but why does it leave so many women feeling emptier, more anxious, and more broken than before? In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily exposes the spiritual, emotional, and relational truth behind friends with benefits — a dating pattern God never designed and one that quietly breaks women’s hea...

Sis, come sit with me — no fixing, no explaining, just truth. When heartbreak whispers that you weren’t enough, this episode holds a gentle space to 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss a...

When sickness, whispers, and old accusations swarmed her life, she did the bold thing: she stood up and spoke. In this episode of Girl Behind the Mic, our host invites you into a moment of honest struggle and fierce faith, declaring the truth that whatever the enemy forms, it will not prosper. Short, stirring, and unapologetically hopeful, this episode turns pain into a prayerful battle cry—‘You c...

In this transformative episode, Emily Jordan shares how God restored her identity after divorce, emotional loss, and years of healing. Through four practical teachings, she helps women recognize unhealthy patterns, reject shame, and rebuild confidence in Christ. This episode equips listeners to date from wholeness instead of wounds. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the...

In this companion episode, Emily Jordan explores how spiritual roots deepen in seasons of silence and waiting. You’ll learn how God transforms pain into purpose and prepares your heart for healthy, God-led relationships. This episode offers encouragement for women in slow-healing seasons. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing,...

She takes you to a single, quiet moment—a dried branch on her mailbox—and from that small, ordinary scene unfolds a life-changing story of loss, surrender, and renewal. Through a season of hardship in 2016, she learns that what looks beautiful in a vase cannot sustain the soul. Using the image of Jesus as the vine and us as the branches, she walks listeners through the stripping seasons, the painf...

In this powerful episode, Emily Jordan shares five essential areas every woman must heal—heart, mind, identity, patterns, and relationship with God—before entering her next love story. Using personal testimony and spiritual insight, she teaches how to break toxic cycles, rebuild biblical boundaries, and prepare emotionally and spiritually for Christ-centered relationships. A must-listen for women...